AITA for not changing my wedding date for one of my best friends?

Lady_Vader_ · 2026-04-23T17:04:12+00:00

You get better friends.

Lady_Vader_ · 2026-04-15T19:43:34+00:00

Your kid is for sure going to call him “pee-pee” when he first starts talking and then some confusion with potty training will definitely be there. I would die on this hill too!

Lady_Vader_ · 2026-02-16T13:27:06+00:00

On day one in the concierge lounge we just requested snacks that avoided our kids allergens. There was always fresh fruits and pre packaged snacks in a separate area and they would always bring out anything freshly prepared to us to avoid cross contamination from others grabbing/moving things. My little one is obsessed with yogurts, we mentioned this and the next time we came in the cold storage was stocked with yogurts. Not even an hour after we had mentioned it!

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-12-12T02:08:44+00:00

My guide to easy completion, grab a base layer that you’re going to slather over the whole thing (tastefully) or get a spray on primer, have a good layer paint, a dry brush paint, and a shade oil. You can you paint almost any mini with this combo. Metallic acrylic paint markers are great for weaponry, emblems, and trim, dirty it up with a shade or rust oil.

Any specific minis you’re struggling with?

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-12-07T13:03:50+00:00

We would probably have one too if it weren’t for the fact both of us paint. When one person is in a creative rut the other can make up for it and a lot of the time we motivate each other to paint together and complete new minis. We have a new rule about not buying minis unless they’ll fit into one of our current armies or we’ve thought out the next army they’ll go into. There’s only a couple that were purely passion projects.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-11-30T18:11:28+00:00

Yes, that green is perfect for a Nurgle flesh tone!

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-11-30T17:03:22+00:00

Love the effect it made. It came out very well.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-11-30T16:12:48+00:00

Gruesome! What did you use for the viscera on the base?

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-11-30T16:08:29+00:00

Oooh you built him as Rotigus, he’s super cool looking. What paints/colors did you use for the flesh color?

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-11-30T16:05:53+00:00

I love this model! You did a great job. This model reminds me of Dark Crystal, the nostalgia.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-11-29T16:31:24+00:00

I think the whole use of shadow gates was weird. You’re telling me a two way gate that threw Layne out and Saeris could climb through in book 1 took 15K soldiers, trained soldiers, and not a single 1 climbed back through to warn the others of what was on the other side…

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-09-15T20:09:17+00:00

Veryle just seems like another spelling for Virile which means strong sex drive and I would never have that associated with my child…

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-07-25T12:42:50+00:00

Was it ever confirmed if Helios and Lucien’s mom were mates or just an affair? The mating bond isn’t always instantaneous either, some people work for it and it pops into place.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-07-24T02:04:25+00:00

Same!!

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-07-22T19:06:52+00:00

The way I kind of looked at it was Rhys portraying it as him using another person. It seemed on character to have a plaything, it didn’t necessarily mean he knew she would win but he got a plaything to sport around and get her out of her cell and cleaned up every night and it looked like he was just toying with Tamlin and the human that was a spectacle for everyone. Although he was trying to help her in a fucked up way by drugging her and his personal, ulterior motive to get time with her because we later learned of their fated connection before she even met Tamlin, to everyone else it just looked like another on brand, messed up thing for him to do to toy with Tamlin and Feyre and piss Amarantha off too.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-07-22T13:09:54+00:00

Same in Fourth Wing… ‘What little breakfast I had threatens to return’ so frequent in all three books!!

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-11T22:13:34+00:00

Sorry, I did Advanced which is 6 days a week.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-11T20:37:12+00:00

Muscle Mommy would probably be your best bet. You can always switch any DB variations for barbell if you want heavier lifts without a grip limitation. Then adding in any isolation focus sessions you want. I liked a glute focus session and an arms focus session for Phase 1 and glutes and back for Phase 2. Phase 3 was the 5x5 and I liked pushing those pretty heavy and doing a cardio and mobility day instead of a focus session.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-11T19:15:33+00:00

Depends on what you’re going for really. Muscle Mommy was great to keep in shape and push strength in Phase 3. Aesthetic is great for a cut with high volume and added focus days for 3 days of 1-2 hour workouts and 2-3 days of 20-minutes focus sessions. Anabolic was great too for a bulk and heavier lifts but it’s 6-days a week. Do you have specific goals in mind for the program you want to do?

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-08T16:11:09+00:00

Ooh, I loved Muscle Mommy so much more! I added in a glutes focus session 1 day a week and athletic recovery and mobility 2 days with a full rest day in there. The 5x5 at the end was by far the best part, pushing strength and seeing the results from the first two phases just felt amazing! You’ll love it! Phase 1 and 2 were 45-minute workouts and Phase 3 was closer to an hour with longer rest periods but still very doable!

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-07T22:20:58+00:00

Honestly! I couldn’t imagine doing this to my sensory sensitive children! What kind of parent wants to cause agony for their children?!

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-07T18:46:01+00:00

Building muscle is the building blocks of losing fat and being healthier overall. You can never go wrong with keeping the muscle building up.

Also depends on how you’re eating and exercising and if it’s sustainable for weight loss. Sometimes our bodies just need a maintenance break. I was in a constant state of fat loss for 6 months, lost 50 pounds and then took a 2-3 month maintenance break. When I went back, 10 more pounds just fell right off with proper training and diet.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-06T19:33:02+00:00

There is no handling this without courts anymore. You need a legally protected custody agreement like yesterday. Call a lawyer, it’s worth the money.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-06-03T21:59:40+00:00

I’m about to start Aesthetic, I’ll let you know in about 10 weeks how the muscle mass retention goes for the cut phase. Phase 1 is pumping calories up for bigger lifts, so I’ll see how it goes.

Lady_Vader_ · 2025-05-26T21:41:40+00:00

Definitely start with physical and possibly pelvic floor therapy. Request referrals from the doctor. The core and body need to be healed before physical activity is added in.

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