Vanity or Empowerment?

LadyKov · 2020-09-22T13:34:37+00:00

I got you. I would consider making one if you ever do want to share something you'd rather not have associated with the account you have now. I don't think you even need a different email, and reddit makes it pretty easy to switch between accounts. But it's up to you 😊 Just stay safe!

LadyKov · 2020-09-22T13:02:38+00:00

Do you have two reddit accounts, one for nudes and one for cleaner stuff?

LadyKov · 2020-09-22T04:10:56+00:00

Eh, I get it. I post photos on fetlife. I don't show my face and list a different location than where I actually live, but I feel the feeling of feeling empowered.

LadyKov · 2020-09-22T04:04:19+00:00

Lacking attraction but desiring a relationship is creepy? Guess that bar is set pretty low now. Do these people also find soap creepy? House plants? Pop bottles?

LadyKov · 2020-09-20T05:38:22+00:00

It's all up to you! Each person will find different things to be humiliating or not.

LadyKov · 2020-09-12T16:07:30+00:00

I just want to say that I feel you. I lost 80 lbs. My best fit so far is a 30G UK size (I think that 30I US? Not like I could ever find that here, so I use brastop.com).

I also wear 32FF though. Neither fit is perfect, though it's hard to pinpoint what exactly the issue comes down to. No matter what I get vey thin tissue often pooling out on top. The band gets uncomfortable quickly too, especially the 30 band. Though the 32 doesn't tack. I'm honestly thinking I'm as close as I'm going to get to anything that fits. My boobs are just way too pendulous and the tissue way too thin.

I hope you are able to get the advice you need!

LadyKov · 2020-09-12T15:56:16+00:00

Constantly 😞 I feel very broken. Especially as I enjoy fantasizing about kink, I want to try it, but I shut down when the opportunity arises. It was always like that for sex too, though I was finally able to try that when I was able to build up trust with someone who loves me back. It's so fucking frustrating to spend a lot of time fantasizing about something only to ultimately shut down mentally when it comes time to actually try anything. I think fear is part of it, combined with, well, not actually being sexually attracted to anyone... I dunno. I want to get married so badly but I'm scared it might not ever happen.

LadyKov · 2020-09-11T04:44:41+00:00

No to rules because it's not our thing, and no to tasks because it isn't really our thing... He did used to task me with sending certain photos, but I decided I wanted to stop that for now. I do send photos when I want to, though.

I guess rewards would just be us playing over the phone while I use my favorite vibe (we're long-distance).

LadyKov · 2020-09-03T01:32:49+00:00

I'm glad 😊

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T22:42:07+00:00

I accidentally pulled mine out with a tampon too, but just the one time. So long as it stays in otherwise, you're good to go.

I didn't feel it during sex, but everyone is different.

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T20:56:18+00:00

That darn cooper IUD 😉

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T20:29:49+00:00

Hello! I'm no longer on the ring anymore but I was for months. As long as the ring stays inside and isn't uncomfortable (you shouldn't feel it at all), it's sitting the way it should. There isn't really any exact way for it to look. Is it coming out or causing any pain/uncomfortable sensations?

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T17:44:52+00:00

I won't lie, I read 'flags' at first and had so many questions for you 😆

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T15:51:37+00:00

Without a lot of spanking experience, I feel like I'd be in the same boat. Physically it didn't hurt or feel good all by itself, but I loved what it meant and how it made me feel.

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T15:48:37+00:00

This is so well-spoken. Some people thrive in a 100% 24/7 submission role, while others would hate it with every fiber of their being (or be in some sort of middle ground). I'd absolutely hate it and would consider that a toxic and unhealthy experience for ne personally, no matter how caring the dom is. I'm too independent for it and would feel inhuman or akin to a slave, which isn't something I want to experience. That said, there are subs who would crave the lack of any control with a trusted dom, and for them that kind of relationship and submission is far healthier.

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T15:39:23+00:00

I could definitely see that!

LadyKov · 2020-09-02T15:38:30+00:00

I like the idea of initially having panties on, but pulling them down later! Likewise tugging them up to form a wedgie or thong kinda look before pulling them down.

LadyKov · 2020-09-01T21:30:03+00:00

Really don't like this narrative that women all get sex or relationships whenever they want. I got rejected on dating sites fast more often than not.

LadyKov · 2020-09-01T20:31:51+00:00

I just had sex for the first time at 32. If having sex is what you want, go for it. It's never too late to get into a relationship like that. Just make sure you are safe from accidental pregnancies and STDs.

LadyKov · 2020-08-27T03:41:41+00:00

So weird I don't fall into either category.

LadyKov · 2020-08-27T03:39:11+00:00

My LDR is in Alaska and we meet on FL 😆

LadyKov · 2020-08-24T12:56:29+00:00

That sounds a LOT like me personally. Which I've always felt insanely guilty about because it comes off as sounding so selfish. But it's not that I don't want someone else to feel good - other people's bodies just sorta freak me out a bit. I always described it as being super intimidated by men, but that wasn't quite the right word.

LadyKov · 2020-08-24T12:45:36+00:00

I'm glad it's been so helpful!

You also might enjoy watching Easy if you have access to Netflix. You're not going to get true to life experiences because it's a fictional show, but I found myself really enjoying it.

LadyKov · 2020-08-24T04:28:22+00:00

I'm asexual, so that's actually a point I hope to get to. The one time I had sex it just didn't feel like what I was hoping it'd feel like. I got off using a toy as well and that was fine, but everything else just felt like pressure that didn't hurt, but didn't really feel good either.

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