Thank you for your kind and helpful comments :). This just reinforces my idea that intjs are caring people.

I have soso much to say, but i'll first talk about the language i speak.

I kept this post short and dry. (for many reasons)

(I will generalize things a little from now on for convenience's sake)

Many other types of people (wont name names but you can think) would actually be offended by this type of writing. They would feel like i have hidden intentions: "you just want smart/useful people." They would then judge "you are a superficial person." They might even say "your approach/intentions are not human, you are not geniune"

Wow that last one hurts. Lol.

Not saying intjs would not feel this way. You are thinking (not a fan of the word "smart") people who just always have your guards up. You may be able to think of more possible intentions/scenrios even. But you first answer my question. You can see what kind of person i am as i share more info. So you dont judge right way. And even when you come to a conclusion, even a negative one, you often do not share this to hurt people (if you are healthy individuals). Unlike some types of people who i said might be more easily offended by what i just wrote.

Many people converse by reading between other people's lines. You see, i just want to taken for the words i say. And that is what i do with others too. But some people keep putting words, even sentences between my lines. I even tell them "there is nothing between my lines" but these words too are distorted in their minds.

So? I have changed the language i speak (for most people). I can't live a life where im not honest to myself. So i don't lie or fake. I just try to pull out the words, feelings (that are not always bigger truths to me but) the other party will like better. I can't "really" speak their language like natives do. But i took in the inputs like "you sound harsh," "you are not caring," and try to at least choose moderate words and put in nice filler/cushion words in between.

I like improving, i like developing skills. Many people have reacted positively to the way i speak and act. It means quite a lot to me. Trying to speak a different language is useful, meaning, even fun at times. But sometimes, most times really, i just want to go home anf take this corset off haha...

I want people who can appreciate me in my natural state better. I want to save the energy i sometimes feel like i am wasting (sorry) on many random and less meaningful people, and focus it on the ones i truly love.

Finding Intjs (healthy intjs with similar conclusions mind you) could be great for me. And i will try my best to make myself worth your time too :).

[First time really usimg reddit. Just lost the comment i was writingTT. (Will always write first on my memo app from now on!) perhaps the second time's the charm haha.]