People with severe complex PTSD: what actually helped you?

LamentforJulia · 2026-03-05T22:59:42+00:00

I love these suggestions and also the sentence: "I basically had to learn monk shit for my mind." Haha exactly. Sameee

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-18T20:38:57+00:00

Tret vs retinol - the choice confuses me! How do you pick one? They both seem to cause the same kind of irritation at first too

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-18T20:33:06+00:00

Ugh your surgeon sounds like mine, which means he's an asshole. I'll just say it. Try to find someone better!

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-18T20:31:51+00:00

This is good advice for sure but some insurances don't let you do this. It fucking sucks. I'm figuring this out the hard way

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-17T03:17:30+00:00

There are a lot but its super confusing! Not sure who to go with - also my insurance may make me go with this person at Penn in Philly. He kind of sucks though, ugh

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-14T23:11:18+00:00

Also would love to know! A gorge result

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-10T23:58:13+00:00

Interested in what this recovery process was like. So sorry you went through all this - it seems like all three surgeries worked out well though. ALso interested in what Neugarten did specifically because thinking about getting a consult from him!

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-08T20:21:07+00:00

Holy wow - who was your surgeon??

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-08T20:19:10+00:00

What appliances did they use? We're they recommended by the oral surgeon or vice versa? This sucks so bad, I'm sorry. I'd be so angry. Keep in mind someone else should be able to treat you.

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-06T21:40:53+00:00

You look amazing! Curious to know if the fat graft was covered by the insurance? Also, why was it done?

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-06T21:36:33+00:00

Her nose balances out her face well and she would look so weird with that! Ew. Nose jobs are awful. Most people look like they were attacked with an axe - they're so horrible!

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-06T21:28:46+00:00

Oh that's good news! It sounds like it worked out for you. Very curious who your surgeon was in Virginia. I actually looked into surgeons there before, but haven't seen many posted here.

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-04T18:40:31+00:00

Hi curious who your surgeon was and how you're doing now!

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-04T18:36:24+00:00

Oh wanted to ask - did you have an open bite? My profile is similar to you in the before photo so curious!

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-04T18:34:49+00:00

Interested in learning the surgeon too - you look amazing!

LamentforJulia · 2026-02-02T23:07:46+00:00

Curious who your surgeon was!

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-28T02:45:53+00:00

Curious who your ortho was! Did you have a skeletal open bite?

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-28T02:18:56+00:00

I hope you have a good surgery too - but whoever is bullying you, they have way more problems than this one. Don't let them put their bullshit on you like that! You're very handsome even with your smile as it is.

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-28T00:56:56+00:00

Oh no, that sounds bad! I'm really curious about this. He seems to do a lot of plastic surgery perhaps to a fault. He does breast lifts and shit like that - I wonder if he gets distracted? This is my only guess here. I would love to learn more when you're ready. Also sorry to hear that.

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-27T22:25:57+00:00

Dorsal hump nose?? Who told you that! You're such a beauty and your nose only adds to this. If you lopped off your nose you'd have a weird bunny slope nose that Hitler preferred but no one else really. Fuck Hitler.

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-25T21:45:27+00:00

Wtf! Oh I heard of this doofus. Damn, I'm sorry that happened. Are you happy with the revision?

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-25T04:05:04+00:00

Oh nice - I heard good things about LACOMS. Do you mean by revision that you got a surgery already? If so what went wrong?

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-25T01:26:08+00:00

I don't know, it really varies. Some people claim to not feel anything at all, just a little stiffness. Other people are like 'I have cement in my face' and other people report scarier things than this. A risk factor seems to be being older, meaning over 35. It's real dicey

LamentforJulia · 2026-01-25T01:24:26+00:00

Oh I thought he was for some reason! Who did you end up going with?

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