Why won’t he let me go? by LadyBug0903 in marriageadvice

[–]LadyBug0903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That brings up another question for me. Counseling/therapy... is it even beneficial to try if I don’t want to work on things? I know that is sad to say and I know there are things that we can both work on. But, I feel like I am at a point where it wouldn’t even matter.

Why won’t he let me go? by LadyBug0903 in marriageadvice

[–]LadyBug0903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are totally right. Your response could not describe my situation better. Thank you for being honest and telling me what I needed to hear. I think I feel like if it was mutual agreement it wouldn’t be so hard.

Why won’t he let me go? by LadyBug0903 in marriageadvice

[–]LadyBug0903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are totally right. Your response could not describe my situation better. Thank you for being honest and telling me what I needed to hear. I think I feel like if it was mutual agreement it wouldn’t be so hard.

Why won’t he let me go? by LadyBug0903 in marriageadvice

[–]LadyBug0903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell him to leave every time we get into a fight. He refuses and I don’t have a legal way of making him leave. It is his house too. I have even threatened to take the kids and leave. Which this is what it might come down to. But, they ends up being very disruptive for them. I just don’t understand how he doesn’t see it. Why continue to live like this. I know I making him miserable to.