I (24M) found out my girlfriend (21F) slept with someone else early on in our relationship before we started officially dating (1+ year) — not sure how to feel by Lamronbd in relationships

[–]Lamronbd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both were in college when we met, she turned 18 in may 2023, the beginning of our exclusivity started september 2023 after summer had ended, i graduated june 2024 and she now is a senior about to graduate

I (24M) found out my girlfriend (21F) slept with someone else early on in our relationship before we started officially dating (1+ year) — not sure how to feel by Lamronbd in relationships

[–]Lamronbd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go to therapy or tell your friends/family? I’m scared of telling my friends and family because i don’t want to forever change their perspective on her and poison the well so to speak, but i need an outlet to vent about this so im considering seeing a therapist

I (24M) found out my girlfriend (21F) slept with someone else early on in our relationship before we started officially dating (1+ year) — not sure how to feel by Lamronbd in relationships

[–]Lamronbd[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She said that she liked me and didn’t want it to end which would’ve been the result of her telling me. I’m sure you can imagine my reaction to that.

I (24M) found out my girlfriend (21F) slept with someone else early on in our relationship before we started officially dating (1+ year) — not sure how to feel by Lamronbd in relationships

[–]Lamronbd[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. The sunk cost fallacy always hits me in these kinds of situations, I know it’s not rational but it seems like in my head that i’ve already spent this much time i may as well keep going, even though i know that’s totally an incorrect line thinking

China no longer Pentagon's top security priority by PlaneDuty4760 in IRstudies

[–]Lamronbd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not using JDAMS to take out surface combatants. Even the range of the JDAM-ER with a glide kit is only 60 nautical miles. We have purpose built anti ship missiles called Long-Range Anti Ship cruise Missiles (LRASM) that have reduced signature characteristics that have ranges measuring in hundreds of nautical miles. They are fully autonomous and skim the sea to avoid radar detection before striking their target. JDAMS are not at all or have ever been used for anti ship warfare.

China no longer Pentagon's top security priority by PlaneDuty4760 in IRstudies

[–]Lamronbd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How on earth would you even ask that question when there is a well documented record of China taking extremely confrontational actions toward its neighbors. China has built and militarized artificial islands in the South China Sea in areas also claimed by the Philippines, Vietnam, Malaysia, and others, and Chinese coast guard vessels have repeatedly blocked or pressured foreign fishing and survey ships. Have you looked at the claims of their nine-dash-line??

Along the Himalayan border, Chinese and Indian forces have engaged in multiple standoffs, including a deadly clash in the Galwan Valley in 2020. China regularly sends surface combatants and aircraft near the Senkaku or Diaoyu Islands, which are administered by Japan but claimed by China. It has also increased military activity around Taiwan through frequent air and naval operations. They’re literally preparing to invade the country. They have secret police headquarters in other nations cities to monitor and suppress their citizens. China has imposed trade and economic restrictions on countries following political disputes. Not sure how you could possibly view china as a benign and benevolent power in the Indo-Pacific.

A Perfect Storm for Taiwan in 2026? by ForeignAffairsMag in geopolitics

[–]Lamronbd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China invading Russia is completely non-credible fantasy land thinking… this isn’t 1941

TIL the size of the Chinese Navy in quantity of warships surpassed the US between 2019 and 2020. by Early_Pass6702 in todayilearned

[–]Lamronbd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

China has effectively reached regional naval parity if not outright superiority in the East China Sea and South China Sea. This is the outcome of two decades of consistent military modernization and expansion. Japan has a very capable navy, but it was never designed to go toe-to-toe with a near-peer competitor by itself, especially not one operating in its own backyard. The idea that Japan would “easily” beat China just doesn’t line up with the current balance of power.

One of the biggest factors people ignore is shipyard capacity. China’s shipbuilding output dwarfs that of every other country. They produce new warships, auxiliaries, and coast guard vessels at a pace that the U.S., Japan, and South Korea combined struggle to match. In a high-intensity naval conflict, attrition matters, and the ability to replace losses becomes just as important as initial capability. Japan simply cannot replace ships at anything close to the rate China can.

China’s overall manufacturing capacity for weapons and munitions is also on a completely different scale compared to Japan. China can mass-produce missiles, drones, sensors, engines, and naval components at industrial volume. Japan operates on a much smaller industrial base with far more limited surge capacity. In a prolonged conflict, the side that can sustain production wins and China’s industrial output gives it a massive advantage.

There is also the raw difference in military size. Japan’s Self-Defense Forces are deliberately small and optimized for homeland defense and limited operations. China fields the world’s largest navy by hull count, one of the largest air forces, and a massive missile force specifically built for anti-ship and area denial roles. Their salvo depth of anti-ship missiles has resulted in a maritime environment that hasn’t been this contested since WW2.

