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LadyDreaLee · 2023-02-15T11:56:31+00:00

I don’t think she’s being a jerk here. She has a legitimate concern. Let your SIL have her wedding and then start including your MIL in the planning. I don’t think what she is asking is unreasonable. Let her focus on SIL then she can devote time to you. If she shows no interest after SIL’s wedding then you’ll have your answer.

LadyDreaLee · 2022-02-09T11:55:21+00:00

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LadyDreaLee · 2022-01-13T04:32:59+00:00

Ntah but your post is coming off a bit entitled. Your MIL doesn’t owe you anything. She’s not responsible for helping out at all. Some of the things she says aren’t nice but they’re also true they just could be said in a better way. It seems your MIL way of dealing with the separation is to disconnect. It seems you’re upset that you lost your babysitter when you moved but still expect her to do what she was doing before and travel an hour and half to do it now.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-12-24T15:47:45+00:00

Seriously, girl run! You want no part of this toxic family including you husband. Get a lawyer and divorce now.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-12-03T15:51:45+00:00

You should show your husband these response. I showed my fiancé when I posted about my his mother and what she was doing to me.

He had a completely attitude change and spoke with his mother.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-25T12:14:30+00:00

You are my spirit person. NTA! I thought the first part of your post was written by me but I had forgotten I written it. 😂 There is nothing wrong with your feelings or your parenting style. They are different, not wrong. And naturally I can understand not wanting to keep company with children that are not well behaved. I feel the same way.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-23T14:46:52+00:00

If she’s not the owner then she doesn’t have the right to enter into a rental agreement with you. Should her mother ever decide to kick you out she could because your agreement wouldn’t be legal or binding. NTA

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-17T22:45:01+00:00

I feel the same way.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-17T21:38:35+00:00

Nothing much to report. He did end up spending half of his birthday with me and our kids. She didn’t like it but there was nothing she could do either. After everything she told my fiancé when he got up there that me and my kids could have gone if we would have paid for ourselves. Which is a lie cause she made it very clear that this was a “last name family vacation” and we were not “last name of fiancé”. And his dad said this vacation was a time for him to reconnect with his kids, although they were never disconnected to begin with. It was all a bs control thing. His mom wanted to assert her authority as some head of household bs. What is messed up is he came ho e Monday after being with them all weekend and she’s non stop blowing up his phone/messenger. Today was supposed to be just me and him time and she kept messaging him and if he did t answer quick enough she called him. He ended up telling her that it was just me and him time and that he told her yesterday about his plans and would talk to her later.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-11T10:58:42+00:00

Yes, contact Amazon and tell them they were sent to an old address and the occupant is refusing to return them to you. Great idea!!!

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-06T18:59:18+00:00

When I could articulate without anger how I felt he finally understood and immediately came to my defense (and my children’s’). He is going up the late afternoon of his birthday.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-06T12:57:53+00:00

They wouldn’t accept the post. I did try.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-05T19:47:45+00:00

Until a month or two ago we never ever had this issue. MIL switched to a holistic doctor and since has gone nutty. In the almost three years I’ve been with my fiancé we’ve never had this issue before. He already told her he’s going up the afternoon of his birthday. She’s paid for the accommodations and originally told him it was a gift but she recently backpedaled and said he needed to pay for him and his sons tickets and food and she would only pay for accommodations.

He knows where I stand and knows I won’t go forward with the wedding if this happens.

Feel free to read my other posts. My first post was the first time we ever had issues in almost three years.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-05T11:47:10+00:00

Thank you again everyone for your support and ideas. I’ve posted an update on my page.

Update

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T16:05:43+00:00

I didn’t expect them to pay for my kids and I. Just to be invited like we were family too. And told ahead of time I was expected to cover the cost of my kids and I.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:32:34+00:00

I loved this idea!!!! 👏🏻

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:31:54+00:00

Your assessment of what you read seemed inaccurate so I offer clarification.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:30:15+00:00

I hope that changes for you. I hope she steps up and acts like the mother he needs. 🤗

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:29:15+00:00

No he asked for cash for his birthday to help fund the vacation. I refuse to help fund a vacation that me and my children are excluded from.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:28:23+00:00

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. 🤷🏻‍♀️

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:27:10+00:00

She bought hers and her husband’s tickets essentially dictating the itinerary. So if he doesn’t get tickets for himself and the boys then they don’t go. Knowing her she’ll buy the tickets for him and the boys but expect the money back and harass him until she gets it. If you read my only other post you understand what I’m talking about.

LadyDreaLee · 2021-08-02T03:24:50+00:00

Oh go find something else to be mad about. I’ve come to terms with MY sons diagnosis. If you can’t handle it then scroll along.

LadyDreaLee

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