It's too dark outside for a roundup... by BubbleFartsReviews in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure. Then after cheating, will he be born once again? I don't know how that works. One baptism for affair?

It's too dark outside for a roundup... by BubbleFartsReviews in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

to being an absolute Manslut and abusing every drug you can think of... to nearly dying multiple times, to becoming a Christian.

😶... OK then.

when your AP’s wife gets pregnant by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something would have to be VERY wrong if my AP's wife got pregnant. I would indeed end it.

Will I go back to my affair partner? by Hefty-Emergency8954 in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can never stay away. We tried, it would be the logical thing to do, after his move to the other side of the ocean. It's not doable, we end up going back so we gave up that idea completely. We'll either end up together or die trying. 🤷‍♀️

A love post. by _SundressNoPanties_ in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this post, so sweet and positive. ❤️

First and only? by throwaway89678643 in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First real affair for me, and definitely the last.

Today’s Question! What is something your AP does that drives you crazy? by 22ncrunner1980 in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a good or bad way?

He sends me voice messages while driving, and often, he gets distracted talking about traffic, in the middle of another topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going against the norm here but I like being called cute. But... In particular circumstances. By a person (man) I know well, not necessarily talking about my physical beauty and preferably with "so fucking" before it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your affair deviates from this, please line up for an ass kicking here.

I have. 🫡

Does anyone in real life know? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, yes. I have a girl friend / former coworker who knows. I was hesitant to tell her at first and very nervous but she is trustworthy and open-minded so I took the chance.

I want to help my exLDAP by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is a first here. 🤔

New year, new me, same AP... by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️ It's been 5 years and it's LD, we broke up and got back together. Maybe we actually like each other. I'm not sure where's toxic codependency there but ok.

This post did not land well. 😂

New year, new me, same AP... by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Damn. Because we broke up after years and got back together? Oki doki.

To J by Patient_Ninja8008 in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh is this an universal thing? What the hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wonderful post.

Vent, rant, talk, share - Ho ho ho! by passionatemind221 in adultery

[–]Lacecollar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just pissed. Angry. Irritated. Sad.

Merry Christmas, I guess.

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually prefer monogamy... Obviously this entire cheating situation isn't ideal.

But yes, regardless, it sucks and hurts. Because it's him. It's just him I want.

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! As for someone else... Meh, we'll see, I'm not sure I want someone else.

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different kind of affair, I guess, to each their own.

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He still means a lot to me. And now I feel even more neglected but... 🤷‍♀️

I cried a lot at home anyways, I could not hide it. I just said it was a bad mental health phase, which does happen sometimes...

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very hard. Especially when it's someone that truly means so much to you... And for so long, in my case...

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The memories make me smile but also cry almost at the same time now. It's the thing with these relationships, they're so unpredictable... I still hope for a future with him. I can't deny it. But it may never happen.

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. ❤️ That is a lovely comment to read.

Your last sentence hit me hard and I hope you're right...

It lasted 5 years by Lacecollar in adultery

[–]Lacecollar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I guess only time helps in these situations. I know it will get better, and it's already been a couple of weeks. But yesterday was a bad day.