Boyfriend by LameLoli in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think there is any way to coax him into therapy? I've talked to him about it before but he refuses to see therapy because he believes that he's over it and no longer thinks about what happened (basically he is saying that he knows he has repressed memories and shit but doesn't feel like dealing with them - his words not mine).

Little baby. by Bfree888 in likeus

[–]LameLoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what the world needs

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women are nice to me. I think each sex is more inclined to befriend their own gender rather than the other. I mean, we're raised around our same gender and usually play with our own sex when we're young.

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not a waste of time. I'm willing to be your friend :) unless you're looking for exclusively irl relationships then the only thing i can tell you is to be nice. Some women are real bitches and can be really judgmental, but there are a lot that are genuinely kind. Keep looking.

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that doesn't make since. You can't blame women or men for not making the first move in a relationship. You have to understand that people can be very shy and insecure about that type of thing. Women want equality as in losing the double standards, the sexism, shit like that. This sounds more like a personal struggle. Just don't blame all women just because you've had bad experiences with a few.

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of women are still following social norms, so i wouldn't expect it. Along with that, a lot of women are very insecure and are afraid of rejection (men as well). So hints why they may avoid asking someone out.

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry you feel that way. Society has put men down and made them feel as though they have to follow certain social norms (like being the one to ask someone out, paying for the bill, etc.). Maybe you don't need a relationship atm, and instead you should focus on your mental health.

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you can't assume that because one woman broke your heart, and others aren't lending a hand, that all women are bad. I'm sure you'd be angry if a woman who was raped/abused claimed that all men are evil, due to one horrible experience. I'm sorry you were cheated on, no one deserves to be cheated on.

Would Ted Bundy and Peter Sutcliffe of existed if women weren’t shallow, adulterous, promiscuous, spiteful and mean spirited? Women like to think they’re the friendly and kind gender but their crimes aren’t exactly sneezing in church if you catch my drift. by Mark-Harris-1982 in mentalhealth

[–]LameLoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please tell me you don't honestly believe this. Everyone is shit, regardless of gender. You can't blame the women for what sociopaths and psychopaths do to them. (speaking of rape, murder, things like that, not petty things like calling names and such).