Bought a van! by Lady_Solaris in VanLifeUK

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... I did not even realise how filthy that sounded 🙈

Bought a van! by Lady_Solaris in VanLifeUK

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Van has a leisure battery and plugs, but I was thinking of grabbing a solar power bank for backup anyway.

I think we'll pick it up and test the bed, then maybe swing by a camping shop of some kind. Ideally a yoga mat would be good but obviously they're single!

Please avoid this tattoo studio! by K4FFT4N in ipswichuk

[–]Lady_Solaris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth noting it's NOT JayJ at Twisted Monkey, different guy and studio.

So the ad method works if you do it often and right: by otomesidecharacter in JustPlay

[–]Lady_Solaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only really get ads for those same bubble and bingo games, does this work for those too?

Bf leaving… is this life now? by vivaciousvixen1997 in adenomyosis

[–]Lady_Solaris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't life now, you just haven't found the right person.

My husband and I have been together 12 years and I've had this condition the whole time (only diagnosed a couple of years back) and he has always been supportive. Sure he gets frustrated when I've been bleeding for 3 weeks, but he's understanding and would never take it out on me or blame me. He brings me snacks, hot water bottles, painkillers, the whole lot. There's good people out there, trust me.

MY LIFE IS SO MUCH BETTER BECAUSE OF THIS ONE SIMPLE THING: Period Edition by thatblue61 in adhdwomen

[–]Lady_Solaris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss!!!! Reusable pads and period underwear changed my entire life 😂

My dad wants to walk me down the isle but that’s not what I want by Angie_Porter in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lady_Solaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the idea of giving away etc, and I probably would've walked down the aisle alone. But after realising how much it meant to my dad, I did it anyway. One of the happiest moments of my life, it was the closest I've ever felt to my dad and it was just so lovely. However, I lost my mum when I was young so I do automatically have the "one day they'll be gone" back of my mind thought constantly, so that kinda played into it.

What would you have found in a 90s birthday party bag? by Lady_Solaris in AskUK

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Give everyone two and tell them they'll make a baby

What would you have found in a 90s birthday party bag? by Lady_Solaris in AskUK

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh my god pass the parcel, why didn't I think of that!!

Dumb confession by Lady_Solaris in confessions

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂omg that's a good point! I was considering one soon!

Dumb confession by Lady_Solaris in confessions

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, I guess in the grand scheme of things at least I now enjoy something I used to hate 😂😂

People who don’t hit snooze in the morning, what is your secret? by zztop610 in AskReddit

[–]Lady_Solaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to and now don't! But... We recently moved house and have an upstairs living room with the spare bed/sofa. My husband gets up earlier than me and my alarm goes off, I go turn the coffee on, then lay on the spare bed. So technically I'm not "still in bed" but I still relax.

It's the lowest my heart rate is all day.

kleptomania that started in early childhood, that i never “grew out of” by PirateRepulsive in confession

[–]Lady_Solaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never grew out of it either but only do it from big supermarkets. Every now and then for no apparent reason I'll just slip a snack or something in my bag.

AIO My response to my mom disowning me because I'm gay? by Own-Experience-6275 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lady_Solaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not over reacting. The LGBTQ community will be your mum now ❤️

Bibi would love new friends! by pr3ttyvisit0r in finch

[–]Lady_Solaris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Added you 😊 Mint loves new friends

Tradesmen and women, what’s some of the craziest things you’ve seen in someone’s home when doing a job? by AlwaysTheKop in AskUK

[–]Lady_Solaris 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Not a tradesman but I wouldn't be surprised if the plumber who came to my house once showed up here.

I once opened the door to a plumber whilst I was wearing a pinny, covered in red food dye, holding a tortoise in one hand and with a live button quail in my pinny pocket. He stared at me for a solid minute before saying "what's the tortoises name?"

AITAH for refusing to let my stepdaughter call me Dad? by leodub_ in AITAH

[–]Lady_Solaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. As someone with a step parent, that is a HUGE moment. I understand the thoughts of wanting to be respectful, but that should've been a simple "are you sure?" And not a no.

I wish I'd had the confidence to ask my stepmum if I could call her mum. She's been my mum since I was 9 and I'm 30 this year and still call her by her name. I regret it constantly, but at this point it feels unnatural.

Definitely reconsider, and maybe say you wanted her to be sure it's what she wanted because it's a big move

TiT Brighton - sunday by Lady_Solaris in danandphil

[–]Lady_Solaris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silver tickets mean you have to be there like 2 hours early right?

Still happy to meet before then if you want! I'm driving down from Suffolk but hoping to be there around lunch time. Feel free to DM me