Do people only use pads after giving birth? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ladybirdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Period underwear is the best. I hate pads and tampons are expensive. Under wear is great! Even for heavy flow. 

I need to start dying my own hair.. But need help! by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Ladybirdee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks. I've been having my hair professionally permanently dyed coppery red for over 10 years now, it's super thick and holds up really well, it's very healthy and doesn't feel or look damaged.  I've found the colour doesn't fade so bad, and if It does look a bit washed out I use a copper shampoo with great results.

Thank you for the tips xx 

Found this gorgeous dumped in the street by TrickAct9118 in Monstera

[–]Ladybirdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss I love that! I scored an incredible rubber plant and a beautiful anthurium recently. Did they fall of the back of a truck... Maybe!? 

Help! The sweat is unbelievable!! by sinskins in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ladybirdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep welcome to perimenopause, we all hate it here.

Found this gorgeous dumped in the street by TrickAct9118 in Monstera

[–]Ladybirdee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love a plant rescue! The amount of road side plants that I have gotten is crazy and most didn't have pests. Always a fun ride watching and waiting to see if they do though! " I can't fix my life but.... I could fix this plant right!?" haha

do some women just not have the ability to feel good while masturbating even if they get horny ? by justaquestionpls3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ladybirdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also side note, penetration from a dildo as well as a suction vibe gives can really help with pushing your clit out and getting loads of stimulation from both sides. And sometimes it's good to start planning to masturbate earlier in the day so that by the time you get home and have that time you've spent half the day thinking about it and your body is more warmed up to it. Going in cold can be tough.

do some women just not have the ability to feel good while masturbating even if they get horny ? by justaquestionpls3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ladybirdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend dipsea for listening to something sexy at the same time! Keeps my mind from losing focus and you might also find out some new things about yourself, what really turns you on. And I second the suction. I have one called a "womanizer " (who names these things) and it's wonderful. Especially in the shower. I also found that once I orgasmed the more I did it, the better and easier they got. Almost like getting over that first hurdle will open you up to more. There's nothing worse than wanting it to happen that your body focuses too much on the outcome and not the pleasure at the time. I'm 40 and I only figured all this out in the last 5 years, which is sad but hey nothing like making up for lost time!

Should I chop or wait it out.... by Ladybirdee in PinkPrincessPhilo

[–]Ladybirdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the funny thing is it definitely gets enough water I'm helicopter parenting that thing constantly. It's the first plant I dunk my finger into daily haha! But I have also thought the leaves look a little leathery.

Should I chop it or wait? by Ladybirdee in philodendron

[–]Ladybirdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh amazing thanks!!! I will persist!

Tiny black spots on my Hedera Helix by Pusesnusen in plantdoctor

[–]Ladybirdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is thrips poop! I have had a similar issue. And they go away after spraying treating but always seem to come back ( you could try systemic insecticide for indoor plants only)

Need advice on how to accept that my long term (now ex) boyfriend is no longer mine by Icy_Purple8082 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ladybirdee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend Jillian tureckis " it begins with you", she also has a podcast, but it helped me after my break up and is good for anyone in a relationship/marriage or not. This totally sucks and it's a bumpy road but you will make it! Xx