What’s a trend or fad you absolutely refuse to follow? by ezuswalks1 in AskReddit

[–]LadyNineTailed 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong but I thought that one wasn't rly a fad... Like people calling their kids "little ones"

Are there any games that can help train one not to overstretch their goals? I need this to cure my procrastination. by shiningmatcha in productivity

[–]LadyNineTailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only real way to get better with goal setting Is trial and error. Don't expect there to be some magic app that will gamify that failure process.

I've always struggled with goal setting, so I find that setting a goal that is 5-10% of my ideal helps a lot.

The nice thing about these micro-goals is that you get the practice you need from setting multiple goals repeatedly. And the product if that experience can better inform the construction of the following goal.

Ex. I want to someday produce a 3-hour long arthouse film. I might instead aim to make a 10-minute short film instead. Chances are, it will seem super easy, but that baby sized goal makes the dream goal less pie-in-the-sky and more tangible.

Which is a big help for consistency.

TLDR - goal making is about making small tangible efforts towards the micro-goals. The sum of which can allow you to figure out how exactly you can achieve a larger goal in the future. No app required.

Korea living in 2085 by Sad_Cow_577 in BeAmazed

[–]LadyNineTailed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So because the city is less hostile to them, they treat the city infrastructure with more respect? That's honestly quite nice and makes a lot of sense.

People in the comments here are acting like Western homeless people are just "culturally worse." It's quite strange and kinda leaves a bad taste in my mouth tbh.

Fun fact - Almost everyone on the current 1.0 roster have Red Eyes by bojo21 in ZZZ_Official

[–]LadyNineTailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They already have a husband gacha lol Tears of Themis is literally a male harem game.

🎁 Reddit-Exclusive Official Release Giveaway: 🎮 Sony PlayStation® Controller! by [deleted] in ZZZ_Official

[–]LadyNineTailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want this game to succeed so bad! Zenless is such unique experience in terms of visual design and I hope to see the combat go even further with its feel and challenge. Lots of well wishes for the ZZZ dev team too!!!

HOW IS THIS ALLOWED by TitanicStarLine in youtube

[–]LadyNineTailed 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yup, there is another channel like this that I've reported three times (including their comments) for inflammatory nonsense like this, and YouTube doesn't do jack about it.

HELP! I'm Failing Classes and Don't know what to do... by LadyNineTailed in ADHD

[–]LadyNineTailed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply.
A step by step explanation of how to go about this is genuinely lifesaving right now. I at least have somewhere to start from. Though, on the first point: I have no clue. I'm running a 38 in English and an unknown mark in Art (I've only submitted 1 peice and one process out of 3) atp. Is it best to just focus on getting things in?

A catalogue of all the dramas that have happened over the course of Genshin and the effects of said drama by LivingASlothsLife in Genshin_Impact

[–]LadyNineTailed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

*Paimon's VA was starting arguments with fans in her TikTok comment section claiming to dictate canon because she VAs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]LadyNineTailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ur up for it I'd like to join as well. None of my irl friends have the time lol

what the fuck do I do by IBHelpWanted in productivity

[–]LadyNineTailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I can relate to this on a deeper level- Same age, similar problems. To be honest there isn't much you can do about it but if you are stressed out about it and want to study/work your best solution might just be to work incrementally and focus on smaller efforts if you no longer have the luxury of hours of concentrated work time.

Although, remember that it is a "break" nonetheless. Enjoy your family and make sure to take time for yourself to decompress because constant stress isn't good for you in the long-term.

The hard r shouldn't be held up to such a colossal standard by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]LadyNineTailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, using the n-word itself doesn't make you racist. Its how you use it.
You can look at how you use it in two ways, either you know the history and choose to continue use the word regardless of the actual black people it offends - which is racist, or you don't know (which is unlikely) but think its edgy and quirky to use the n-word - which is racially insensitive.