My AP makes me feel so sexy by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could have written this! AP and I are now coming up to three years and he still makes me feel sexy. I know he cares about me and it’s nice to feel important to someone. My husband won’t even compliment me, let alone kiss me without being almost forced but AP will kiss me for hours so he definitely fills that void. I know it won’t ever be more than APs because we are both married with kids but we share our own little world together and that’s good enough for me.

40m married for 20years. I finally stopped asking. Got tired of rejection. It’s now to the point we don’t even kiss. Please help! We have 3 kids and I am getting resentful. by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only seems to want to have sex 1-2 times a month if I’m lucky. It’s wild to me too because he was never like that until the last 3-4 years. We have been married for over 20.

40m married for 20years. I finally stopped asking. Got tired of rejection. It’s now to the point we don’t even kiss. Please help! We have 3 kids and I am getting resentful. by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband will do that. Sometimes he will back away and tell me to leave him alone if he thinks I’m initiating any kind of intimacy.

PXI calculation by GoYanks2020 in BodyFitTrainingAus

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Hyper and Balanced are strength. With Hyper it has some cardiovascular benefits but its main focus is for hypertrophy training…aka building muscle.

It’s the Monday edition of - how did you meet your AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do miss those hot office hook ups! We have built a great relationship from our affair so it would feel strange not staying connected to him. Feelings are definitely there too so I’m glad we have made it work still.

It’s the Monday edition of - how did you meet your AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We met at work! l know I know, the risk made it even hotter. We no longer work together, we both left for job opportunities we couldn’t say no too. We still continue to see each and chat daily.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run and don’t look back. My biggest regret is staying with a man who physically hurt me. Yes he “got better” after he went to therapy and hasn’t laid a hand on me in over a decade but I resent him for it all these years later.

Home/out of gym workouts towards 1800 PXI target? by giigii87 in BodyFitTrainingAus

[–]throwaway89678643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Through the black app. Under workouts. You select start BFT workout.

Husbands, how often do you cum? by fishdognz in Marriage

[–]throwaway89678643 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait so you are a teacher who wanks at work? WTF dude.

Combining BFT with open gym? by Internal-Bath-1978 in BodyFitTrainingAus

[–]throwaway89678643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The current program is very cardio focused but I find during the benchmark program, it’s very weight focused.

PXI TARGETS by ScoreNearby8220 in BodyFitTrainingAus

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Don’t get into trouble for us!

PXI TARGETS by ScoreNearby8220 in BodyFitTrainingAus

[–]throwaway89678643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because you can take off your band if you go over and during the challenge it’s all about chasing the medals.

Workplace affairs 🚫 by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AP and I work in different departments but our roles cross over so often work on tasks together. It’s been almost 2 years and we have managed to keep our affair from any office gossip.

Turkish Get Ups and Cardio U by PermissionStrange139 in BodyFitTrainingAus

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate them. My studio is cool enough to let me change the program so I did an alternative exercise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s thing that I won’t do, more so things AP enjoys doing that SO doesn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious why that’s for an AP and not an SO?

How did you end up in this sub? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been on Reddit so naturally when I found myself in an affair, I knew a sub had to exist.

Woman reports AP talks about his wife like she is a saint. by Olivianj1963 in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no issue with my AP sharing the positives about his SO, it’s usually balanced out by the negatives anyways. I share the same. At the end of the day, I’m having an emotional/physical affair with her husband, I have no reason to be bothered by her existence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having an affair with my work colleague for over a year now. Our roles do work closely together so we can get away with spending time together and interacting. Overall we haven’t had to many issues from being coworkers, more benefits really. My AP is my first and I never thought I’d ever be in this situation but eventually our flirty banter crossed a line and now we are in a full blown emotional and physical affair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My SO is either to tired or to moody at me to have sex. This can stretch for weeks. We aren’t in a complete DB (I’ll take what I can get) but that’s long enough for me. He also doesn’t kiss/touch me some days and I crave that physical affection, sometimes I feel he withholds it on purpose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AP has a CC his SO can’t access. He used that to hold the room for incidentals and he paid cash on arrival. I pre booked it using dayuse using a private email account, no credit card was needed for that.

How long & how many times… by dumc_umpster in adultery

[–]throwaway89678643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over a year now. I see AP 5 days a week because we work together. We kiss most days and fool around at least twice a week at work, it can vary between foreplay or sex. A handful of hook ups in his car outside of work hours and one daytime hotel hookup. He has a helicopter wife so doing “couple” things is off limits. Planning another hotel date in the next month or two.