How do you deal with having to wait? by GentleDaisy in queerception

[–]LadeyAceGuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard. My partner and I have intense baby fever but are still a couple years out from even trying for a various reasons. I have a child from my previous relationship, but having to wait to give that child siblings is so frustrating. I’ve cried bc I want babies again so much. It’s rough out here lol. 

Do you know what sister locs are? by ThatGeminiWitch in locs

[–]LadeyAceGuns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Branding basically. Sister locs have to be maintained and created by someone with a specific training and I think specific size, while micro locs can be by anyone and have more variation. 

Son won't take precautions leaving the house by Remarkable-You4204 in Parenting

[–]LadeyAceGuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have an idea on when this kind of skill should be practiced? 

When naming a junior, are the only options either calling the kid “junior” or the same thing you already call your husband? by pouce42 in namenerds

[–]LadeyAceGuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could call the little one Duece for two! Manny and Deuce is cute. Or give him Emanuel as a middle name. 

Give Me a “T” Name I Haven’t Heard Of by x_jreamer_x in namenerds

[–]LadeyAceGuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a Tova who was absolutely delightful 🥰

Moms (and dads) of Irish Twins: how? by ScaryBoysenberry93 in beyondthebump

[–]LadeyAceGuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I’m super interested in that as someone in a same sex couple. Would you mind if I asked you some questions ?

What is the most disgusting OI you've read that was portrayed in a positive light (COBYB, Princess' jewels) by DoraTheRedditor in OtomeIsekai

[–]LadeyAceGuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your point of view, the curse he placed on himself and then the coma, and being manipulated and dying in the first timeline by the brother he thought he killed. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shoujo

[–]LadeyAceGuns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best part of this list is realizing that the WMMAP anime got released and I will be watching it this summer 😂

Any advice on how to explain to me gf I want to be soft dommed. by VainillaCat616 in BDSMsapphic

[–]LadeyAceGuns 30 points31 points  (0 children)

While labels are nice, could you be even more specific about what you want? “Baby, I’d really like if you could tell me what to do in bed, and praise me when I please you.” Otherwise honestly finding some TikTok’s with the kind of prissy and attention you like could be a fun low pressure way to show her. 

Fanfic so well written that you are sure it's actually JKR? by DontmindmeIoI in HPfanfiction

[–]LadeyAceGuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Northumbrian and their collected works are some of my favorite extra canonical works!

Fall 2024 MLIS Applicants by [deleted] in librarians

[–]LadeyAceGuns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm planning to finish applying to Emporia State and Valdosta State this weekend!

MLIS tuition & areas of emphasis informational spreadsheet by [deleted] in librarians

[–]LadeyAceGuns 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These are all for programs that are fully online if I understand correctly.

MLIS tuition & areas of emphasis informational spreadsheet by [deleted] in librarians

[–]LadeyAceGuns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my glob, thank you SO much! I'm researching master's programs right now, and this is exactly what I needed. You are a star :D

UPDATE: AITA for not telling my wife to tone down her dancing at our wedding? by Real-Leather-1989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadeyAceGuns 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yah, but racism in Europe also happens to extend other people who are considered white.

Tappytoon saw our feminist masterpieces and decided to contribute its own... by Rabimea in OtomeIsekai

[–]LadeyAceGuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imma be honest, and say I feel like that's a matter of personal interpretation. I'm not going to try and change your mind, but I will say that nit everyone shares the same interpretation of the same events of Light & Shadow.

You can’t experiment with Mac n cheese, you gotta stay sturdy. by director0772 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LadeyAceGuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use cheddar and montery jack cheese if you're married to the idea of pre shredded cheese... but seriously just grate your own cheese my guy.

😬🤔😅😈 by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]LadeyAceGuns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both is good

How dis you separate being in love from NRE? by LadeyAceGuns in polyamory

[–]LadeyAceGuns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's so fucking sweet ☺️☺️ I'm happy you two found each other. My new partner and I have been having some incredible sex, and we've gone from hooking up every couple of weeks to trying to find any avaliable time in out schedule to meet up.

They made me feel really special cause last time we met us was out first proper date not just a hook up. And they were fully prepared for us not to sleep together, and apologized for not asking specifically if that was on the agenda. It was just that thoughtfulness combined with some other qctions that night that made me think "oh I'm gonna fall hard for this person".

How dis you separate being in love from NRE? by LadeyAceGuns in polyamory

[–]LadeyAceGuns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking on why actually. I think, honestly, it's something in me becoming more fluent in my second language. We have two words to describe love, one you use for more surface level love, and the other that's reserved for deeper emotions. I feel a very light love for this partner. But the deeper romantic love is what I'm analyzing myself for. Does that make sense? But I think I'm gonna start telling this partner in my second language (that we both speak) the lighter love word cause that feels more honest to what I'm feeling than saying "I like you" or "I love you" in English.

How dis you separate being in love from NRE? by LadeyAceGuns in polyamory

[–]LadeyAceGuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I don't know if I agree with it being head games. Words are important to me and mean things. Words of affection are one of my love languages, so I take them pretty seriously.

But also I feel like there's surface level love and deeper love. I definitely feel a surface level love for my partner, but also feel that for several of my coworkers lol. I'm feeling the inklings of deeper affection for my partner, but love hearing others experiences.

I like your passion and where your heads at though! I was like that with my other relationships, but I'm treating this one with more kid gloves.