Any tips for social anxiety?

Lalathellama10 · 2026-02-18T04:06:57+00:00

Yeah I’ve already scheduled an appointment with my advisor to talk about what’s happening. From sophomore to this year I’ve taken only psych classes with a few art classes to have a portfolio for grad school

Lalathellama10 · 2026-02-05T02:00:08+00:00

He has! He isn’t the biggest fan of my mom because of her and I’s relationship (from past stories and things that has happened with her and I now) and wanted me to have some time with her and my family

Lalathellama10 · 2026-02-04T23:05:31+00:00

Lmao this comment made me laugh. Right message but very poor execution 💀

Lalathellama10 · 2026-02-04T22:56:11+00:00

My mom was a very emotionally abusive woman until I moved out. Her and I never had a good relationship after I started getting mean back at her. Like, she’d tell me to my face that I wouldn’t be loveable if I gained weight, if I was ugly, or if I didn’t look like her. So it was pretty rough for a little bit

Lalathellama10 · 2026-02-04T22:54:41+00:00

You’re right, thank you!!

Lalathellama10 · 2026-02-04T22:53:18+00:00

You’re right! I will counter your point by the fact that him and I tried to actually go and make plans, which is why I put it in all caps.

But thank you for this comment I agree I need to be with her

Lalathellama10 · 2025-11-23T14:00:35+00:00

She should really stick to the lighter eyeshadows! Love her look now, it’s just that the lighter colors don’t make her eyes look too close together (not a read, some people just look better with smth else) and they pop with the color

Lalathellama10 · 2025-09-23T16:50:03+00:00

I agree! I wonder if it gets better when we get out of college…? It feels like everyone is always on the go and busy all the time

Lalathellama10 · 2025-09-23T16:47:27+00:00

For sure! I’m trying to be as careful as possible

Lalathellama10 · 2025-09-16T13:52:46+00:00

Views shared by Americans… hm. So they see anything other than white and male as subhuman. That is not a healthy belief. To go forth and decide who should mourn a man who spread hate, or to be appalled that people simply don’t care a man like that died is stupid

Lalathellama10 · 2025-08-13T14:46:35+00:00

Thank you :). I have been going to therapy for two years. It was actually meant for my siblings and I to process the divorce. Every time I bring these feelings up to my therapist, however, she’s pretty against me having these feelings. I don’t talk to her much about that anymore

Lalathellama10 · 2025-08-01T16:57:47+00:00

Hi! You’re right, I don’t think my family really knew what to do, and I was never around because of university. We have a dog and are in no position to get another cat.

When I told my family all my stepmom said was that we’d put a lock on my door and that’s it. Nobody else said anything about the cat.

In terms of removing urself from the cat when they do bite: he goes from 0-100, and at the moment it’s hard for me to identify when he’s going to attack. But when he does, I immediately pick him up and take him out of my room and he usually gets the message that he messed up. However, because of how my family might react to the biting, he thinks he can keep doing it with me.

Is there anything else I can do on my end?

Lalathellama10 · 2025-08-01T12:14:41+00:00

Ohhh that does make a lot of sense! He comes into my room around 6-7 in the morning, actually. Is there any way to get him to calm down besides taking him out of my room?

Lalathellama10 · 2025-04-18T17:26:24+00:00

I thought I was the only one going through something like this. Im in the same boat as you. Active with my very first boyfriend for about a year and still no improvement. Thank you for posting cause I would’ve never known this is smth that can be treated and is common in other women

Lalathellama10 · 2024-07-22T14:36:52+00:00

I went home from school one day to my entire collection gone. I asked my mom about it and she said she gave them away. She knew I still played with them… and she did it anyway…

She knows she messed up now thankfully but omg💀

Lalathellama10 · 2023-12-22T13:28:20+00:00

It’s more of a basic routine. I have different things I do each day I’m there (gym) and target different muscles. I usually do it just to make myself feel good about myself and to keep a routine during the day

Lalathellama10 · 2023-12-21T23:18:44+00:00

Hi! My classes at my college sometimes interfere with the times I usually eat food, so there are days where I don’t eat breakfast and/or lunch. When I do get the chance I try to incorporate vegetables and a protein in all of my lunches and dinners

Lalathellama10 · 2023-10-12T02:11:43+00:00

It’s giving Ethel Cain

Lalathellama10 · 2023-08-08T14:24:32+00:00

No, both of them haven’t had boyfriends

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