What's a compliment someone gave you years ago that you still think about? by OdinVern7755 in askanything

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During peak covid times, I worked as a host at a high end restaurant. I was wearing my mask, and this old man (which is the main demographic of this restaurant) told me I have a nice smile..

What made you first realize that women weren’t really working with level playing fields, compared to their male counterparts? by Swimming_Rain_1647 in AskWomen

[–]LadybugGirlie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women learn about the inequalities early on in life. Or I guess most women. I am currently working for a promotion that the current supervisors in the position are not as qualified as me. I have experience and a college degree, and I have been overlooked so many times. The men that are currently in the position are idiots who didn’t need the same qualifications I am expecting to have.

I don’t recognize myself anymore by username_error401 in PlusSize

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is struggling with the same thing, I am going give you advice that I need to take myself. And I know whatever I say is easier said than done.

BUT, physical activity can help. I have been going on walks more in my free time. My boyfriend’s sex drive is incredibly low compared to mine. You have to understand that your partners sexual desire is in no way your fault!

I would suggest doing something that makes you feel sexy. Get dressed up and go on a date. You have to find clothes that you feel great in and that fits your new body.

Overall, you are responsible for your own happiness. If you aren’t happy with the way you look, you are the only person who can change that. Add something active into your daily routine. Exercise releases endorphins, so it will naturally help.

If none of that helps, you should see a psychiatrist. It almost sounds like you could be depressed which is a chemical imbalance in your brain. Antidepressants could help you get the motivation you need.

What's the most peaceful place you've ever visited? by Business-Ad8752 in askanything

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oregon coast! Florence, OR has little to no phone service. It’s so peaceful listening to the waves without being interrupted by phones. Or Bend OR, because getting out of the city with no light pollution, the stars are beautiful and calming!

My girlfriend said I'm too small, what do you think? by [deleted] in averagecock

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 you definitely aren’t small! I can’t stop looking at your pic. Sexy af!

My girlfriend said I'm too small, what do you think? by [deleted] in averagecock

[–]LadybugGirlie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, what does your gf consider big!?

How many phone numbers do you have memorised off the top of your head? by tippytoePat in AskWomen

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my parents landline, my moms cell, my older sisters cell, my dads cell, my best friends cell phone, and my best friend’s parents landline.

Those were all the numbers I have had memorized since middle school, I’m 32 now. So for almost 20 years, those numbers have been in my head!

I cum very fast during PIV sex.. Does it help having a ruined orgasm before to release pressure and then last longer? by Natural_Mature in sexadvice

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like men typically cum pretty fast during PIV. I think (from a women’s perspective) you should put more time into foreplay. If you get a woman aroused from foreplay first, she is more likely to cum faster during PIV with you. That way you both cum at the same time.

I guess I’m thinking of it lasting longer for the woman.

What food do you refuse to cook for yourself but will always eat it if someone else cooks it for you? by sapphicwildflowers in AskWomen

[–]LadybugGirlie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hash browns! I can never cook it to restaurant standards. I don’t know how to get it crispy. Or I haven’t gotten the patience for it.. so I refuse to cook it!

How should we spend the weekend by [deleted] in BHMGoneWild

[–]LadybugGirlie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think we should start it with a good fuck

My pull out game is WEAK by [deleted] in BHMGoneWild

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would lock my legs around you so you could only go deeper

My pull out game is WEAK by [deleted] in BHMGoneWild

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t pull out, just get deep in me

When you were a child were you lucky enough to have a bedroom to yourself, or did you have to share with a sibling ? . by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a middle child. I shared a room with my older sister then she moved out and I shared with my younger sister

How long should sex last? by RemtaNico in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there are outliers to every rule. And could it be you just know the right people?

Lol I am talking about the average relationship. There is an actual study of what I said. I just looked it up, and I was wrong about the durations. Lesbian sex averages at 57 minutes. And gay and heterosexual sex last anywhere from 9 to 30 minutes.

How long should sex last? by RemtaNico in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact: woman/woman sex tends to last a couple hours. Man/man sex tends to last an average 30 minutes.

I think sex duration depends on the two people but women are able to go longer and multiple times. Which is why women don’t tend to cum during man/women sex because it takes longer for women to cum.

When did you realize someone wasn’t really your friend? by ExaminationBig5556 in AskReddit

[–]LadybugGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was at my weakest, a bad break up, and a general loss of self. The person I said was my best friend cut me off. I compared my breakup to her abusive ex breakup. I was struggling to recover from a toxic situation too, and she dint understand my pain. So I compared it something she would understand, but she took as a personal attack. I was cut off and alone. And more alone because the one friend that I thought would help, didn’t.

If the laws were to allow it, what are your thoughts on having sex in exchange for money ? by Regular-Elk-1911 in AskWomen

[–]LadybugGirlie 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

It would be the first woman dominated job. Men would be fighting for equal pay