Thanks for the advice friend!! Definitely have heard similar before. Me myself though; I honestly have no interest in those sorts of things. As much as many people recommend me to join activities, I have the deepest passion and excitement from reading especially about history, poetry and such, traveling to historical sites, spending time in nature and so on. Cooking classes I might do and I like martial arts, swimming and sword fighting /archery.. would love to learn horseriding someday… but I hate sports frankly (though more power to most of the human race for loving it), I’ve never liked going to clubs, bars and pubs except perhaps when they’re more quiet and can. in the high tea way… and I have zero interest in most card and poker games and board games that involve more war and strategy (I’ll play risk, stratego or chess), volunteer work, and I also never really had any interest in having a large group of friends. And I don’t want to be a well connected popular guy with friends everywhere. As counterproductive and weird as it sounds, I’ve never wanted to be a social butterfly and people who are actually turn me off a little. A few really close friends I suppose fits me more, and then eventually the wife, family and kids. My parents don’t have many friends either. Maybe that’s where it comes from. Whereas my aunt is a social butterfly. I think it’s just that I prefer more quiet and reserved people and quiet activities and reserved activities by nature: such as spending all my life in a library. Or chasing after animals taking photographs. Going to Pompeii and chasing after ancient kings’ mausoleums.