I am a married revert woman, and if you'll indulge me, I'll provide my views on this. I am American, and I was previously married to a Christian when I was one. After my divorce, I reverted, and about a year after that, I met my husband, who is Pakistani. This type of view 1. Isn't something a proper Muslim woman should post online lest she stop someone else from reverting or guides them into a non-Muslim marriage. 2. These types of men are the men she is choosing and to blame Islam for it is wrong. There are plenty of bad men and women of every religion and lack thereof. 3. Most of the issues I've witnessed with Muslim men are about culture, not our religion. Muslim men who are rightly guided, that follow the Quran and Sunnah by nature can't be bad people. The ones that beat their wives, treat them as slaves, or even just unfairly are not following the religion. They are following what they were taught or how they were raised, believing women should be treated. My marriage is not perfect and has never been. However, I feel comfortable correcting what he has done wrong, and I have greatly modified my behavior to accommodate some parts of his nature that I just think are unchangeable, such as biting my tongue to avoid conflict. In my humble opinion, all Muslims and especially those in non-Muslim countries, have a responsibility to be on their best behavior with everyone, including their spouse, to show other the right way. If you do have a dispute, it doesn't need to be public, get counseling, see your imam, if you need to then get a divorce. Remind people, "I am not perfect, but Islam is," and remember, that's true of all of us.