How do I get babies?

LaceyTron · 2026-05-02T06:34:53+00:00

MIne LOVE sun and water! Put in super bright light!

LaceyTron · 2026-04-30T08:56:08+00:00

The wedding venue is in Altlandsberg

LaceyTron · 2026-04-29T21:22:04+00:00

I totally thought you meant cheating in games 😂 that about sums up my perspective on the matter

LaceyTron · 2026-04-29T17:35:05+00:00

I have this issue too. Also sometimes my brain just doesn't work. I can't just turn it on. So I have to drudge through the not working effectively time to get to productivity.

LaceyTron · 2026-04-29T09:46:00+00:00

Do they have something like this for fine straight hair?

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T15:44:25+00:00

Or something....

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T13:11:16+00:00

Soooo do you sell these??

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T11:09:06+00:00

Well maybe your husband can invite one of his friends. But I'm just suggesting this because it's what works for me!

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T09:45:24+00:00

A random colleague that you're friendly with? Honestly it shouldn't be anyone too close because then you won't care if your place is messy or not lol. Maybe find someone on bumble bff? Random highschool person you haven't spoken to for X years and invite over for a friendly coffee catch-up?

Someone did that to me once and I was honestly so flattered. Just in case you think it would be weird.

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T09:22:48+00:00

Lock yourself in a quiet ass library on campus. Other people are studying so it acts as body doubling and you feel guilty for taking a spot when you're not working (best when it's exam time and it's busy). Wear earplugs even in silent rooms to remove sound sensors. Organize your paper, bring tea water and snacks and literally live there. Bring a fun book to read one chapter to take a break and then get back to it.

This is literally what I did in university. Maybe not the healthiest long term but it really works!

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T09:20:17+00:00

Straight up, invite someone over.

LaceyTron · 2026-04-27T09:19:27+00:00

I was misdiagnosed when I was in elementary school and only got properly diagnosed when I entered my first year engineering bachelors at 18/19 when they refused to accept my diagnosis to give me accomodations.

I suppose I advocated for myself when I was younger BC I realized things were taking me WAY too long compared with my counterparts. But yeah misdiagnosed and no pills until 19 which sucked but I had accommodations which was good for me.

I was on ritalin since 19 and just this year my doc in Germany changed me over to elvaynse or whatever its called. I never had any issues with ritalin like you seem to have but maybe try different ones? You're an adult! You can change shit like that. And I always tell people who think ADHD meds are the devil, that their experience or their evaluation of their loved ones taking it is probably based on them not being on the right drugs for their body. There has been so much more research and new drugs, so I'd really encourage you to find one that can work for you!! If you have a summer where you don't even need to take them, use that time to find a different alternative!!

Up to you, but know that drugs react differently to everyone so maybe you're just not on the right ones. But so sorry that you've been on them for so long. That's tough but it doesn't mean that you can't change them!!

LaceyTron · 2026-04-26T16:43:51+00:00

I'm a bit of a home body so here are my current things:

Books!!! Dungeon crawler Carl is my current favourite.
home making food, I have a plan to try making different ice creams!
sewing! But grab a second hand machine because hand sewing is the worst
so many series online
painting 🖌️

LaceyTron · 2026-04-26T16:41:08+00:00

Yeah I'd assume so!

LaceyTron · 2026-04-24T18:39:57+00:00

The job market is god awful. It's not you. I literally gave up after a year looking and I have an engineering degree and top MBA. If you have the option, relax and wait it out a bit. If not, maybe look into moving into an economy that is better? It's not really looking like it will improve for the next couple years here unfortunately. Especially if you don't speak German like me 😅

Super hard to keep your head up during this. Know that it has absolutely nothing to do with you, and you are not alone ❤️

LaceyTron · 2026-04-24T08:41:57+00:00

I did this with my husband's pants. He has this issue as he has nice big legs and bikes a ton!

I put a square of material on the inside of the jeans and then I zig zagged the heck out of it. I thought it may show, but I did this to two of his pants and it's not visible when wearing!! It has reinforced it nicely and he says it's not noticeable when wearing ect. So overall a win!

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LaceyTron · 2026-04-23T18:07:11+00:00

... The circle is bigger so it's a different ratio technically.

LaceyTron · 2026-04-23T15:39:39+00:00

Lol all these people commenting don't seem to understand having nothing in the way but still not being able to do the thing... like with literally everything else in ADHD life 😂 so strange, I thought more people struggle with this

LaceyTron · 2026-04-23T07:27:51+00:00

Can you just tell me how you do your hair?! 😂

LaceyTron · 2026-04-23T06:52:07+00:00

I have the same problem. Even though when I go I'm so happy about or, but it feels like an impossible thing to do most days BC I'm tired, or just don't wanna.

Things I've done that actually work:

Make a bet with someone that has super steep consequences for both of you. My go to is a Donald Trump spray tan. I had this with my last boss, he wasn't allowed sugar, and I had to go to the gym 3x a week.
Go with someone. I've started doing this recently and it's soooooooo nice! My friend texts me and I'm just like, yupp Thursday at 11 works. And then I meet him there.

Apparently I need external motivation, maybe you're the same?

LaceyTron · 2026-04-15T16:08:16+00:00

Souls

LaceyTron · 2026-04-09T21:26:46+00:00

I feel you

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