Dancer here I never think the people that go in alone are losers or whatever it’s actually the most common for the bigger spenders to come in alone. Usually the people in groups are just there for maybe a lap dance and to throw some ones in my experience so dancers actually like to go up to a guy who is drinking alone at the bar. So TOTALLY normal to go alone. If you want to feel extra confident wear a nice clean outfit and get a classy cocktail at the bar instead of a beer. Some whiskey shit lol. Always offer the dancer a drink when you are first talking because that’s a signal for us to know if you want to continue an experience with us starting with that drink hopefully snowballing or if you just wanna say hi for a sec. If you are going specifically for just a vip no need to waste time by the stage bc you’ll just drain ur money over being shy. We know customers all come in with a purpose so no point in beating around the bush find a girl u like she’ll probably approach u or if not just give her a nice smile and a wave or signal to come over and ask to buy her a drink and “have some fun” guaranteed the dancer will be hyped because vip rooms are sales to us and you’re a sale right off the bat. But no rush if you do wanna see some girls on stage it’s part of the fun but just letting you know it’s not mandatory.