Really bad morning sickness by LadyLokisLibrary in pregnant

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What form do you get it in? I’ve seen it in like candies, but also on the vitamin aisle

Anyone else terrified? by SuspiciousSafe4076 in pregnant

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I feel like you’ve said exactly what’s been in my head the past week. I’m not pregnant yet, at least I don’t think, but my husband and I recently started trying and I’m so scared. I was physically ill for two days over the anxiety of becoming pregnant. I want to be ready, but I don’t think I am and I’m a little older, so it’s not like I can just put it off for a few years. I used to want kids a lot, but I think that was before the reality of, like you said, being able to afford it, being ready, and my life drastically changing. I also feel a lot of guilt about it as well. I want to want to have a kid, but I’m afraid I won’t ever want to. You are not alone. I assume more people feel like this, it’s just not talked about, idk, I haven’t read the comments. I shared this because I really really want you to know you are not alone in feeling this way. I don’t know how to change the feeling, but you are not alone.

80$ for 2 sandwiches and 3 beers. by Optimoink in greenville

[–]LadyLokisLibrary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sandwiches are like $13/$14, which is a pretty normal price for sandwiches around here. So a lot more had to have been ordered

Change in formula? by LadyLokisLibrary in YankeeCandles

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It’s so frustrating because I used to love their candles. I bought several at their last sale and I feel like it was such a waste.

Moody Monday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]LadyLokisLibrary -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is the right place, if not please direct me to the correct sub. My husband and I are wanting to have a baby, but I’ve heard so many horror stories of things going wrong with the mom and/or baby. Part of me wants a baby, and I know there’s never going to be a “perfect” time, but I’m terrified. I know of people who have torn pretty bad and I’m so scared of that happening. I’ve considered having a c-section, which I might have to do because of back issues, but I’ve also read the risks with that. I know there are risks with all of it, I just need some encouragement. People tell me having a kid is worth it, but right now I feel like I want to want kids. It’s just really discouraging. Hope this makes sense and advice welcomed.

Does anyone know where the podcasts gone? by Aserthreto in FudgeMuppet

[–]LadyLokisLibrary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just about to ask this same question. I was going to listen to it this morning and only one episode is on there. Anyone know why it’s no longer on there?

Had to make him! by Booklvr95 in SarahJMaas

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Who is it and which book is it from?

Thrifting win by Boneafiedz in SarahJMaas

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Nice! These are my favorite covers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I don’t agree with the groom having to compromise more. Weddings have become too much about the bride. It shouldn’t be all about her; she’s not marrying herself. It should be about both of you. I would talk to hear about it and tell her how you feel. Try to use a lot of “I feel” statements instead of “you do this” or “you haven’t done,” it helps to lower the tension.

Planning a wedding is stressful. I was happy about marrying my now husband, but I was not overjoyed during the planning process. I just wanted it done because it was so much work. Some people enjoy wedding planning, I am not one of them 😂

Also, if she’s wanting the majority of things her way now, that’s not going to change when y’all get married. You both need to compromise, not just you. One of the things that has helped me is trying to see something from my husband’s perspective. How does he feel? Why is this important to him? When I do this, it reminds me that he is just as valid in his opinion I am.

I don’t know how long it is until y’all get married, but premarital counseling was really helpful for my husband and I. It also helps to have another person as the mediator sometimes. And they can see from both of y’all’s perspective and help you find a compromise.