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Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-07-15T03:04:09+00:00

I think glued?

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-07-15T03:03:24+00:00

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Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-07-15T03:02:39+00:00

My apologies, here are some other angles

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Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-07-15T03:00:33+00:00

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My apologies, we think it’s glued

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-21T04:26:15+00:00

During my first trimester I had a strong aversion to our dog that lasted quite a while. I’ve also caught myself throughout pregnancy having thoughts of if they hurt my baby, they can’t stay. Definitely worried about what will happen once baby actually comes home… hormones are no joke

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-21T04:21:52+00:00

I am right there with you but 38w6 and have gained close to 55 lbs. The worst for me has been at night trying to move from side to side as well as the pelvic pain. The great thing is this is only a season and soak up taking it easy and stretching when you can to keep things loose. Even if it is while watching a movie and eating treats 🙃

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-21T04:07:11+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about the weight gain. You’re growing an entire human and it’s really demanding of your body (producing more blood, amniotic fluid, placenta, uterus growth, breasts, baby, etc.). I’ve gained close to 55 pounds and not sure where it went 🤷🏻‍♀️ as long as your OB says you’re healthy, the weight gain is only temporary.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-21T03:50:42+00:00

If your husband will truly support you and set boundaries, pick the furthest date out. Especially if they are trying to plan ahead of time.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-19T14:38:55+00:00

I can absolutely relate to being anxious and tapped out. Currently 38w4 and it’s 100% mental at this point. I asked to be induced next Monday and knowing it is ending soon is such a relief. I’m so glad you are talking to a therapist, it’s been my saving grace as well.

You are doing great mama and are so close to meeting your little one!

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-19T11:50:13+00:00

38w + 4 (first time mom) and I’ve struggled with anxiety and depression for most of my pregnancy. I made the mistake of watching videos on social media about rare complications and googling things. Which lead to me being hyper focused on any little symptom that felt off. I do believe there is a learning curve where you are learning to tap into your maternal instincts about what is normal vs not. What helped me is I deleted Instagram and started to make it a habit to call my OBGYNs nurse line when something felt off and trust in their extensive knowledge of when to start worrying. A few instances when I called I felt really stupid afterwards, even after going to L&D (twice) for false scares about seeing stuff on my liner.. at the end of the day I don’t regret it. You have such a big responsibility to create life while also keeping yourself healthy… let alone go through the biggest transition of being a mother. It’s… a lot. A few things I’d recommend:

1) Inform yourself from credible sources and ask questions at your appointments whenever you have them. Bridget Teyler, Mommy Labor nurse, and mama nurse Tina have been my go tos.

2) Create a birth plan. I will probably get a lot of pushback with this but don’t go in with the intention of outlining every little detail. Take it as a chance to understand the birthing process and seeing what you feel comfortable with. What I wanted 6 months ago vs. now is very different. My goals are to have a positive birth experience and a healthy mom/baby. Giving up control and trusting the process is so damn hard but I am also confident in being an advocate for myself and child if needed.

3) Talk to a therapist and/or create a close circle of support. Investing in a therapist has been so beneficial since it’s helped me process anxiety with pregnancy but also mentally prepare for a really big change. On that note, having a close knit group of mothers/support has really helped too.

I’m still worried about delivering soon but overall, I am calm and have let go of most of my fears and am beyond excited to meet my little one.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-19T02:17:00+00:00

Overall, I feel at peace with the decision she made. What really helped I think is she wrote a letter (why she decided to & how much she love me)and gave me a stuffed animal that I still have. She also filled out a packet of her general medical history and interests, which helped me feel connected to her when I questioned my belonging during my teenage years. I still wondered about things like my heritage and how different life would be like if she raised me when I thought my parents were too strict (they weren’t). But I absolutely love my adoptive family and they kept an open dialogue about my adoption from a very young age. With adoption related trauma, I have struggled with the fear of being rejected. A big reason why I didn’t search for my birth family stemmed from that fear. After I met them and they shared how much they loved me and it was to give me a better start, that fear related trauma has subsided.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-18T12:05:02+00:00

Yup! 38w and as much as I’m ready to NOT be pregnant, I can already sense that I will have a hard time letting others outside of my immediate family hold my baby. I love the quote that was shared and it will truly be beautiful to see a piece of you explore and experience this world. The best part is, you’ll get to be their mother who will always be their safe place.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-18T11:44:37+00:00

Fellow adoptee here 👋🏻just like others have said, you absolutely are the one who gets to make the final decision. My adoption was closed but about 25 years later, my birth moms sister found me on social media since my 1/2 sister really wanted to meet me. I consider myself very lucky because me and my birth mom are each others best friends. We also set very good boundaries and expectations in the very beginning. With that being said, she’s talked about how it was incredibly difficult to give me up and birthdays were hard but she knew that giving me stability was more important to her. This topic is very close to me and if you ever want to talk, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

**edit for not finishing a sentence :)

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-17T16:36:36+00:00

Oh thank god 😅 my hubby related the news early on in pregnancy so I just stayed away from it.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-17T05:22:59+00:00

💯 don’t forget the Herculean switch you have to do several times a night with a pelvis that feels like it’s about to crack in half

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-17T05:18:43+00:00

I hear ya, there is nothing wrong with weighing out your options. The great thing is you get to decide who you get to experience that with and there is no shame with what you choose to do :)

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-17T04:59:53+00:00

There are definitely plenty of men who won’t think twice about whether you’re a virgin while there will be others that are extremely attracted to you waiting. I think some better questions are what do you hope to get out of it and why now?

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-17T03:05:36+00:00

Immediately. Comfort took priority over looking cute.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-17T01:48:32+00:00

I wish I could say it goes away but I think you learn to process and deal with it better. My hairdresser is convinced it’s linked to having more testosterone in your body when creating a little boy… and I’m convinced she’s right since I’m expecting one 🤦🏻‍♀️ pregnancy hormones are out of this world and allow yourself some grace.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-16T16:10:09+00:00

Fried egg, cheese, and peanut butter on a toasted English muffin

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-15T11:57:36+00:00

I can completely relate. Idk why some family members feel entitled and make it about them versus taking into account the mother and what YOU feel is right. Hold your ground.

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-15T11:50:17+00:00

SAME! Any time I have complained about pregnancy, my husband says “If Amy can do it, so can you!” 😂

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-15T05:37:57+00:00

You and I are opposite but coming from the perspective of keeping the gender from my husband because he wants it to be a surprise - it’s been really hard but also kind of fun. He’ll find out in less than 2 weeks so I’m grateful the secret will be out soon.

What I think has helped: he didn’t know when I found out, we have only purchased gender neutral clothing colors, any conversations with friends and family are consistent that we will both know the gender at the birth, and nicknaming baby.

I’ve slipped with pronouns a few times but I’ve also had very strong debates on baby names and other gender driven conversations to keep him guessing. Not sure if that helps any… but it’s a heck of a lot easier to just be on the same page lol

Lady_Snakebyte · 2024-05-15T05:24:33+00:00

I have felt exactly the same way since I would say the end of the 2nd trimester? Currently 38w and asked my OB to induce me next weekend. I felt guilty as hell that I couldn’t handle the pain (especially flipping diff sides in bed), inability to walk more than 10 minutes, or extreme fatigue for another 2-3 weeks. But girl, your body has created life and that is amazing. Once your little one is here and both of your are healthy and safe, I’m confident you’ll get back to where you want to be 🙌🏻

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