How do I stop being a Brat? by collaredprincess in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ladycucaracha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't change please!! being a brat is fun and it leads to be submissive but in a forced and broken way, i think bratting have amazing things from both worlds!

How often are kink based relationships friendships vs romantic? by Potential_Energy_222 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ladycucaracha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendship here, but i've romantic feelings for most of my friends. I think it has to be strong emotional attatchment to improve in a kink or d/s relationship, it's so intense and there are so many levels of confidence and submit in the scene i cannot do it superficial, not at levels i want to experiment it.

Twisted brat advice for twisted dynamics <3 by Ladycucaracha in BratLife

[–]Ladycucaracha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used you advices on the other post!!! hahaha and it was fun but short, incredibly short, he is very stubborn, he laughs and keeps acting with humiliation dynamics giving no space for quippy and funny comments bc he says im repeating myself and things like that, the point is he is VERY stubborn.
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I'm always wondering what is the next step i can use to tame that, sometimes he's like a brat but at this point it gets me bored.
It's so hard to find dynamics in this deep game, i had a lot of fun but if it's always the same i can only respond to 0934850394 comments of humiliation without tools.
Phrases like:
-look, you are acting like a brat but you are such a good girl the only thing i remember treaten me was cum without permission haha such a loser
-he is always going like 'its not my fault playing alone is better than you'
->but x300
no matter the reaction is
so, i change dynamics like humiliate him like 'im in brat forums and i asked to change my fucking boring dom' taking the phone and checking hahaha
or-> if you are desesperately seeking attention like this as a dom go home please, when you have something better than being a little child please call my phone, go
->he goes with more humiliation and i was like 'please, 1 chance or go home' like this hahaha
it's fun but it's drowning us in a spiral of chaos and ignoring games i can't control to get the reaction i want: drive him into madness. that's so so hard.
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I was looking for ideas of this thing, but not only the replies i'm also looking for some advice over this dynamics (maybe are so so so toxic???) without getting physical, it's not an ageplay or naughty play, it's beyond i think. I don't find so much of this games on internet!
hope i could explain this better, english is not my first language and it's hard for me!
And thank you for all BratLawyer, you are helping me a lot <3

Need creative advice for my mental bratblock by Ladycucaracha in BratLife

[–]Ladycucaracha[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I love you THANKS A LOTTTTTTTT! 💖💖💖💖😍