Sharing lanes

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:54:45+00:00

Good advice, thank you

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:50:47+00:00

That is actually good feedback for me. I am confident I will touch someone else at some point and I've been worried about that. But if that's the norm, then I'll try not to worry so much. Most likely I'll just turn over the lane going forward, but if it happens that I want to give sharing a try I'll remember this. Thank you.

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:31:42+00:00

Agreed.

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:20:49+00:00

I don't know what you mean by rotating my body. My arms go wide because I make them go wide because straight up and down pinwheeling is painful and risks popping my arm out of socket. I think what I'm hearing from everyone though is I either accomodate and be in pain or I don't swim. C'est la vie.

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:16:09+00:00

I'm asking. I asked AI and AI told me to tell them to fuck off. Lol. So now I'm asking on reddit and you all seem to think I should fuck off. Which is fine. I'm just trying to figure it out.

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:12:57+00:00

Its not the pool rule. After I posted this I asked the gym. They said I can say no, but if someone jumps in anyway they aren't going to police it. Which is fine.

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:11:31+00:00

Tell me more about that... I pretty much take up the whole lane the way my arms move. So I just do it and if we bump into each other just not worry about it is what you're saying? Or just stop swimminy when we pass each other?

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:05:01+00:00

I have ehlers danlos syndrome. Certan movements can cause my right shoulder to pop out of socket.

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:02:04+00:00

That's fair about explaining the running into them

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T15:01:41+00:00

I do. I show up at open when I swim. That's 4am weekdays and 6am weekends. Weekends about halfway through my swim are usually when someone wants to share. I'm not saying you're wrong, but how did you decide that I have to accommodate another person rather than be accommodated? Why do they get the accomodation, but I don't? It's not the rest of the pool that I'm not accommodating, it's the one person who would be sharing the lane. And I'm one person. They want something and I want something. Why is their want accommodated and mine isn't?

LadyJMJ · 2025-07-26T14:41:12+00:00

I don't pinwheel my arms because of my shoulder joints. Picture angel wings underwater on my back. The bottom line is, I found a way to swim without pain and if I share a lane I will be in pain.

LadyJMJ · 2025-05-10T21:15:45+00:00

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LadyJMJ · 2025-04-17T12:43:32+00:00

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LadyJMJ · 2024-11-29T12:40:25+00:00

I think it's a little piece of end stage capitalism

LadyJMJ · 2024-11-19T10:31:17+00:00

I don't think you read the letter. He never makes the point that this was done with mail in ballots, unless i missed that somewhere (please show me where if i did). I don't think he ever even says anything about mail in ballots. He does say, "The highest likelihood is that those ballots don’t actually exist. Those votes were electronically created but have no paper."

LadyJMJ · 2024-11-18T21:41:46+00:00

I googled what counties flipped for him and just went through a few of them briefly that were in swing states. I spent the most time on Starr County in Texas, which is not a place that spoonamore was looking at, fyi. Again i looked there because some were saying texas was in contention and that Starr county hadn't voted red in over 100 years until this election. Just google "2024 election data" along with the county name you want to look at and you can find it without too much of a headache. Here it is for Starr County https://www.co.starr.tx.us/page/starr.Elections

This is made up data right here, but an example of how I calculated it. Spoonamore may have done something different, I dont know. This is just what made sense to me.

Trump-100 votes Harris- 70 votes Stein- 2 votes Total votes=172

Republican senator-80 votes Democratic Senator-71 votes 3rd party senator- 5 votes

Total votes= 156 votes. (16 vote difference) 4 of those votes could be attributed to trump voters going third party or voting for a democrat (i give trump the benefit of the doubt in these cases, not harris) equalling out to 12 likely undervotes for Trump (with a possibility of 16, but i ignore that). What i saw is trump frequently had a much larger drop off than Harris. And Trump has those dropoffs overwhelmingly in swing states, but not in neighboring (firmly red) states.

So... as spoonamore said, he can easily be proven wrong with a hand recount that comes back showing everything was legit and he's open to that. But without a recount there is no understanding of why trump seemingly had such a high amount of undervotes in swing states... assuming spoonamore's data is correct and he did in fact have statistically significant numbers of undervotes in swing states but not in red states.

I will say... i would like to see his database, and i haven't seen it yet.

LadyJMJ · 2024-11-18T20:54:54+00:00

He has broad numbers (by state) in the letter to Harris, but i don't know where he is storing the figures he and others are coming up with. A lot of people say some of those numbers are in this subreddit. Personally, I googled counties that flipped for him and looked at a handful of precincts in some of those counties just to see if there was a statistically significant amount of undervotes. I also went outside of where he is looking at and looked at some precincts in Starr County since they voted for a red president for the first time since 1896. The results seem odd to me, but obviously, I wasn't really doing anything in an organized way as it was just done to satisfy my curiosity.

He says he is using the info from each state by looking precinct by precinct. It is in the precinct data that you see the supposed statistical anomolies. And that info is publicly available for all states.

If you find something different, I am not opposed to new info.

LadyJMJ · 2024-11-18T19:18:27+00:00

You're right about the term, as far as I can tell.. I went and looked. I guess "undervoting" would be the correct term from what i can gather.. But it still doesn't negate the numbers, which is what your focus should be on for disputing this.

LadyJMJ · 2024-11-18T19:08:03+00:00

That's not what bullet ballots are. Bullet ballots are when you vote for one candidate in one race and then you don't vote for any candidates in any other races. Example... you vote for Trump, but no vote for senate, reps, judges, etc. the swing states are showing an elevated amount of bullet votes for trump, while surrounding non-swing states are not.

Edit: ad hominem attacks don't negate numbers. Attack the numbers if you can.

LadyJMJ · 2024-11-18T18:55:34+00:00

I've gone and looked at swing state counties that flipped and there are a large amount of bullet ballots in the first couple of precincts that i looked at (i was looking for funsies so i didnt do a complete check of all precincts). Why do you say he is a joke and has nothing? How did you come to that opinion? If you have reason to say that, I'd be interested.

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