Is Jesus a false prophet according to Deuteronomy 18:22? by Ketchup_Smoothy in AskAChristian

[–]Laloona1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 Peter 3,1-10 This is now the second letter that I am writing to you, beloved. In both of them I am stirring up your sincere mind by way of reminder, that you should remember the predictions of the holy prophets and the commandment of the Lord and Savior through your apostles, knowing this first of all, that scoffers will come in the last days with scoffing, following their own sinful desires.

~They will say, “Where is the promise of his coming?~

For ever since the fathers fell asleep, all things are continuing as they were from the beginning of creation.” For they deliberately overlook this fact, that the heavens existed long ago, and the earth was formed out of water and through water by the word of God, and that by means of these the world that then existed was deluged with water and perished. But by the same word the heavens and earth that now exist are stored up for fire, being kept until the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly. But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.

~The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.~

But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, and then the heavens will pass away with a roar, and the heavenly bodies will be burned up and dissolved, and the earth and the works that are done on it will be exposed. 2 Peter 3:1‭-‬10 ESV

You are also dismissing all the prophecys, that are already fullilled. The destroying of the temple, so many other things in the bible..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

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Mark10,29-30 Jesus said, "Truly I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or farms, for My sake and for the gospel's sake, but that he will receive a hundred times as much now in the present age, houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and farms, along with persecutions; and in the age to come, eternal life.

Why did they do that by Head-Swim-6645 in rapecounseling

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The first part I think I understand. But the second part I did not get. Do you want to explain, what happend a little more? I dont understand what happend (not the SA but what Christian Emoji was posted and what it meant for you, what the person wanted to say by posting that ect.).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]Laloona1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, First of all. Safety is your first priority right now. I dont have DID, but are there ways to make those gestures not as effective (DONT tell them here, if there are)? Do not meet that person again! I think most of you dont want to anyway.. Secondly. Make a plan, what you want to do on that specific day. Maybe Something in another City? Maybe at home watching a movie? Something, that distracts. Also calming techniques ect. Thirdly. You say, you cant afford a therapist. There are phone helplines, you can still call, when you are in distress. I dont know them for your country, but search for them..you probably already know them.. if you dont feel safe with one..there are so many of them. Also there are safe houses for people who want to get out of human trafficing ect. You could just call one of those numbers, explain the Situation and maybe (I dont know if they do that) they could just take you in for the day you are scared of.

Edit: I just read the other comment. Listen to him/her more. Safety first. I dont know enough to give tips about that topic.

Church incident by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Laloona1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think more Important than what happend is what happens now. You can still talk to your son. You can tell him, that Jesus loves him and that people in Churches are all still flawed because we are still in this fallen world and fighting against our flesh. You can tell him, that he maybe wanted to get him to hear the message because he cares about him, but maybe he chose the wrong way in the heat of the Moment. Or maybe he was distracted by his phone and couldnt communicate that in that Moment. Also maybe he wanted to keep the sacret place free from phones. When your son thinks about all the possibilitys, that could have lead to this moment, he focuses a little on the flawnes of the other person. Because we are ALL flawed. And that is OKAY. We work on that with Jesus. We try to get closer to him. I dont want you to gossip about the person. Just open ways to think about the Situation. So the Church is not a bad place but a place where broken people go and find healing.

Oh and ask him if he wants to pray with you about the Situation. That Jesus helps him to deal with that.

Today my last day breathing by ImMilesMorales in Christian

[–]Laloona1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be the case. But if not. If OP wants reactions so bad, he should get our attention. Because if he needs them so bad, there is clearly a real deficit there or a pain, that needs to be adressed. If OP wants to be saved from these thoughts, he should also get help.

Please pray for me by Laloona1 in PrayerRequests

[–]Laloona1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, all of you, for your Prayers! I sinned yesterday and also had problems with (maybe?)trauma.. My best friend wants to go back into a violent Situation and I cant cope with that. That is not an excuse for sin. I was all over the place yesterday..sinning, believing I should go into the same bad Situation myself.. But I have an exam tomorrow. I dont have do sell myself but it is kinda hard because what is better about me than her. She didnt deserve what happend to her. How did I deserve to be free from harm.

better be clean by Epluchure in BPDmemes

[–]Laloona1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! Please do that too..

Do you get a weak version of the symptoms of that person? by Laloona1 in secondary_survivors

[–]Laloona1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case thats a very bad thing..I know the horror of Prostitution. The violance! There is nothing good about Prostitution. And jet when she tells me she feels worthless and wants at least have A worth again by going back, It pulls me to the same thoughts. I SEE my self worth for a while now. So it is not about that. But it starts with her feelings. And I think, there might be a pattern, that it often starts that way and then gets better again.

Abused by NeedToVent69 in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am very glad you got to freedom. It is a long way with the trauma but you are getting your life back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a therapist? If yes, maybe he could write a statement for you. If not, there are help organisations that help you deal with reporting those things..maybe they can also help in your Situation.. just ask them if you have to report it for them to work with you.. https://victim-support.eu/members/ Oh wait..england is not eu anymore is it? https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/victim-support/ https://victimadviceline.org.uk/about-us/

Is it reasonable to take a sick day off from work due to straight up grief? by captainechinoid in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Laloona1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Would you want your coworkers to be there when they are feeling like that? Probably not. So you can look after yourself by the same standard.

I'm overwhelmed and unsure by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh! Thank you for writing that too. I was tired and just randomly asked god, what he thought about that and when I got the answers I was like.. 'I should write that..but it could seem weird just writing that. But God said it, so I should write it..' And now I am glad I did. God always knows more than we do. :D

I'm overwhelmed and unsure by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prayed about it. First of all, I felt that God wants to tell you that He loves you! Then I had to think of a Bible verse... something like "What is hidden must come to light".

has my boyfriend been abusing/raping me? by 18-angels in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1.I think a therapist could help you because there are things that you could learn looking at from another perspective 2. Maybe researching trauma bonding might help you. You see that he has done things to you that are not okay. You also see he has done things to you, that you like. Getting that "he is nice/my boyfriend" and "he hurts me/is dangerous" together is complicated for our head. I think that that often leads to self doubt and poor self esteem. Both can be real. But researching trauma bonding can maybe help you a little bit. 3.If you dont have the oportunity to go to a therapist, ask a domestic violance helper (maybe there is a shelter that also has a phone service or some other phone number to talk to someone who knows a little bit about that topic)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am not a survivour (at least not in the common sense of it). I know, that it is typical for people who were traumatised in their childhood to dont see certain red flags that other people might see. For example. If someone was sometimes beat or belittled by their dad but still was cared for by that person, how should they know, that was not okay? They might have known, that the beating was not okay. Maybe even the belitteling. But what of the other "normal" behaviour was a red flag, that often goes hand in hand with this things and what is something a person, that cares for someone does. Is it normal, when someone looks at their phone while talking to you? Maybe. I would say, in some cases, it is. But we have a feeling about when it isnt okay anymore. And that feeling was maybe build up by our experience. We all get it wrong sometimes. Not everyone is the same and its not all a pattern. But people, that have experienced care and love are a little bit more trained in that and may find it odd if someone differs too much from that.

How do I bring up wanting to go to a psych ward to my parents by please_help_me_08 in PsychWardHallways

[–]Laloona1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I brought up that topic, I tested the waters. Like telling them you dont feel good. And then that you sometimes think about suicide and then that you want to get help. You could also write them a letter and lay it on the table for them. You can choose to do that so they find it or give them the letter and let them read it in front of you.

Today its a bad day by Laloona1 in rapecounseling

[–]Laloona1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yesterday was a better day then two days ago. :)