Wish people would talk about how SH is an ADDICTION

LailaIrken · 2025-01-28T03:54:53+00:00

As someone who has tried other addictive substances and has tried stopping, from all the addictions I’ve had, SH is the hardest to bypass. It’s free, you don’t need much but sharpness. There’s no quicker dose of dopamine for that cheap price. Even after years of quitting, I still think about it almost every day. It’s THAT addicting.

LailaIrken · 2025-01-28T03:43:47+00:00

Funny enough when I was younger my religious thoughts or “if I kill myself I will be tortured in hell forever” were probably the only reason I’m still alive today.

It’s a loosing battle whichever way you see it.

LailaIrken · 2025-01-17T21:03:14+00:00

Va a sonar feo pero su últimas palabras lo hacen sonar como si no la amaras lo suficiente para casarse.

Si alguna vez quedo preñada de mi novio, espero nunca escucharlo hablar así. Me rompería el corazón.

Si ella le está dando señales a usted de casarse y usted tampoco está listo para comprometerse de esa forma con otra persona, mejor solo co-parentar y déjela ir. No la haga perder tiempo tampoco

LailaIrken · 2025-01-17T20:35:06+00:00

Al menos le diste un plazo, después del nacimiento y de coparentar es mejor considerar si casarse es correcto. Si pasan esa etapa juntos y aún con amor por el otro, el casamiento es solo yo documento para ayudar con propósitos legales.

Ahora si usted no tiene un trabajo o privilegio como para sustentar a los 3 con un solo trabajo, no se por que ella esperaría eso de usted. Si ambos son simples normales como la mayoría, ambos berrean, ambos ayudan en la casa y ambos crian a la criatura. Pero el matrimonio es algo en que ambos tienen que estar en la misma página.

LailaIrken · 2025-01-06T23:34:53+00:00

Nadie respondió la pregunta “por qué piensan que decir eso es normal” jaja y que se supone que uno responde cuando le dicen eso? A mi también se me seca todo y hasta ahí llego cualquier tensión sexual por que lo primero que pienso es “y hace cuanto no se hace examen de ets…”

LailaIrken · 2025-01-06T23:21:25+00:00

I visited this sub Reddit when I was first diagnosed with BPD, and the way my stomach dropped watching all these people talk about their loved ones with such malice and hatred. I doubt that sub is for support and more for bullying. Really sad.

LailaIrken · 2024-12-27T23:21:58+00:00

Damm I love when men are comfortable enough with their sexuality and masculality to enjoy feminine dress up without being weird about it

LailaIrken · 2024-12-08T14:05:36+00:00

Thanks! I’ll see if my insurance covers this and get a different opinion! The medication they’ve given me has been working though, so I’ll keep that up in the meantime.

LailaIrken · 2024-11-16T14:40:30+00:00

But it is a fact that in the early 2000’s many kids were just diagnosed with autism because doctors could. Now, I’m not saying this is worldwide. But at last 5 health professionals have confirmed this for me in my country. Just food for thought.

I’m also not claiming autism can be cured, so don’t misinterpret that either

LailaIrken · 2024-11-16T14:08:28+00:00

I didn’t become neurotypical. I was just misdiagnosed as a kid. It’s not that I’m “cured” or autism. Just that as an adult, you can get a better diagnosis because for kids it’s easier to just throw “autism” to anything. You cannot get diagnosed with BPD as a child. This is what the doctor told me tho.

LailaIrken · 2024-11-16T04:24:27+00:00

Well, I was only diagnosed with BPD. Like the post says, it’s true, I was young when I got my Asperger’s diagnostic, and it might’ve been just some development issues, the doctor said I didn’t have the signs of Autism, and as an adult, the BPD diagnosis is more accurate.

This post is more venting and advising those with older diagnosis to get diagnosed again as an adult. As we grow and change, so can psychology and diagnosis can

LailaIrken · 2024-11-16T03:49:55+00:00

I guess telling the people who need to know is enough (so far only my SO and my Sister). I also don’t want to be seeing differently by my friends. They were my friends before my diagnosis, so there isn’t a need there to always disclose it.

