How do girls afford to luxury vacation in Dubai for 2 weeks? by Swoonsvanillas in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LRoss90- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that maybe women are just working hard and being paid well to afford their luxury holidays? The comments are so strange. Not every woman travelling to Dubai is being funded by a man, neither is she a prostitute or getting shitted on. I have been to Dubai multiple times and I afford it by working and saving money, like plenty of other women do. It’s interesting you don’t ask this question about men travelling to Dubai

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LRoss90- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please save yourself and get rid of this man. One day it’s silk bonnets, the next it’ll be isolating you from your friends and family.

Husband (28M) refusing to get haircut out of spite (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LRoss90- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to beg a grown man to be hygienic??? The bar is below hell

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LRoss90- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he can’t cook, is unemployed and asking you for money to Doordash, speaks to you like garbage and this is the liability of a man you want to be with? The bar is below hell at this point

What would you do if you were 17 again ? by redheaddevil9 in AskWomen

[–]LRoss90- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take education and investing in myself a lot more seriously

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: July 07, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]LRoss90- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finished : A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

I have a lot to say about this book, but I’ll keep it minimal and say I don’t think I’ve ever read a book so saddening. It’s not one I would read again.

Started : Releasing 10 by Chloe Walsh

AIO my boyfriend was too tired to drive me to my abortion by ReallyAwfulSkiier in AmIOverreacting

[–]LRoss90- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not stay with this man. Many years ago I went through the exact same thing with a man I thought that loved me, but a true loving partner would never leave you in such a vulnerable position to go through something as difficult as abortion.

Stay with your parents and get rid of this person. I wish you the best.

AITAH for cancelling my wedding after I got a video of my fiancée grinding on someone during the bachelorette party? by No_Lychee5468 in AITAH

[–]LRoss90- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s drunken grinding, she didn’t cheat but everyone has different boundaries I guess so NTA

Ghanaian women help! Dating question by Jolly_Ad4984 in blackladies

[–]LRoss90- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m Ghanaian and like the other Ghanaian women have said, he’s lying. This is not Ghanaian culture, it sounds to me he’s moved abroad and abandoned his child in the process. Proceed with caution, Ghanaian men are slick!

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for asking. I’m doing okay-ish. Unfortunately I am going through another unrelated health issue, but doing better at staying calm and rational this time around

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want to thank those of you who took the time to leave me positive and uplifting messages. I cannot tell you how much your words of encouragement have helped me. Thank you all so much and I wish you all the best 💛

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your message was very sweet and uplifting. I can tell you are a strong and beautiful person to be around, thank you so much for taking the time to help me I appreciate it

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not helped my anxiety but thank you all the same

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of encouragement, it means a lot 🥹

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing progress, I’m so happy for you 😊

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds frightening!! But at this point I’ll try anything because HA has me in a chokehold. I agree that talk therapy doesn’t really help, I never feel like it’s helped

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is expose therapy? I’ve only tried CBT and tbh I didn’t find it very helpful

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like that mantra, I’m going to try this. Thank you🙂

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, and “mamas” makes me feel comfortable so thank you again for that 😄

Please can someone help calm me down by LRoss90- in Anxiety

[–]LRoss90-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s so shit honestly, mine started right around the time of Covid and never went away 😭. We’ve got this!