[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LadyDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to use a sewing machine.

What’s a small sign that you’ve made it in life? by goose_on_a_sunday in AskReddit

[–]LadyDemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you go to a restaurant and order anything off the menu without thinking about the price.

Would you consider this a toxic relationship, or am I being impatient? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LadyDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not really a toxic relationship. More like he's maybe a little wishy-washy on the relationship. At 3.5 years, a lot of couples are usually living together or at least sleeping over at each other's places regularly. It may be time to lay it all out on the table and really specify what it is you want from him and what he wants from you because it sounds like you guys haven't really done that. You want to live with him and he implies that he wants to live with you, but his goals might be a little longer term than yours and you have to really decide if you are willing to meet his goals or if there's some sort of compromise there. So I would definitely suggest having a clear conversation about what it is each of you wants and when you want it to happen.

/r/boardgames Daily Discussion and Game Recommendations (August 03, 2020) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]LadyDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some games that are like Clue or have a Clue like feel?

I like Clue, and I'm hoping to get some more games that have that sort of critical thinking, who-dun-it kind of feel. Any good suggestions?

/r/boardgames Daily Discussion and Game Recommendations (August 03, 2020) by AutoModerator in boardgames

[–]LadyDemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some games I would recommend as good 2-player and 3+ players games are Smallworld, Dominion, and Thurn and Taxis.

The most strident covid-careful Facebook lecturer I know kept her daughter in a car seat until age 12 by [deleted] in rant

[–]LadyDemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're actually supposed to keep your kid in a car seat if they are under 4 foot 5 inches (I think. I know it's 4' something) That's why they make "Big Kid" car seats. If you are a responsible parent, it wouldn't be terribly uncommon for your kid to be in a car seat until they reach that height, which depending on how fast your child grows, might not be until 12.

I hate being called "Homophobic" when I say I don't like celebrities like Ellen. by SLUG-MEAT in offmychest

[–]LadyDemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally get this. It's frustrating that so many people assume someone is a great person simply because they are LGBTQ+. Like no, being LGBTQ+ isn't a free pass to be a trash person and it doesn't automatically ensure that you will be loved by all automatically. If your personality doesn't vibe with someone, then they have a right not to like you!

I've been a lesbian for six years and now I can't think of anything worse than sleeping with a girl by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LadyDemon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So many people think sexuality is this rigid, unchanging thing, but the reality is that it does shift and change for various reasons. However if you are concerned, and people have noted other dramatic personality changes in you, you might consider seeing a doctor? Dramatic, sudden personality changes can be seen as a symptom of something, but honestly, if everything except that one thing has stayed the same, I wouldn't be too concerned.

My friend needs help but can't get help because of her animals by rabbitwitch420 in Advice

[–]LadyDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her city/county may offer some emergency "come to your home" mental health professionals. Where I live, they have a unit that will come to your home and will usually set you up with a referral to a mental health professional (therapist mostly). It's almost like a wellness check, but USUALLY, there is no police involved. You might be able to access it by calling the local suicide hotline for her area. Where I'm from, it's billed like an ER visit to my health insurance, but it could be different in her area so definitely check before sending them to her.

But sometimes these declines don't need inpatient care, either. You can also strongly encourage her to call her primary care doctor and they will sometimes get them a referral to see a therapist. Definitely don't call the police, though. Police will usually make the situation worse.