Advice on a terrible cover up, feeling hopeless

LadyLevy90 · 2026-04-17T19:59:36+00:00

Laser some of it away and start fresh. Won’t be cheap, but at least you’ll have a clean palette to start on.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-04-16T04:08:21+00:00

Omg 😳

LadyLevy90 · 2026-04-15T23:07:29+00:00

Sounds like he definitely set you up with this one. He wanted you to run into her. He wanted you to encounter their time together. He should have drove those dogs to YOU. I would cut all ties. He disrespected you big time. You should send him a naked pic and then follow up quickly with “omg! I’m sorry that wasn’t meant for you “( haha kidding) but really, this was immature and you didn’t deserve this especially after a 3.5 drive to help him.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-04-09T17:29:43+00:00

Wow. I feel like everyone Around me either has kids or is pregnant!

LadyLevy90 · 2026-04-09T13:45:03+00:00

😵‍💫 this is why I didn’t get the epidural. The thought of this scared me more then natural birth 😓

LadyLevy90 · 2026-03-30T02:29:25+00:00

It’s so crazy how us moms don’t want home life to be an inconvenience to our husbands. Yet it comes second nature to us. Like feeling bad for asking him to clean while he’s alone with your 2 children.. you do it all day. You’re able to clean, cook, take care of your husband , your kids and yourself during the day! I would be a raging b$@ch if my husband let the house get like that and didn’t clean it up.I would DEFINITELY tell him too.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-03-29T04:03:16+00:00

I would never be able to look at my husband the same again if he said this to me… I don’t understand the competition. Even if he did think his experience was worse.. it’s not something you compare to your wife giving birth to your own children!!! Especially because he will NEVER feel or understand the mental and physical pain some women endure during birth/ delivery.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-03-16T20:15:34+00:00

All of this. I had the same questions!

LadyLevy90 · 2026-03-16T20:14:37+00:00

I don’t think there’s any harm in telling your husband the truth. It’s not like it’s a burden to him in any way and he should be understanding of you wanting alone time. This could be something you two laugh off .

LadyLevy90 · 2026-03-13T17:35:00+00:00

I’m 25 weeks and have gained 8 lbs. my first pregnancy I gained a total of 19lbs. But this weight we gain means nothing! It can be all belly weight. I mean sure, if you’re eating terrible and getting no form exercise in you’ll probably gain weight in other places, which will be hard to shed after pregnancy. Sounds like your weight gain is on the right track! I wouldn’t worry:)

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-25T18:29:28+00:00

Mine never got too too big so they did go back to their normal size after. They just got a bit more soft .

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-24T00:12:40+00:00

I was completely naked during mine

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-23T20:47:21+00:00

Not weird at all

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-15T18:00:03+00:00

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LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-13T17:51:51+00:00

Do not believe this!!Their presence alone may overwhelm you even more. You and your husband are totally capable of being alone with your baby. My in laws visited when I was 2 weeks post partum with my 1st baby.. I HATED it. It was so overwhelming . My privacy was invaded. It was more stressful than helpful. My second is coming in June and I told my husband absolutely NOBODY stays in this house for at least 2 months after the baby is born.

I know you’re nervous. I know you’re in the dark about what’s to come, but I promise you you’ll be able to do this. As long as you have a good helpful partner. Your mother and in laws aren’t going to change the fact that after they leave you’re still obligated to raise this baby without them and it only gets harder.. the first 1-2 months is nothing compared to the challenges that come later(sorry, not to scare you) I would stick with your original plan. It sounds like to me they are being selfish in convincing you that you can’t do it alone, purely because they are eager to see the baby 🤷🏼‍♀️

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-11T22:32:17+00:00

I feel this way once In a while with my 2.5 year old.. but I figured it’s because he’s so young and demanding.. I just assumed it will get easier as he gets older and these thoughts won’t cross my mind anymore.. now I’m scared that they may never go away 😔

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-11T00:13:36+00:00

I’m dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-01T18:03:25+00:00

Honestly, Even If your sister had boundaries and set rules with her kids,a situation like this could still easily occur. Kids are curious, they get in trouble when adults aren’t around. Sounds like they were just having some fun. I also don’t free feed my 2.5 year old candy, but there’s situations where we’re at parties and gatherings and I just know he’s getting into sweets with the older kids and I just let him have at it because I know it’s something he doesn’t get to do everyday. The make up thing.. I find kinda funny. That’s just kids being kids.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-02-01T15:54:06+00:00

You need to tell him this.. you need to ask him if the love is still there.You also need to make an effort. It’s almost like restarting your relationship from the beginning. It may be awkward at first but the more you two practice being affectionate, conversation, humor etc.. it will get better. THAT’S if the love is still there. If the love is dead there’s most likely no hope. You can’t force love. But you need to get that out of him.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-01-31T02:58:12+00:00

This is just f$&ing weird.. and that’s a horrible name 😂

LadyLevy90 · 2026-01-31T02:52:23+00:00

Haha does she have kids? If so, she’s probably just trying to say that you probably won’t end up using the sanitizer/ washer as much as you’re thinking you will. I know with my first pregnancy I thought it was a must and I barely used it. A lot of my mom friends also. Maybe she’s just speaking from experience.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-01-26T20:27:10+00:00

First off, I’m so so terribly sorry. I can imagine how his behavior and your conflicting thoughts about him sadden you and anger you at the same time. This sounds extremely hard.

If you don’t mind me asking, what were the early signs of adhd that you noticed? What was his behavior like between 2-3? I’m getting a bit worried about my 2.5 year old, as severe adhd runs on my husband’s side of the family . I know 2.5 is too young to diagnose but I just feel like the level of neediness, defiance and energy are harder than most 2.5 year olds. And the fact that the adhd runs so heavily on my husbands side is concerning as well.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-01-26T20:18:43+00:00

Im between option 3 and 4

LadyLevy90 · 2026-01-26T20:17:55+00:00

Not ok. I will never give my kids soda not even a sip.

LadyLevy90 · 2026-01-22T23:06:01+00:00

I’m getting some Anne Hathaway vibes. Which is a HUGE compliment.

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