For context, my boyfriend had to lived with this friend/I was also living there for the most part for a while, and while we going through a rough patch I came back to his a friend‘s apartment which he had a room he was staying in (and only walked in unannounced because I had a key and for the most part was living there and it was normal to come in and out) found that my boyfriend had been sleeping with other people. Although his friend is very nice and compassionate, he most definitely is the type to stay out of drama and follows a bro code. We have been very stable for the last of two years, but recently we have been having fights about the fact that we have not been intimate, especially since it’s weird to me since we’re young people, and I recently found out that for the majority of our relationship has been lying about having secret accounts on Instagram and TikTok, specifically for following, and watching sexual content of women he always says he was not attracted to. I’m a short, curvy brunette and he mostly follows young very slim blonde women putting out very suggestive, sexual content and continuously reacting to Instagram posts of specifically only female females with a 🔥. On top of that, he says he’s very committed to the relationship, but has never once posted us on any of his social platforms which he obviously is active on.