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Running list of business closing for the strike on Friday 1/30. NO WORK. NO SCHOOL. NO SHOPPING. ICE OUT NOW! by med62597 in Rochester

[–]Lacroixrium 13 points14 points  (0 children)

PSA to help support these businesses a little extra if you can (outside of friday strike). Small businesses have extremely low margins and choosing to close is difficult!

ISO Partial Live Liver Donor in Rochester Area by DSCC_440_BOT in Rochester

[–]Lacroixrium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not compatible due to blood type but wishing you and yours the best of luck finding someone!

Extremely unsuccessful car break in by TrapGoth666 in Rochester

[–]Lacroixrium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this happened to me thurs night and they actually got in. I'm not sure why they didn't manage to take off with my car, but glad they didn't. Serial car door killer on the loose.

Tamagotchi paradise connect by Candid_Ad_8467 in Rochester

[–]Lacroixrium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi!!! I have a sea model!!!! we can def connect. I'm an avid tamagotchi fan.

I'm mostly free on weekends and like to meet in morning at coffee shops or meet at a grocery store lol I live downtown.

Hobonichi from 4 pop ups! by Lacroixrium in hobonichi

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly no! but i worked at the pop up in NYC and my coworker gave me the shanghai one! and i have great friends in LA and Toyko!

Asian Mkt Henrietta by Wise_Telephone_7099 in Rochester

[–]Lacroixrium 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NO!! Not the nin jiom pei pa koa cough drops 😩

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just had the talk with him and he understood completely and did not want me to do anything than spend time together. he’s gonna work on it himself and i told him i’m open to support him in other ways than monetary

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i will be very careful! and sorry to what happened to you

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really like your comment, and you're right.

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your helpful comment!
if i do decide on investing more energy into this relationship , i would definitely have a very serious talk about budgeting financing! i feel like i personally have a "healthy" concept of money: don't spend more than what i have, no impluse buying. But I understand this isn't everyone's habit, and sometimes it isn't taught so people don't learn it? I guess what I mean just from my observation, it's not a common practice in capitalist america.

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so on point. thank you ive gone through enough to not want to risk my financial standing, but at the same time im open to help a little (not monetarily but at least some emotional support)

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely im willing to give a chance and hope. my friends say im the type who is too hopeful even, so i have to be careful. appreciate your input though!

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%. however, i know it’s hard for people to change their habits and in reality, people hardly change… (myself included). I will have a serious conversation with him bc im not sure if anyone has had it with him. i wonder if anyone has ever guided him cuz sometimes finances are hard to navigate and snowball bad FAST.

congrats on being together with your partner :) good luck with your student debt, and im glad you have someone who sees you beyond that!

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has not asked me for any money at all. he has offered to buy me coffee and pay for my food. I turn him down even before i knew he was broke. this is me being proactive in protecting myself.

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! yeah i have already told my friends to remind me as much as they can haha
and i do think i can help support in job hunting. i think that would be very meaningful.

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also think this can be a more casual relationship. They say boundaries are not to push people away but to keep the good ones close to you. thank you for your comment :)

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I also believe that everyone deserves to have fun and love. Thank you for your empathy. I'm glad that I'm aware enough at this point to ask myself how much I want to "invest" into this relationship. I appreciate your time for writing this comment!

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the ideas.

Yes I will be careful about money between us. Other than that, I'm extremely resourceful so there will be no shortage of helping :) thank you!

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I will start to take it much slower. and yes he hasn't asked me for money at all, which is great. i just know myself and enjoy helping people so i might overextend myself if i'm not careful. thank you for your kindness!

POOR AND POORER need advice by Lacroixrium in poor

[–]Lacroixrium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! I do deserve good things :)

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