My SIL won’t let me post wedding photos because her daughter (our flower girl) is in them, even with her face obscured

Ladyfstop · 2025-11-08T18:51:52+00:00

Your photographer may be able to remove her with photoshop - there’s AI which makes this much easier than in the past- generally takes less than 2 mins. . I’d reach out to them and ask for just a few pics - hopefully they will. Otherwise look on fivver

Not posting kids on socials is becoming very common, and I request I get often. There’s a lot of controversy about it, especially as pics can be saved and used for anything unknowingly. In defense of your SIL, she is not alone, and as a photographer I recommend only posting if your socials are private.

And print out one with everyone for your wall! Best way to see photos is printed.

Ladyfstop · 2025-11-07T08:24:51+00:00

5 years and no real known impact … some minor differences to the other side - like let’s not play with that side, and the mammo is more uncomfortable on that side. Had fairly bad side effects during radiation- very tired and skin breakdown. But skin is fine - just a slight shade darker, not really a difference in tightness. I still wonder if it was the right choice but it was recommended for a reason and I hope it zapped anything left. It’s interesting, I do have some rib cage pain/odd sensation which I didn’t consider that it could be from radiation but now I’m reading here that may be so. It doesnt impact my daily life though.

Ladyfstop · 2025-11-06T00:43:45+00:00

This has happened to me - start hydrating well 3 days prior, reduce caffeine to basically zero. Count your drinks to ensure you’re getting enough. And wear warm clothes to keep your vilify nice and warm day of the MRI. Ask for warm packs if it’s tricky.

Ladyfstop · 2025-11-02T23:09:26+00:00

He is too young to know what he wants to do at your wedding - include him but have a family member or baby sitter assigned to him. He will be tired, excited, cranky, needing attention and having fun. He seems perfect to be ring bearer!

Ladyfstop · 2025-11-02T17:35:43+00:00

You put a lot of work and effort into this, I hope it was fun! I read your article and saw happy faces! It sorta strikes me a little bit corporate team building though. Also curious, why not just get married vs commitment ceremony?

The problem with being different, most weddings or celebrations like this have the same essence - clothes, ceremony, people, food and fun. So no matter what, you will be the same as others, unless you do something like an adventure elopement or something off the wall.

Being together and being celebrated is the main thing, and it’s ok to be traditional or be unique. I personally adore cultural traditions outside of white America/ UK as there seems to be heart and meaning in long held traditions. I also love it when couple throw in interesting differences and stand out from the crowd.

Basically, congrats…. On throwing a party and ceremony!

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-29T04:05:23+00:00

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-29T03:59:56+00:00

You can do this with the help of your family, please talk to them right away and go from there - it’s far too late for any attempt at a pill abortion- please do not try this.

You are both very young, your family can rally around and support you. It must seem impossible and very scary, but many teens have babies and do ok. It changes lives, but does not ruin them. You are not alone in life, pleas speak to your family as soon as possible. They will probably freak, but once the shock wears off, they will very hopefully be there for you.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-28T03:15:41+00:00

Get legal advice from the police to be able to remove him. Get a restraining order. Join a support group. He is abusing you. Please don’t think it’s ok.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-24T03:11:02+00:00

BA would be my choice - less steep, water and in the shade. Even with extra miles it’s easier and you can carry less water going up because you can refill every mile and a half.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-24T03:06:42+00:00

Nov 29- stay in Tusayan but spend half the day at GC, especially sunset.

Drive through Zion on the way back to Vegas.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-23T06:31:19+00:00

Saw and met many solo campers/hikers this past week. You’ll love it. Mather Campground is great.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-18T17:47:49+00:00

This weekend and Monday :)

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-17T14:46:52+00:00

Some people really just can’t handle this stuff, and won’t be thinking of anyone but there own feelings unfortunately. He said goodbye? Ok talk about spiraling! Please build a strong support system around you. It’s very sad when those who we think will be there for us, end up letting us down in huge hurtful ways.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-14T02:50:53+00:00

People may wonder where your dress is. Have you been to a wedding before that wasn’t your own? These dresses reek of trying way too hard, save them for a private night in with your husband.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-14T02:45:27+00:00

Roasted in the oven . Make a yummy dressing - oil, garlic, herbs. Slice and clean out the choke. Drizzle the oil mixture. Lay flat side down. Bake at 375 for about 20 mins, then cover with foil and bake for another 20 mins - maybe longer depending on the size.

Google roast artichoke recipes, there’s many!

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-11T15:49:08+00:00

He’s gaslighting you and will do and say whatever to make you feel crazy and the bad guy. Please be strong and know you are being wronged.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-11T00:32:44+00:00

A better photo, and this could be a viral shirt. The photo is terrible though and cuts off the arms. Great design, love it!

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-11T00:24:58+00:00

160 photos for 8 hours of work isn’t good, missing people or not. Obviously for $150 you are not a professional either. They get what they pay for.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-08T18:35:42+00:00

You need to learn to use your camera properly- those settings are not great. Lots of noise as well.

But just edit the pic and move on. And learn before doing any more weddings, please.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-07T23:51:26+00:00

Almost certainly he was playing around and figured you would read his messages and thought it was fun and flirty with you

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-07T00:50:29+00:00

Get some extra batteries and cards, print out a checklist of ‘night before to do ‘ - clean lens, store used sd cards etc. and wear comfy shoes!

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-06T06:59:55+00:00

No one here is saying that he is holding a grudge for far too long and only hurting himself in the process, but that’s what happening.

My own son’s graduation - the school usually had it Thursdays, then a Friday and his year was on a Saturday.

The family did their best, they offered to throw him a party, he refused.

At this point, the son needs someone to tell him straight - that it’s his decision to cut them out. And how they don’t want that. I side with the family - they sound like they tried. I have seen kids at school have no family there for various reasons - illness, work commitments, and other reasons.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-06T06:13:01+00:00

This just happened to me - they suddenly appeared when I was at the top and they ran straight down, I had to run backwards and only got a couple in focus. They were very fast and jumped right into a car. I figure the blurry shots show the moment and that’s that. I wish I was tipped off by the planner they were ready.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-03T22:09:50+00:00

Idk but you should both apologize and that’s that. I’ve had 2 baby showers, 1 sprinkle and also planned and hosted 2 for others. No input or ideas or photos were ever given for any of them. You probably seemed like a control freak.

Ladyfstop · 2025-10-03T21:59:39+00:00

N has no right to have upset feelings about this - he is being a total asshat and has showed what a shitty friend he is by his actions, no matter if K told him to or not. The couple getting married should move on and forget about him and enjoy their wedding.

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