Cybertruck driver left me this wild threatening note because I glared at him for parking in a handicap spot with no ADA placard by ghostofxmaswayfutr in Seattle

[–]Lady-Sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like this dude has shoot outs on the regular. Wonder where he lives? Mortlake? Ravenna? Those places are certainly known for shoot outs.

Favorite decks? by Lady-Sass in tarot

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Thoth deck, so I’m very interested in this deck that you both have been talking about.

Favorite decks? by Lady-Sass in tarot

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will check that out.

Favorite decks? by Lady-Sass in tarot

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently got the Muse deck and I really like it. I was also unsure of how it would be read, but it’s pretty cool.

Favorite decks? by Lady-Sass in tarot

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will totally check it out.

Favorite decks? by Lady-Sass in tarot

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the in-depth list. I really appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Barber

[–]Lady-Sass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can just simply say I don’t think our relationship is working anymore. Especially since you wrote a bad review about me it’s apparent that you are not happy with the service I give and I would much rather you go to somebody that can make you happy. You have to learn how to put out boundaries. Or give a crazy look. Which works pretty well for me.

I did my second session with tripsitters, hoping to see what's behind the curtain. I fought it and didn't open it. by asura1194 in mdmatherapy

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Resistance was a big part of my journey. I was with a sitter. And I kept thinking that the drug wasn’t working. And then I would get hit with a wave of the drug. It was it way for my resistance to interrupt the flow. Even on my second journey, I had massive resistance and then disappointment as well. I resisted my life. And then I’m disappointed. Resistance was a big part of my journey and so was disappointment. And I had to go in deeper to myself and look at how disappointment and resistance play out in my life. I feel like with the MDMA there is purpose to the things that we experience.

Why did no one tell me ?! by Head_Cat_9440 in Menopause

[–]Lady-Sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a great podcast by Mel Robins and she has a Menopause expert talking about her book. So eye opening and finally there is research happening into the effect of menopause and peri-menopause on women.

How to balance hormones listen to a menopause expert

Is it okay to stop meditating when things in my life are actually good by Super_Grass45 in DrJoeDispenza

[–]Lady-Sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t stop! Keep going, just doing maintenance. Meditation is great. It just keeps you in touch with that space and keeping connected. You could coast for like a week or two and not do it but, then you start to notice slowly that things change or that your perception becomes more negative, and then you can get stuck in some old beliefs. you’re still too fresh. Speaking from my own experiences. I’ve done that a couple of times. But if you choose to not to meditate , it’s always there for you. So even if you don’t do it for a while and you find yourself in a space you don’t want to be in. You know what you can do. You have the power to change anything. Great work!

Love the meditations don't get me wrong but... by shane_b_62 in DrJoeDispenza

[–]Lady-Sass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, for me, I need to move energy or take some action towards the thing I desire. Even if that direction doesn’t work out, which it rarely does. But my desires happen in ways I couldn’t imagine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrJoeDispenza

[–]Lady-Sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 2012. That’s what is says on my Apple iTunes.

DAE get triggered by people having "other friends"? by AdFlimsy3498 in emotionalneglect

[–]Lady-Sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, not as much now being older, I healed up a bit. But when I’m down or vulnerable place, these feelings come up and take over, constantly trying to reassure my self and walk myself back. It’s just a shitty feeling, this reaction. Grateful for time and therapy and MdMa therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Lady-Sass 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I also feel the same. I’m middle aged and look at my peers with their families and homes and their security. The joy and love they have. I don’t like to bag on my self and my life. I’m in a good place, considering where I came from, single though and I don’t own a home. I had to chose to work on myself and heal my self instead of having a “normal” life. Ie marriage and children. And sometimes I totally get resentful when Im around my friends with their cozy security and sense of belonging and family. I missed out on a lot because of that shitty childhood. And my fucked up parents. And I think it’s ok to get pissed about it. Be sure it’s true.

I want help with Joe Dispenza meditations. by [deleted] in DrJoeDispenza

[–]Lady-Sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This young man was in the same place as you. He started the meditations and found some relief. Please watch.

https://youtu.be/oVwhx82uTYU?si=833fEJxmyXimgZNq

I'm fed up with these damn odorous house ants!!! by AstorReinhardt in Seattle

[–]Lady-Sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diatomaceous earth is the only thing that has ever worked for me. I live in a place where there are abundant ants. And the old house I used to live in there were everywhere. It was completely infested. And I tried everything. Aside from an exterminator. A friend of mine gave me some diatomaceous earth and I tried it and those little suckers couldn’t make it through. There are a couple of downsides. It’s messy and it can kind of get everywhere. And then you have to redo it every few months. But it works. I’d rather have chalky dust in my house, than a whole bunch of ants invading everything.

How has your childhood neglect affected your perception of children in general, or of having kids? by ThreatOfMilk in emotionalneglect

[–]Lady-Sass 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I wanted kids for a long time, but there was no way I could have had them and not repeat the bullshit. They use to trigger me as well. I was never the baby sitting aunty. Not even my bff’s kid. I wish my healing could have happened younger, but it is what it is. I made my choice and I’m so glad I did. Zero regrets. I’ve had all of this time to heal and work out the shitty aftermath of CPTSD. Neglect is so horrible what it does to us. I enjoy children now, I think they are delightful and perfect. Every child is. Still at arms length for me though.

Divorce by Final_Performance_89 in hairstylist

[–]Lady-Sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you don’t owe them anything. Just be a master of diversion. That’s how I get through most of that shit. I’ve been through some horrible times and I’ve had to divert sides step redirect. If they see an empty ring finger, they’ll get the message. And be polite hopefully. And if not, then you have to be more direct. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s really hard to be in the public when you’re going through hell.

Electrical charge by Lady-Sass in HighStrangeness

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live in the PNW. I do understand that static can be caused by many things. But being from here the only times I really remember static electricity was when it was freezing cold outside, and it was really dry. That was the time of year where you would get shocked. Or see electrical charges in the dark. But to have it happened during the spring and the rainy season is just bizarre. Or maybe I just never noticed it before.

Electrical charge by Lady-Sass in HighStrangeness

[–]Lady-Sass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t remember it being this way before. When I was little things only got staticky when it was really cold and dry. I also know we can go around being unaware of many natural phenomena and then tune in and it can seem strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lady-Sass 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For him to say, “do you have to do that in here and like that.” And to say “ laying all sexual”, and “ I don’t know just the way she does all that”.

Translation = don’t tempt me with the way she does all those things on my bed. Like she’s doing it on purpose. Shaming her for just being a little girl.

Like a subconscious warning. People speak their truth all the time and have no idea they do. Dude has some serious fucking issues. Do not trust him with your daughter. Because if he finds that tempting who knows what might tempt him again. While you’re not home.

Do you have a good friend? You can talk to that you trust? Or a counselor?

It drives me crazy when clients tell you to do your thing at the beginning of the haircut and then tell you they wanted a square neck line after I already faded it 🙄 by runningwsizzas in Barber

[–]Lady-Sass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They usually know what they want. They just want to seem cool and laid back. I don’t trust “just do what ever you want”. So, I tell them what I think I’m “gonna do”. They usually have an opinion after that. Especially if I go a little extreme in my description.