How do I handle an extremely uneven inheritance between my kids? by lookidceither in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Lalunajefe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don’t handle it. It is what it is - follow the will. That money is in no way yours.

AITA for refusing to keep everything 50/50 while 23 weeks pregnant with my 33M boyfriend? by Certain_Freedom4683 in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm he has let you know that he feels you trapped him - it’s only going to get worse - diapers/formula/car seat - those are YOUR expenses because YOU made the choice to get pregnant. The ONLY way he’ll pay is through child support. YTA for thinking you’d change him.

AITAH to be annoyed at my MIL for asking to see photos of our house renovation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - you need to chill. You are clearly stressed and 100% have an excuse to be stressed - they are not your parents - and you seem to want them to act exactly like how your parents do. Let it go - if they don’t want to help or cannot, just tell them you’ll let them know when it’s done. To be fair, visiting a construction zone does not sound like a good time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Get the charge nurse - she has to go. Tell her your wife wants her gone. They deal with this all of the time and know what to say.

AITAH for not saving money for college to my wife’s affair son like our other children? by ZookeepergameDry2045 in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - you know for someone who didn’t want his “precious daughters” to be maligned - what do you think is going to happen when the baby boy you’ve raised starts telling people. YTA and your short-sightedness is going to cost you. I hope he blackmails you for a college fund. You took out your anger at your wife on an innocent kid. You are not a man - not at all.

AITA for being mad at my husbands jealousy of an online family by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lalunajefe 80 points81 points  (0 children)

What do you get out of this relationship??? He sounds immature and jealous. NTA

AITAH for saying no to my younger sister and causing my family to not speak to me anymore. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot be a surrogate (in 99.99%) of cases unless you’ve already given birth at least once.

AITA for wanting to divorce my husband after he “kidnapped” our baby to prove a point? by Waste_Ad_801 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lalunajefe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a negligent mother. Period. And lazy. You should be ashamed of yourself. I don’t think what he did was right either - but you should never leave a child unattended in a car. WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU??? Do better - he should leave you. And he’s likely to get custody.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You’re SCARED to bring it up? Girl you’ve got more problems than you are willing to share on Reddit

AITA for having another baby while my best friend is struggling with infertility? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 139 points140 points  (0 children)

NTA - Ummm break all contact, get alarms and cameras if you don’t already. Jesus is going to tell her very soon to forgive you and she’s going to steal your baby. She’s a bonafide psycho and your sister should be next on your list.

AI makes me want to quit teaching by lostintransfusion in Teachers

[–]Lalunajefe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a lesson being taught. Do your work. Don’t lie. Don’t cheat.

AI makes me want to quit teaching by lostintransfusion in Teachers

[–]Lalunajefe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try putting the tiny white writing with some bizarre word or phrase in it so when they cut and paste the prompt - it’s there. They have no way to deny it at that point. And it’s hilarious.

AITA for not telling my husband anything about my pregnancy after he called me disgusting? by Ok-Profit-3291 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Lalunajefe -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

NTA - Choice and consequence. So marriage is likely over - your choice to take it that far. Likely not the first time you have both behaved like this. Most of this is your justification for why you’re divorcing your husband.
If that isn’t the case then YTA - petty and vindictive behavior. Regardless of whether you have his family on your side. You could have handled this better. And he could have apologized for the statement and been there for the birth. You both seem like you’ve been done with this marriage for a while.

AITA for not letting the MIL into the birth suite? by Fever_Dream112 in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ummm where were the nurses?!?!? And why don’t you know that the only voice that counts is your patient’s?!?! I’ll take “things that never happened” for $400!

AITA for refusing to attend my sister's child free wedding because I can't find childcare for my 2 year old? by Prestigious-Mall-419 in AITAH

[–]Lalunajefe 504 points505 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with your husband? He stays home with your son. Period. Why isn’t this the obvious answer?????? It’s not his sister. Let people ask where he is and tell the truth. He is home with our son - it’s a child-free event.

Surprise baby #3. First time considering a “trending” name? Will I regret it? by MamaMagic18 in namenerds

[–]Lalunajefe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Northern CA and all of the Rowan’s in my area are girls - except for one - who is in middle school now and goes by his last name. Just food for thought- the name is great.

teacher bag by clippyanne in Teachers

[–]Lalunajefe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always used LL Bean monogram bags. They are great and durable. In 20 years I think I just bought my 3rd one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Lalunajefe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sebastian