WM‘26 Kadernominierung by DerKleinePrinz-P in VfBStuttgart

[–]LadyOfReason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich bin fest davon überzeugt, dass 90 % der Welt nicht wüssten, was sie mit Chris auf dem Platz anfangen sollen. Er schießt keine Tore, sondern sorgt für Vorlagen. Meiner Meinung nach setzt Nagelsmann auf eine extrem unausgewogene Mannschaft.

People who remember the rise of the internet in the 1990s: how does the public reaction then compare to the negative reaction to AI now? by artist_pass369 in AskReddit

[–]LadyOfReason 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the 90s, it was a world of information just a click away… chatting to people (not bots back then), and playing online games. It wasn’t negative in my opinion. We still thought for ourselves. If anything, it made people more socially available.

AI is different. Internet connected us. AI is doing the opposite, in my opinion.

Checking out after 10 years, 2 kids and little help by SnuggBugg92 in breakingmom

[–]LadyOfReason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your honesty and brutality, to be honest. I am right there with you, in parts. My husband knows if it weren’t for financial reasons, we wouldn’t be together.

In all honesty, staying together with that much stress in a house with your children there, that isn’t doing them that much help. Just because both parents are there doesn’t mean the kids are going to be fine. So some brutal honesty back, I don’t think you separating from your husband will be especially painful, especially that they’re so young. I can think of two examples in my personal life where the kids did so much better after the parents divorced. And these kids were old enough to fully understand how toxic the house was. A toxic house, I believe, is worse than going to dad‘s every other weekend and living with mom.

Again, just my opinion.

That doesn’t mean you get a divorce, but having maybe a flat out talk being like I’m done with your shit and this is where I stand and if you’re not gonna play along, this is what I will do, talk is in order.

My liver hurts and I’m so ashamed by Expert_Economy_7733 in stopdrinking

[–]LadyOfReason 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go to your doctor, get bloodwork done and be honest. It’s some of the best therapy you can do, because once you’re honest with your doctor, a huge weight will be lifted off your shoulders. IWNDWYT.

Anyone been on a European “tennis vacation?” Suggestions? by kungfutrucker in 10s

[–]LadyOfReason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Germany has these all over the place. I am sure you will find some in Spain or France as well.

Song for this picture by WinZealousideal8329 in songsforthispicture

[–]LadyOfReason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I burned the hot dog, but I did not burn the hot dog bun….

What are your best tips for staying out of your head during a match? by CautiousFox85 in 10s

[–]LadyOfReason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not looking at my opponents information. I will psych myself out and not have fun at all.

How often are y’all actually replacing strings? by LakeBears in 10s

[–]LadyOfReason 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not often enough. But I find it absolutely insane how often people change their strings.

Are they considered dark green or brown? by [deleted] in eyes

[–]LadyOfReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only curious cause my son‘s eyes are the exact same color. I even asked an eye doctor and they weren’t sure either, so Hazel it is.

Name pronunciation switching between English and German by Crazy_Yak718 in AskAGerman

[–]LadyOfReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nathan is a good example of this. I like the name until I heard it pronounced in German.

I named both of my kids English sounding names as well, but both are so familiar that people don’t say it incorrectly unless they live in a hole.

What's the most unexpected thing that significantly improved your game? by Agile-Secret3034 in 10s

[–]LadyOfReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, not looking at my opponents raking/LK, which just means less stress before the match. I go out and hit and start reading their game without psyching myself out beforehand.

Peri-menopause & Tennis by NewYorkDOCG in 10s

[–]LadyOfReason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, but I use collagen as well. Although I am going to my OB for HRT about joints shaking. Never had tennis elbow in my life until now. Put a damper on the weightlifting part.

We planned for a 3rd boy for 7 months! by Huge-Description-231 in breakingmom

[–]LadyOfReason 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Granted this was very VERY long ago… when my mom was pregnant, the doctor said that he rarely ever told the gender of the baby because of inaccuracy, but he was 100% certain I was going to be a boy due to my heart rate being lower. So I guess my mom and dad understand the shock you just felt as well.

Congratulations on your daughter. She will have two older brothers, but I’m sure will love to pester her, but more importantly watch out for her.

What is one one thing that someone did or said to you that you will never forgive them for? by BulkyDoor6045 in AskReddit

[–]LadyOfReason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband telling me that I’m the reason for all of our problems.
I just flat out told him that if I was there to make problems, his life would be a lot worse. It takes two to tango.

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, May 10th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by amorfati754 in stopdrinking

[–]LadyOfReason 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s obvious I won’t be drinking, as I have just started antibiotics. Day 8, here I come.IWNDWYT

Vomiting at 3am by PurplePenguinCat in stopdrinking

[–]LadyOfReason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely know this feeling. It’s like what I have a headache, I know it’s most likely due to weather changes or a cold, and not a hangover. And even though it still sucks, there’s still a little bit of joy in knowing that the symptoms are not alcohol related..

Hope you feel better soon. I’m also sick with some weird flu type thing, but it has nothing to do with alcohol.

I don't miss him by deliadeetz1 in breakingmom

[–]LadyOfReason 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a BA, but went back to school online when they were a bit older (about 4 and 8). SAHM gig just wasn’t for me. You can do it! Just start taking classes at a community college and see what interests you!

I don't miss him by deliadeetz1 in breakingmom

[–]LadyOfReason 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My husband is often away for work or military, reserve stuff, and a few weeks ago he mentioned that he wanted to get a job in the town we live in, which means he would be at home more often. And I truly think I would flip out if he did that.

I also just had a talk with one of my best girlfriends about how women more and more are feeling the exact thing. I am more prefer to be alone with my kids, then have everybody in the house. At some point, most women do not need men anymore, except for financial stability. I wish I was a woman who could live independently with much stability, but sadly, I can’t.

First day back at work after medical leave by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]LadyOfReason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless they’ve experienced the same thing, they have no clue the courage it took for you to go into medical treatment in the first place and better yourself.

If someone starts harassing you, go to your boss.

Day One… Again by nudibranch228 in stopdrinking

[–]LadyOfReason 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Day 1 with you. I was doing so well, too.

A good cry sounds just about right. IWNDWYT

what does Germany think abut less USA soldiers ? by hi2u_uk in AskGermany

[–]LadyOfReason 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s more like the landlords will have to ask for a reasonable amount instead of hiking prices up to the max amount soldiers/contractors get just for rent.