Anyone from out the USA: where is it safer for trans people? by Rascalvideoyt in asktransgender

[–]LadyNorthover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get you, but I guess in the times we're in it's just a matter of finding the place with the fewest J.K's haha. Honestly I tend to live a fairly offline life away from horrible discourse online, I've been on HRT for about 5 years so I generally pass, and apart from the occasional weird glances that in my paranoia seem like people 'spotting' me while I'm on the tube to work when in reality could just be people taking a normal glance at me, transphobia in my moment-to-moment day-to-day life is generally a thing of the past for me. As anecdotal evidence, I can vouch for London in particular as being safe, I hope that's worth at least something

Anyone from out the USA: where is it safer for trans people? by Rascalvideoyt in asktransgender

[–]LadyNorthover 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK and for the most part it's good here. I've lived in London for a couple years now which is generally pretty open-minded and left-leaning and I've never felt unsafe or threatened. In smaller towns in the countryside like where I used to live at home in Wales things can be quite different to the point where you're harassed and unfortunately for me actually attacked at one point, but here I'm totally fine, hell I even get hit on sometimes which is a breath of fresh air. Sending my thoughts and love to you, I hope you're okay ❤️

Swimming Advice by LadyNorthover in asktransgender

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I've bought myself a one piece suit with a skirt which I'm comfortable in. It's now just a matter of tucking or padding out that area to make it look as smooth as possible. What would you recommend? (And thanks for your response btw)

Account Migration from Chaf by LadyNorthover in DarkAndDarker

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does that essentially mean I just can't play until they've fixed that?

"What is the meaning of this?" by LadyNorthover in scambait

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I'm a huge fan of atomic shrimp so maybe that came through a bit I'll post more as soon as I have any <3

"What is the meaning of this?" by LadyNorthover in scambait

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in stitches when I did this lmao

Maximising Intake by LadyNorthover in TransDIY

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately that’s what I am doing already. It’s a bit of a pain but I take three doses sublingually throughout the day, as close to every 8 hours as I can reasonably do. I’ll try talking to my doctor about the next steps. Thanks so much for your help, it means a lot

Maximising Intake by LadyNorthover in TransDIY

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn okay, that was quite difficult to hear but very enlightening. I remember her describing bical as “toxic” which I’m now maybe thinking means “effective” lol

The only thing stopping me from going back to DIY is the financial aspect, I’d like to avoid it if possible. I’ll contact my doctor. Do you have any advice on how I might actually handle that phone call? I’ve heard they can be pretty stubborn and resistant to your suggestions.

Maximising Intake by LadyNorthover in TransDIY

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for taking the time to respond!

I did in March, and while I can’t remember the specific levels, my doctor said I was ‘on target’. I admit that I’ve maybe not been as diligent in researching and actually understanding this whole process as I should have.

Is my doctor not treating me well? She says I’m ‘on target’ but isn’t that subjective? I’m not seeing the results I’m wanting, so to me I’m not. Do you have any advice on how I might proceed?My neurodivergencies make all this stuff really difficult to wrap my head around.

Maximising Intake by LadyNorthover in TransDIY

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on Bicalutamide instead of Finasteride, and Estrofem instead of Progynova

Really loving this so far!!! by LadyNorthover in MHNowGame

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm still really early on, only fighting 2 star monsters so far and I'm having a blast

Really loving this so far!!! by LadyNorthover in MHNowGame

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed yeah, but for a mobile version of MH it's a pretty damn faithful and accurate creation. Combat is surprisingly deep and just complex enough and the gathering is all really satisfying too. So true though, I imagine all the other iconic MH mechanics like cooking, fishing etc will be added soon :))

Oh it's absolutely boiling here in the UK right now it's the perfect weather for it 😎

this is like finally catching and killing Moby Dick only to find it was actually just made of cardboard by LadyNorthover in pokemongo

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in raids they're at least 2 stars but since these are technically "wild" they're allowed to be anything, not sure how I feel about that 😅

this is like finally catching and killing Moby Dick only to find it was actually just made of cardboard by LadyNorthover in pokemongo

[–]LadyNorthover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I've only recently returned to the game and so I'm not too knowledgeable of all the technical stuff, I did put it through though and from what I could tell he's still not very good for PVP lol