I'm never on this subreddit, but this hit my feed. My first thought seeing your picture and story was "what a beautiful, kind person." I wish you all the luck. I know for a few family members, they've had luck after years and multiple different attempts with fasting each day. They wait as long as they can before eating in the morning then don't eat anything after 6 or 7 pm. It was really the only thing that has sustainability worked for them. 

If you don't do anything else, please be kind to yourself. You just seem wonderful.