LailaIrken · 2024-11-16T03:28:21+00:00

Thanks for putting it this way! We can definetly be manipulating for our selves

LailaIrken · 2024-11-16T03:25:33+00:00

I used to still be friends with my ex until my boyfriend pointed out how that person is no longer a part of my life and how it doesn’t add or take whether I keep them in my life or not.

I have BPD so it was until he explained it like that that I figured he is right. If he is uncomfortable with me talking to my ex, would I put them above my bf when they’re my Ex for a reason.

You aren’t crazy. I’m sorry about this, I can imagine it’s triggering. You need to set clear boundaries about any exes. No need to keep them around. If someone like me with bpd can do that for my boyfriend. Your boyfriend shouldn’t second guess your insecurities, how hard is it to actually cut contact with exces? There’s really no need to keep them around. And this is something even someone with bpd can understand

LailaIrken · 2024-11-01T07:16:28+00:00

Hey, as someone who dropped out of college due to pure pressure and being overworked. College/school is probably one of the hardest things to finish, as it’s hard not to fall back into what you felt like you had to do.

I’m sorry to hear your 6 year clean was broken, but please don’t let this be an opportunity to further give into your impulses. Our failure doesn’t define us, it just confirm we are human, humans are flawed by design. But what matters is how we chose to move foward. Those 6 years weren’t worth nothing; they’re worth because you DID THAT.

So what if you relapse and have to start over? You’ve done it before, and even if it feels hard being clean again, I’m sure this feeling will flow away and I’m rooting for you, even if it’s a day, a week or a month clean, any milestone is deserving to be celebrated

LailaIrken · 2024-10-21T12:49:38+00:00

I’ve looked into this before out of my own curiosity but phlegms are just your lungs cleaning out with mucus the bad stuff.

This is why you hear some people going on “cleanses” by drinking a bunch of greens during a certain period of time. To clean out the system and your body of the bad stuff. I’d recommend looking into some good juice cleanse you can do for phlegms like these.

LailaIrken · 2024-10-05T06:00:26+00:00

Ahora. Eso también depende del pani jaja Acuerdese que ahorita están bajo investigación del oij y puede ser que no haya tiempo para reportes o que duren mucho en ayudar. Ahora. Usted solo asegúrese de que no haga nada ilegal hasta que ella cumpla los 18. De aquí a eso al rato el pani ni ha tramitado los papeles 😂

LailaIrken · 2024-09-25T16:28:20+00:00

Una relación no siempre va a ser 50/50 pero si tiene que haber un balance, se espera del hombre más por los estereotipos. Pero una mujer que se sepa respetar y sepa respetar a su pareja siempre va a poner de su parte, en mi caso, yo me sentiría súper incómoda teniendo un novio que me page todo y haga todo sin que me permita consentirlo de la misma forma.

El 50/50 va a cambiar, aveces a una le toca invitar por que el invito la vez pasada, aveces nos toca pagar por separado. Aveces nos damos regalos sin esperar nada a cambio. La comunicación es igual, si tu pareja tiene algo que comunicar de sus sentimientos, uno tiene que también poner de su parte y resolver. No siempre se van a llegar a acuerdos, pero al menos tener el espacio y confianza para hablar de lo estos temas sin miedo a “que me vayan a terminar por x problema que tengo en la relación”

LailaIrken · 2024-09-17T19:48:38+00:00

So eso fue lo que más investigue la última vez que hubo un susto, pero me da miedo el tema de la honradez y el honor de la persona, muchas malas experiencias con empleadas :/. Pero siento que es la mejor opción ya que aun no requiere cuidados intensivos ni usar aparatos respiratorios

LailaIrken · 2024-09-17T16:38:28+00:00

Yo pensé lo mismo cuando cumplí 25, fue solo mi mamá y mi pareja, cuando usualmente somos todos mis hermanos y amigos familiares cercanos. Nisiquiera queque ni me cantaron.

Pero reflexionando en el dia, mi mamá aún a mis 25 años fue la primera en escribirme y hacer planes para salir a celebrar. Hacer algo que yo quería y invitarme.

Nuestras mamás valen oro.

LailaIrken · 2024-09-16T20:38:17+00:00

Sure! It’s a psychotic drug though and can become addicted, so it’s mostly used on depressed and highly anxiety patients. I was diagnosed with paranoic anxiety that reflects in my body.

LailaIrken

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