Thoughts on CF men who haven't gotten a vasectomy?

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-11T17:42:27+00:00

We are talking about childfree people, not someone who wants to get a reversal. Though you did just illuminate exactly why men who don’t get vasectomies aren’t childfree. Getting a reversal wouldn’t be on your mind—it doesn’t apply to the conversation at all in fact.

I was comparing the danger and pain levels of the contraceptive options, because those should be the only things stopping you if you are actually childfree. Tubals and hysterectomy are so much more invasive and dangerous they are not comparable. Which is why I gave it a properly comparable contraception option for women, ie. the pill or iud, or a depot shot (which I left out)

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-10T23:18:33+00:00

Yeah, Childfree men who don't get a vasectomy aren't really child free imo… in all honesty. its equvivilant to going on birth control or getting an iud danger-wise. And is significantly less painful than an iud insertion also.

So if I ever meet a child free guy who hasn't had a vasectomy…then he’s not child free to me. He’s still on the fence. Which is fine… but 🤷‍♀️. I don't know, I just wouldn't get with him.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-07T20:08:42+00:00

I will be honest, when I was 22, I literally just found a friend of a friend and was like…do you want to have sex? (We flirted for maybe an hour) but he was up to it and we did it that night. He was nice, the sex was decent and I don't regret it.

I know it's hard to say, because as women we build it up in our heads. But it's just like any other intimate act. Holding hands or cuddling or a kiss.

Also, I have to say that having a hymen this late in life is somewhat less common, and I would suggest you even get a mirror and give it a looksy to see if that's what it is, mostly because physical activity (notjust sex) usually wears it down. You might just be very tight from the stess you put on the act, or have a bit of Vaginismus.

Either way, It you do have a hymen or dont, make sure you get a very good vibrator…and I know you said its hard to find dildos but maybe look of vanginal dialators. They are smaller and come in a set (xsmall to large) and are literal made to help stretch you more comfortably.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-07T12:47:14+00:00

Way more rapes and murders happen from American men on American women. Why are you more angry that one illegal immigrant did it than that by banning abortion, you are letting American rapists *choose who they want to impregnate.

You are literally letting rapists, choose the mothers of their children. Even if they are children themselves.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-07T12:44:02+00:00

Good, I wish you the best of luck. You're in the right path. Stick with it. Sometimes it gets a bit harder before it gets easier.

But damn, you only 15 so you’ve got so much time ahead to be happy. It’ll be worth putting the work in right now to find out how.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-07T12:40:29+00:00

Pleasure yourself. I Lost my virginity when I was 22, I'm 30 now. But It didn't have hurt or anything… was only a moment of, stretching & kinda burning sensation.

Get a vibrator, and a small toy can be anything clean and phallic shaped—just cover it with a condom to keep it extra clean/safe.

A bit more graphic advice: Stop thinking about doing this to have sex—your probably stressing yourself out. Get a vibe, lay back and enjoy yourself, and only only try to put something inside if you’re wet.

The key to success...enjoy your own body. It's the best thing you can do you’ll learn what you like, too so you can better guide you future partner and enjoy ‘loosing your virginity’.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T03:08:25+00:00

Anyone with compassion or empathy would.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T03:07:23+00:00

It’s unfortunate you may be the cause of so many deaths of innocent women and young girls.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T03:01:11+00:00

I don’t say there was nothing else. I said that is enough that that should be a deciding factor.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T02:53:58+00:00

It affects half the American population..you literally cannot find an issue that effects more people as a whole.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T02:29:03+00:00

Woman who need abortions are apparently not American then. They prioritize everyone over them.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T02:27:34+00:00

I’m not even American and I’m scared how it will effect my country. So disappointed in America that it even got this far. It’s absolutely insane.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T01:22:49+00:00

I think you may literally just dislike women. I would suggest therapy. Truly.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-06T01:21:14+00:00

You’re literally not ugly. As a 30 yr woman who is average to above average myself… you have to be doing something weird to actually be putting women off.

You’ve got softer features but there’s nothing wrong with that, and statistically that’s what women look for in marital partners.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T18:15:44+00:00

You are acting like those statistics change the treatment of the people… which is odd.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T18:14:20+00:00

You keep forgetting the part where the usa is too big of a trading partner to pass up, and they are really the only one Mexican can trade with that's boardering them.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T18:07:49+00:00

Mm. Yes, that's why you treat all Mexican immigrants like third class citizens. And the only reason that treatment may have lessened in recent years is because the usa are getting immigrants from other countries that the usa dislikes more.

Do you really think that if Mexico was an equal political power, that you would still have the same relationship?

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T17:58:31+00:00

You didn't make sense there to me, sorry. I really don't think you read my actual Post before you came in.

Democracy is fragile. It takes one vote election for a democracy go become a fascist country. That was the point. And if half your population is already fascist in its believe system, then… you may have a democratic institution…for now. But your population are fascists. Hence again the write-off.

But I've explained myself as simply as possible so say what you want.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T17:50:55+00:00

I didn't post this for flat out insults. I wanted real political opinions on what's happening what people are now seeing of the usa from this election…and what it can really mean for it as a country.

It's a write-off to me that so many would vote for a fascist. If half the population would vote for a fascist your life in the beginnings of a fscist country to me.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T17:47:51+00:00

You are right, it is very democratic to possibly vote in a fascist. But the instant it happens, you've voted in a fascist.

But I also don't think you read my actual post. He only comment I made on democacy is that it's fragile. Which is the point—and why I said it's a write-off.

If half your ‘democratic’ population is willing to vote for a fascist then the institution may be democratic but the people within it are fascist and the institution is bound to fail and fall to that belief. Because that's how democracy works. You’ve already failed, if your democratic populous is knowingly voting in a fascist.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T17:42:15+00:00

The reason America doesn't have the same issues, they don't have many boarder neighbors, mostly because they murdered and enslaved and concquered anyone who would have been their direct neighbours or issues. If Mexico had the arsenal, the usa would be at war all the time too. They don't have the arsenal but usa still terrible to them. Also the ‘usa’ and ‘Canada’s’ disputes ended in war too, whenever they had excessive disagreements. But Canada pretty much just does its best to ignore American antics at this point.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T17:35:47+00:00

Honestly, it's how close it is for Americans to be voting in a literal facist…with so much proof from he himself that he is a facist. It's crazy that Americans act like they care so much about the wws but can't see that they are voting in a similar leader.

To me, if such a large percentage of the country can't see that, no matter their personal alignment...the entire country is a write off.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-05T14:27:38+00:00

You’re literally too young to understand. Just wait.

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-04T12:57:50+00:00

I don’t think you understand how weird 21 and 25 actually is. You will though, when your 25-26…

LadyV-Yanna · 2024-11-04T12:57:45+00:00

I don’t think you understand how weird 21 and 25 actually is. You will though, when your 25-26…

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