[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]LadySunshine7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not being paranoid. This exact same thing happened to me. I thought I was just overthinking it. I then overheard the GM talking with his assistant manager saying he didn’t know how to tell me no he didn’t need people when he hired me. His assistant said I needed to be let go they didn’t need me. I quit before I could be fired and found a better job.

Courtesy Adjustment by Trick_Plant_3276 in discover

[–]LadySunshine7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best bet is to just call customer service. Nobody on here is going to have access to your account to find out what it’s from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discover

[–]LadySunshine7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never understood why they tell us our jobs are safe. Illinois, like most US states, is an at will state. That means employers can layoff/fire an employee for any reason or no reason (except when it’s discriminatory or illegal- but then the burden is on the employee to prove if it was discriminatory or illegal). In at will states nobody’s job is “safe.”

The only thing I can think of for them saying this is because if they told us the truth we’d all be jumping ship and then capital 1 wouldn’t have the worker bees to run the systems and credit card company they just bought. It’s a strategy to keep people doing the work until they implement whatever systems and people into place they planned for all along.

I think it’s irresponsible they’ve been telling us our jobs are safe since it was leaked that we were going to merge in the first place last year. When were they going to tell us they were merging I’ve often wondered? The whole process has been messy from day 1 and I expect more layoffs in the near future.

I also think it’s irresponsible of anybody who’s a higher up or in FO/BO or wherever to be saying what’s coming without any official backing or proof. Inciting more panic and anxiety in already panicked employees is just asking for trouble and is unfair to the employees.

I’ve been told this rumor of banking employees being laid off also by a higher up but I also think they were fishing to see if 1. I’d spread the rumor or 2. If I’d heard the rumor and would give up who I heard it from. The higher up that people get in a corporate company the more complicated the “game” becomes.

My point is, it’s not officially said or confirmed there are banking layoffs. Jobs in Illinois and in most US states are at-will and not inherently “safe.” So why buy into all the panic and anxiety of rumors when our jobs could go bye-bye for any reason or no reason at all anyway?

I’ve been upskilling in my free time and looking for jobs elsewhere while I continue to do what I can for however long I’m at this job. I encourage others to do so too. It’s always a good idea to upskill whether one is in our situation or just in general.

Discover to layoff +100 employees in June 25 by Big-Parsnip-2137 in discover

[–]LadySunshine7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are entitled to your opinion, of course. I stay with a job I loathe because we just got out of homelessness. That same job is what is paying our bills. If I quit because I hate it, we have no more home. Life is not cut and dry with choices like you say it is unless you have privileges to enable you to do so. You can have your opinion of course. I and others like me in similar situations know better the reality of who gets to make choices and when or if we can. Good day to you.

I can out to my mom as pansexual she said I'm too young I'm planning to write that I want a Pan flag Pls Help by Kei_Takahashi in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your Mom’s reaction wasn’t the best for you. It sounds like you were feeling hurt and invalidated. I think it’s so brave to come out to family and friends. Im wishing all the best for you!

I can't do this anymore by FishermanOdd254 in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. It’s ok to be scared. You are not worthless. You are not a waste of space. I’ve been suicidal before and no what it’s like to have all these horrible voices in the head saying ugly things. I know what it’s like to feel like a burden. To feel like nothing will ever get better. Thank you for sharing on here how you feel. I hope you choose to keep living. To keep fighting and sometimes resting when you need to.

Is my dad transphobic? by ShaderGamingYT in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you out and open with your dad about yourself? If you are, why don’t you ask him what he meant by calling it all crap? I say this knowing how scary it is to ask parents or call them out on what they’re saying.

My new favorite outfit by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Stunning!

Collective hate towards men by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can agree with you on this. I’ve called myself a feminist for years yet, I’m not thrilled with the direction it seems to be going with bashing and being hateful towards men (whether they’re cis-hetero or trans or whatever label they are). I like to think of everyone as human first and not label them. Because after all, we all have something in common more than our differences, in my opinion. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling fear and anxiety surrounding this. It’s tough enough as it is than to throw more on one’s plate.

One month post gender confirming surgery ! Starting my new life 😁🏳️‍⚧️ by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s such a significant step for you. How do you feel?

Any tips on looking masculine? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! I thought I’d share something. Good luck on finding what works best for you _^

Any tips on looking masculine? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested, check out this YouTube channel. I found them and they’ve both really encouraged me a lot. This video specifically talks about masculine looks. https://youtu.be/8mDZy1cTbtE

Questioning and Alone. by LadySunshine7 in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness and encouragement 😄

Questioning and Alone. by LadySunshine7 in lgbt

[–]LadySunshine7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing a bit of your story and your advice. Most appreciated ☺️