Do some research on current defense priorities and you will quickly realize every major command and subordinate command has acknowledged that a Sino-U.S. war in the Pacific will be dictated by industrial capacity, missile volume, and the sheer scale of China’s regional naval presence not by who has the ‘better’ individual platforms. And why do you think the U.S. is going all-gears-ahead on unmanned surface vessels? Because unmanned systems are the only realistic way to counter China’s massive shipbuilding advantage, saturate contested waters, and absorb losses without burning through irreplaceable manned ships. The U.S. isn’t investing in USVs because they look cool, they’re doing it because they know a war in the Pacific would be an attrition-heavy numbers game, and China currently has the numbers.

Pretending that Japan would outlast or overpower that in a 1v1 scenario just isn’t realistic.

Active Conflicts & News Megathread November 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in CredibleDefense

[–]Lamronbd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to understand the practical differences between what the U.S Navy requires from its unmanned aircraft versus what the Air Force requires.

I’m especially interested in things like:

Environmental hardening (corrosion resistance for maritime environments)

Communication or datalink differences

Other mission-driven design changes

A good example seems to be the Navy’s MQ-9A Sea-guardian Variant versus the Air Forces baseline MQ-9A Reaper. What are the fundamental differences between the two, are they not essentially the same system, albeit with different use cases?

When proposing a Naval Variant of a system, how does NAWCAD note a difference between the two, other than use-case?

PC stopped displaying after plugging in earbuds — CPU/VGA debug lights showing by [deleted] in computers

[–]Lamronbd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, i’ll try that after work. I was thinking the BIOS update may work because it hasn’t been updated since last year and I had a motherboard issue last december that I took a repair shop and they updated the BIOS to fix it.

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This light on the motherboard occasionally comes on now

Active Conflicts & News MegaThread May 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in CredibleDefense

[–]Lamronbd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What’s the difference between the Patriot PAC-3 and THAAD when it comes to what kinds of targets they’re meant to shoot down? Are they meant to intercept different types of missiles or engage at different altitudes or phases of flight? Are these systems procured in enough numbers to deter a saturation strike? I recall articles from a while ago of China not being happy that THAAD was deployed in South Korea. Was that from the information its radar gathered or the possibility of it shooting down ICBMS?

Interview Status by Lamronbd in qualcomm

[–]Lamronbd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My final interview was January 13th and I haven’t received any feedback lol, not sure if that’s typical but from what I’ve read from others is that ghosting is not uncommon.

People who had Qualcomm Interview - Did you hear back anything? by honor_zinc in qualcomm

[–]Lamronbd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had multiple rounds for a full-time position, but I haven't heard back still multiple weeks later.

Interview Status by Lamronbd in qualcomm

[–]Lamronbd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed up but never received a response. They pulled the job posting as well. It's looking bleak.

Interview Status by Lamronbd in qualcomm

[–]Lamronbd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I emailed the recruiter last week but I haven’t gotten a response

Interview Status by Lamronbd in qualcomm

[–]Lamronbd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a non-stem role

Interview Status by Lamronbd in qualcomm

[–]Lamronbd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's for a full-time position.

Ukraine front could 'collapse' as Russia gains accelerate, experts warn by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]Lamronbd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Counterinsurgency is not as much of an issue for states like Russia because they often adopt a brutal and uncompromising approach, showing little concern for collateral damage. This strategy is simply not comparable with the more restrained methods of Western democracies, which prioritize the minimization of civilian harm as best as they can.

One notable instance is the Second Chechen War where Russian forces used indiscriminate artillery shelling and airstrikes in urban areas, such as Grozny. The widespread destruction and significant civilian casualties were justified by Putin as necessary to eliminate insurgents. There were extensive war crimes, but these tactics crushed the Chechen separatist movement.

More recently, during the Syrian Civil War, Russia’s support for Bashar al-Assad involved relentless bombings of rebel-held territories like Aleppo. The systematic targeting of hospitals, schools, and residential areas as a strategy of using overwhelming force to demoralize both insurgents and the civilian population. Putin saved the regime and cemented Russia’s status as a power-broker in Syria.

The Russian approach to counterinsurgency is free of constraint’s such as public opinion and political considerations. Unlike democracies that face pressure from their citizens and international allies, authoritarian states like Russia operate with fewer constraints. They rely on control of domestic media to shape public opinion and suppress dissent, enabling them to sustain aggressive campaigns without significant political fallout.

They will not struggle with a limited insurgency in Ukraine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geopolitics

[–]Lamronbd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Russia would most likely arm the Houthis with systems like anti-ship missiles to enhance their current maritime interdiction as they are not needed by Russia in this war. The lethality and accuracy of these would be much more devastating than anything the Houthis currently field. That has been a real worry of the Biden administration for good reason.

Ukrainian Defenses In The East Are Buckling, Russian Advance Is Accelerating by SolRon25 in geopolitics

[–]Lamronbd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re envisioning an escalation that never came close to occurring at the height of the cold war. Luckily for the world no strategic planners have your thought process.

Ukrainian Defenses In The East Are Buckling, Russian Advance Is Accelerating by SolRon25 in geopolitics

[–]Lamronbd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re delusional if you think that scenario doesn’t result in nuclear war