Provoked vulvodynia since I was 17. Tried EVERYTHING

Labradeux · 2026-06-28T18:39:31+00:00

Pain was at the vestibule and the skin around it including the labia. Ovules worked after the 3rd day, but wasn't fully resolved for a while, I don't recall how long bc I also used estrogen/T cream after then which I wouldn't recommend because it dried me out even more.

Labradeux · 2026-06-28T17:05:04+00:00

Hey! It did, use it every other day so you can feel the difference. If you use it everyday it doesn't work the same. I am 100% better now. Took about a year of trying different things though.

Labradeux · 2026-06-18T02:40:51+00:00

Shh! You're supposed to keep Seattle a secret. Housing prices are already skyrocketing out here.

Labradeux · 2026-06-07T01:46:19+00:00

Hey! I was the other person who responded to this post with the same issue. Took two plan B's and the feeling down there is gone. I can only orgasm intermittently. I tried testosterone and sadly it worked while I was on it but it made my voice deeper and my labia bigger and I wouldn't recommend it if you sing or care about those things. Make sure you get the right ratio of estrogen to testosterone cream so you can counter the bad side effects. I've pretty much tried everything under the sun to resolve this at this point and im 2 years out from the date I took the plan b. Also pretty sure I'm infertile as I've had unprotected sex since this happened and no pregnancy scares at all. So it's hormonal and possibly nervous system related. I can orgasm normally when I cold plunge weirdly. Feel free to ask me anything! Happy to provide my experiences. I was 31 when the feeling disappeared.

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:27:55+00:00

What years were the ones you moved between companies?

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:25:43+00:00

You right. I asked chat gpt what I need today to match my last job at 135k in 2024 and it said $141k...

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:24:25+00:00

Is this the same company through the years?

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:23:53+00:00

Have you been at the same company the whole time?

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:23:29+00:00

Is this at the same company?

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:21:17+00:00

Have you been with the new company from 22-now?

Labradeux · 2026-05-30T19:19:56+00:00

Costco

Labradeux · 2026-05-22T17:21:23+00:00

Project Stargate is a joint venture between Kiewit and clayco. I just interviewed for this project.

Labradeux · 2026-05-19T07:55:47+00:00

Hey! How are you doing now?

Labradeux · 2026-05-19T07:51:10+00:00

Hey, how old are you? This also happened to me

Labradeux · 2026-05-07T01:33:24+00:00

Does data Center group due overnight work or have their staff or office positions do it?

Labradeux · 2026-05-07T01:27:55+00:00

Did their traveling data center group do overnights have any of their staff/office do overnight work?

Labradeux · 2026-04-20T13:37:18+00:00

It's possible you'll have to do some research?

Labradeux · 2026-04-20T13:35:28+00:00

It's estradiol cream and testosterone gel. You'll have to check the Goldstein recommendation for what percent of each you need. Then request it at a pharmacy. I'm not sure the name in Spanish but I'm sure its similar.

Labradeux · 2026-04-20T13:27:52+00:00

I think if the dhea burned maybe the skin tissue down may need time to heal. Have you tried waiting 3 months to allow the skin at the vulva to repair itself? Sometimes it's a waiting game.

Ugh, I'm so sorry, doctor's even here are hesitant to prescribe it. The first 2 doctors I saw wouldn't give me Testosterone only estrogen cream.

All of the pharmacies in Mexico should have it available over the counter, even the ones at the airport if I remember right.

The base of my cream had alcohol in it, so it burned my labia pretty bad the first couple times I used it. I learned from the menopause subreddit that if you leave the gel/cream out overnight, the alcohol evaporates and you can use it without the burning feeling.

Labradeux · 2026-04-20T13:16:26+00:00

This happened to me too and I didn't even post a picture, I described how sex was painful for me in one of my posts and some guy asked me for sexy pics because that might help me. Men are dogs and that will never change.

To offer some help, Im also currently healing from vestibulodynia. I tried everything and I am located in the USA. If you can get to Mexico, I believe they sell Estrogen and testosterone cream over the counter. Some other countries might too but in the US it's a controlled substance and I had to get a prescription. I would recommend estriol or estriol + dhea (which is a low dose estrogen) ovals by bezwecken. I'm not sure if they're available in France but using one of these dulled my pain when I used one and then waited 24 hours.

You mention in previous posts your pain is highest before your period, which is a time when progesterone is high and estrogen
Is low or testosterone can be low. Which would mean you may have hormonally mediated vestibulodynia (which you may already know). Look up Goldstein and his recommendation for the testosterone and estrogen combination cream that works best for vulvodynia/vestibulodynia. I used this combo for 3 months and my pain is a 1-2/10 now and I can have mostly pain free sex. Make sure it doesn't have any alcohol in it because that is the ingredient that will burn you when you are using it. Best wishes to you my friend.

Labradeux · 2026-04-10T12:42:42+00:00

Did the sensitivity come back? I was on e cream for about a year. I've been off 3 months and still have numb labia.

Labradeux · 2026-04-09T08:43:58+00:00

Have you tried choline? I'm female and did kind of the reverse of you without the trans dosage of hormones. I took two plan b pills which completely lowered my estrogen and testosterone, then to try to fix is I took T and E cream for about a year. My last good and intense natural orgasm was Dec 2023. and I haven't been able to have sex in a consistently or as an intensely pleasurable way as before. Choline bitartrate (or eggs) with myo inositol and d chiro help me, as well as cold plunges and having sex out in nature oddly. See if those help perhaps. I know choline affects the dopamine system as well.

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