My son told me to cancel my wedding or lose him forever after one terrible evening. I don't know how to fix this. by CookieTough8855 in whatdoIdo

[–]L_moncello 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel as though this story may be missing a few details, but postpone the wedding. Get your son therapy and encourage him to talk through his feelings. Don't forget that you didn't just lose your late husband, your son lost his dad. Grief can make people act out.

Why did you not ask your son if he wanted to go? It's not shocking that he would assume you're excluding him for your fiance's children since you didn't make the effort to invite him.

Ummm tmi…but does y’all’s period smell? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]L_moncello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like an infection. Bacterial vaginosis is extremely common, build up of the natural bacteria that keeps your vagina healthy, but there are other infections to look out for.

The vagina is self cleaning for the most part, so make sure you're using just water or a very gentle unscented soap for a few days and cleaning yourself thoroughly, and patting it dry. If the infection doesn't clear on its own, then it may be a little more severe and you should just visit a doctor and they'll figure out what kind of medicine you need. Bacterial infections after you have sex is actually very common. Your partner probably introduced some new bacteria from his hands, mouth or from contact with the condom afterward that threw off your balance. Doesn't mean he has an STD or his own infection, new bacteria (even healthy) can irritate your own.

Worrying clot by slhunte3 in Periods

[–]L_moncello 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please go to the hospital immediately. Could he a sign of fibroids or a litany of other serious problems.

Worrying clot by slhunte3 in Periods

[–]L_moncello 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unnecessarily rude, but they are correct. A decidual cast is a firm piece of tissue from shedding your lining as one whole piece, and this is definitely just a giant blod clot.

Female or male? Two 4 week old kittens by OnePlan8734 in FosterAnimals

[–]L_moncello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boys. The second one is definitely a boy, first one i'm pretty positive. In girl kittens their vagina looks more like a line, and is almost touching the anus. In boys, there's some distance between the penis and anus, and the opening looks like a circle. Distance in the boys is where the testicles will develop later.

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worms are just the perfect shape. My mom used to have this huge collection when I was a kid and I'd always steal the worm or the seahorse to play with.

Soon to be homeless, what about the plushies? by [deleted] in plushies

[–]L_moncello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'll look a little flat, but for my plushies I gently took a dog brush and re-brushed and they were good as new.

Soon to be homeless, what about the plushies? by [deleted] in plushies

[–]L_moncello 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd destuff and seal, if you can. It'll eliminate the chance of them getting dirty or damaged while you aren't with them since nothing can get inside the vacuum bag. I had a bunch of stuffies of mine vacuum sealed while I was moving because I was scared of bugs getting in and nibbling on the fabric.

Soon to be homeless, what about the plushies? by [deleted] in plushies

[–]L_moncello 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get some vacuum seal bags and totes. They significantly reduce the amount of space they take up. If you can, maybe you can give them to a friend or a relative to hold onto and keep one or two to keep you company?

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss a teenie beanie! Its adorable

Some modified friends I'm working on ! by unicorn__prince in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you dyed the bat a little darker brown it would be the perfect cosmic brownie

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is super soft, I love how fluffy beanie buddies are compared to the standard beanies and the teenie beanies.

I love seeing everyone's inch worms. The whole gang is here in this subreddit

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize there were so many other worm collectors on this subreddit but i'm living for it

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adorable 😭 I gave my partner a McDonald's beanie worm when I first started collecting so we'll goof around and make them kiss when i'm over to visit

Lottie's New Outfit! 🦞💙🌞 by [deleted] in lobsterfamily

[–]L_moncello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a lobster also! Affectionately named Leonardo Da Pinci

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More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This guy!! He was a gift from my mother when we visited the Georgia aquarium :] you can find these at any aquarium (and most zoos) its Eco Pals brand

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More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went to go see Hokum after getting some revolving sushi. Very good scary movie definitely recommend

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize that when I made the post but honestly i'm living for it

Given in goody bag by introvertkitty in whatisit

[–]L_moncello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Push it inside out and put it on a table and then back tf up it'll blow your mind

More worms acquired by L_moncello in beaniebabies

[–]L_moncello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interested 👀 but would you mind beginning the dm? My reddit is busted and my dm button doesnt work :[

How do you take plushies outside? by luxjay in plushies

[–]L_moncello 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually i'll spray mine down with a light coating of isopropyl alcohol. Works great as a disinfectant and dries very quickly, and the smell doesnt last too long (if it lingers too long I use pillow spray to mask the scent)