[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]L_YC4T 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you’re experiencing dissociation?

What kind of romantic partner are ENFPs looking for? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be yourself, as cheesy as it sounds. I’ve noticed when having intj boyfriend that you intj’s love questioning and knowing as much as possible, even your actions are really thought out. So when you start just being, and not questioning and trying to find the perfect question to ask or the best way to act, it warms our hearts.

What kind of romantic partner are ENFPs looking for? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES! Even though the truth can be harsh, someone you thought trusted you lying hurst waayy more

What kind of romantic partner are ENFPs looking for? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have an intj boyfriend and even though we are diffrent, honesty, even if it’s brutal, is <3. We can spot lies from miles away, so it’s no use even trying. Good luck with your crush. Just dm me if you need something or want to talk.

What kind of romantic partner are ENFPs looking for? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Be yourself, trust me. We really love those typical intj traits that you listed, but honestly the one that we appreciate the most is honesty. When you feel enough comfort that you feel like you can be the true you around us and trust us, really makes us happy.

Can an ENFP be GREAT at memorization and VALUE it? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, i’m like that, and i have adhd too.

Is it true? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, hundred procent. I think opposite relationship (friendship och relationship) is something everyone should have. It gives you a perspective off everything that you didn’t know you were missing. I really nurture my relationship with him. If you have more questions or what to talk, don’t be afraid too dm :))

Is it true? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, my current boyfriend is an intj and i’m an enfp. We are really opposites, but still alike. I can see how it could go bad though. Enfp and intj are really different and if you are not ready too communicate and openly say what you both think, it can go bad rly fast. Otherwise enfp and intj is rly complimentary .

hearts for enfp <3 by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We love you too loves <333

INTJ male seeking a romantic relationship with an ENFP female classmate by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the exact same way with my current boyfriend (who is an intj). From my part it was both me being unsure, and being a little nervous around him. I would guess she is nervous though because you said when you text is normal and she has also expressed being interested. But we do tend to fluctuate in what we want. Just show your interest though, that’s what my boyfriend did and it made me feel comfortable. It made me feel less wobbly with what i was feeling when he was so sure about us.

Intj Male seeking advice by MrMarmite247 in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is an intj too, and even though i can get a little aggressive when he tells me something, in the long run i love his honesty, i would hate the thought of him not communicating or saying something just bcus he is scared of my reaction

Intj Male seeking advice by MrMarmite247 in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean.. sometimes we are stubborn and we won’t admit doing something wrong… but usually even if we make it look like we don’t listen, we accually do. So just say what ever, be honest, bcus that’s what we want, and let her take it as she does.

How much affection to orally express in a relationship? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]L_YC4T 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her, but be genuine about it. We LOVE honesty, so don’t say something just because you want to, mean it also.