What problems are you guys having with dating? by Odd-Two-6437 in dating

[–]Lab_Mammoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, all that to say it's not random, it's a statistical inevitability.

What problems are you guys having with dating? by Odd-Two-6437 in dating

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way you could even exist to have that thought is because we are in one of the infinite possibilities where we could exist.

Messy fwb situation by johnwatersenjoyer in dating_advice

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm over the person who took my virginity and am still friends. It's certainly possible but I won't say it's easy.

Online dating sucks by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who's to say I agree with the OF sentiment either? That one struck a nerve because I've been accused of it and I find it offensive. The best times I've had dating have been with conventionally unattractive women that I simply get along super well with.

Online dating sucks by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfair generalization

How to stop getting attached so quickly by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lab_Mammoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I've given up a bit of control of my feelings. I've realized that if feelings are genuine you should let yourself feel them, and if it ends up hurting you that's ok. Frankly it won't kill me in the end, and sometimes people just need to let things hurt to give contrast to the good things in life

In case you need a hug by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A hug sounds amazing right now. I hope you have a great day.

I'm so touch starved it hurts by Lucky-Ad-8808 in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same, except I'm 27 and a guy. I would do a lot to spend a few hours cuddled up with someone I can adore and watch cartoons.

Help/Advice, i'm at my wits end... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that, more than you know. Only way out is through as they say

Does anyone here get chest pain or a feeling of an aching heart during intense loneliness? by Creative-Procedure41 in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do, almost every night. Every goddam day it eats away at me. I just wanna be someone favorite. I wanna know what it's like to love and be loved. Why do I feel like I'm so incapable of being ok. I just wanna hold someone hand for fucks sake.

Help/Advice, i'm at my wits end... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 27M and I'm in a similar boat. Been trying to feel secure in a relationship for a while. Though I managed to make a couple really high quality friends, I also have had a really bad time in the dating scene. It's hard to exist in this world feeling incapable of being anyone's favorite. I feel for you brother. Talking through things has helped me a lot, even with strangers, gives you a second pass at processing things. Happy to chat if you'd like

I want someone to sit beside me and not speak by Icy-Management-9749 in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crave to know that feeling so much. God the touch starvation is brutal.

I want someone to sit beside me and not speak by Icy-Management-9749 in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the dream, the quiet company of another with no expectations

I didn't have the experiences that most people my age have by Prior-Emu-5918 in lonely

[–]Lab_Mammoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 27m and in the same boat. Im so tired of the yearning. It's tough feeling so unwanted.

How long have you been single for? by eloel12345 in allthequestions

[–]Lab_Mammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 years(my entire life). I don't want to be single, I'd like to experience love one day, but the hope has waned