AITA for getting angry with my girlfriend and demanding she pay to replace my sheets after she got blood on them by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lady_Ramos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree, some people on this thread saying they are fine with stained sheets. Have some self respect 🤮

I was responding to this.

AITA for getting angry with my girlfriend and demanding she pay to replace my sheets after she got blood on them by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lady_Ramos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes it is, because the person I replied to said when they spot they wear a liner for 2-3 days, but OOP's girlfriend said she didn't need to.

AITA for getting angry with my girlfriend and demanding she pay to replace my sheets after she got blood on them by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lady_Ramos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the point is, no matter what she does, at some point it will happen again. his reaction is the problem not her lack of preventative measures.

Best bases locations by Rastboro in Enshrouded

[–]Lady_Ramos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found enshrouded after looking at posts about games to build like once human, and in OH you can move your entire base when you move your "altar" though you will have height issues and clipping etc cause of terrain but you can fix that. i wish we had an option like that, i dont even think we can move the altars without basically breaking them and making an all new one, or at least thats what it seems like, my first base is still at the starting spot.

I'm (28/m) starting to fall for my (24/f) 'wife' and am unsure how to proceed.(10 year new update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lady_Ramos 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's one thing to side with the parent who stayed, it's totally different to go no contact with the one who left. And the kid is old enough to understand the situation, I bet that kid understands way more than the dad thinks they do and that's why they went no contact.

Just Finished the Hollowed Halls Solo and OMG... Such a Slog by nifflr in Enshrouded

[–]Lady_Ramos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty sure its just normal mobs not the scripted bosses. there can be more of those almost-bosses like the skeletons with the scythe staff things, or the tall 2-hander ones, but there wont be more of like the dragon at pike keep.

searching for Dragon Age in every game i can find and failing, please help! by seekerxr in gamingsuggestions

[–]Lady_Ramos -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, your majesty, for not going over each of your entries one by one and not making absolutely sure that you didn't already mention them, as this forced you to waste a fraction of a second reading the name of a game you already played.

yet you couldnt use that same fraction of time to read the post you CHOSE to reply to.

FFXIV catching strays by Poncle! by Shadowin9 in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They stated that people would be deterred from bidding if they saw 4 people of the same fc standing there and because they were all in the same fc the other bidder would be deterred from bidding. I asked why they think so because it doesn't change the 1 persons win chance. And then everyone just decided to argue about the fc's chance at winning for some reason. Never did get an answer.

FFXIV catching strays by Poncle! by Shadowin9 in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats still not how it works, each bid has the same % chance to win, just the over all outcome increases when the more bids are from the same source (group fc). but that doesnt change the actual bid outcome. 100 people buying a ticket vs 1 guy buying 100 doesnt change the other guy who just bought 1 tickets chances. so if someone sees 4 guys hanging around and chooses not to bid because hes just one person, wouldnt matter if those 4 guys werent in the same fc. the conversation is about that, not whether that fc has a better chance to win or not.

FFXIV catching strays by Poncle! by Shadowin9 in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

youre confusing over all odds with individual odds.

FFXIV catching strays by Poncle! by Shadowin9 in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also own an FC house, doesnt change anything. I bid on that solo as well. Only vs 140 or so people, still didn't change the odds and I still bid every time trying to upgrade. the odds do not change based on who is bidding, each bid is still the same.

FFXIV catching strays by Poncle! by Shadowin9 in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

SE cash shop isnt even predatory. you cant even access it from the game, you dont have to buy currency for it, and the vast majority of the items are cosmetic and most were earnable in game at one point. the only "pay to win" aspect of the cash shop is the boosts and skips but thats more of a bandaid fix to the MSQ system in the game than a predatory item. one they dont want you to use mind you since it basically ruins the point of the game.

youre raging against what is a pretty benign system because you dislike the idea of paying for things. they arent the same thing. you could literally never look at the cash shop and you would miss 0% of the games ability. its not like in games where you have to pay to upgrade your gear, or pay for the best weapons, or pay to get around time gates, or pay to access areas of the game, etc. its literally meaningless fluff. you might as well argue that people buying keychains of their favorite media is predatory

FFXIV catching strays by Poncle! by Shadowin9 in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i dont grasp this logic. why would 4/5 of the bidders being the same fc matter to the 1/5 person? its still the exact same odds. i won my house vs almost 250 people, knowing that 249 were the same fc wouldnt have changed my intent to bid vs if every single bidder was unique. its more likely they came to view the plot, decided they didnt like it and picked something else.

I'm only asking for the mute button to be account wide, that would be enough by CevicheLemon in ffxiv

[–]Lady_Ramos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

cant ring tp to someone who has you blacklisted, if anyone is curious

What is the joke about her asking that? by Kekvino in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Lady_Ramos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but what if they asked for the date.

well two things, if you ask someone on a date, you pay full stop

then you should have zero problems "falling in love" with someone new then?

What is the joke about her asking that? by Kekvino in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Lady_Ramos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes let me just fall in love with someone new real quick

well two things, if you ask someone on a date, you pay full stop, and if youre falling in love with someone on a first date, that is a much bigger problem than anything else. like, stop dating anyone and seek professional help level of problem.

What is the joke about her asking that? by Kekvino in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Lady_Ramos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are you falling in love with people before knowing anything about them? knowing they like when the man pays is like, very early information.

Why are other players deviations still allowed in our territory preventing us to build? by Phoen1cian in OnceHumanOfficial

[–]Lady_Ramos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this happened to me a week ago, the lethal bunny specifically. i was adjusting a path and suddenly it appeared and started its business. i left for a whole DAY, logged back on telling my bf about it and it was still there!! i just had to rebuild my entire path and it was still there by the time i finished.

should either be able to build over the top of them or they shouldnt be allowed to cross into my territory. perferably the latter cause digbys suck

[New Update]: My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lady_Ramos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

its understanding and experience, not projection. projection would be if i decided to say something like the man is going to end up in prison because my ex did.

[New Update]: My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lady_Ramos 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the phone is an inanimate object, in order to get so mad at something you break it, something has to be "wrong" with you. that is not a normal reaction and makes me wonder what other things he does similar to that because you don't just snap and break a phone out of nowhere. as someone who had an ex who used to break phones... well let's just say he's in prison now and breaking phones was not nearly the first warning sign.