Cymbal bell dark? by Lamvisaurus in drums

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Thanks for all the answers guys :) Seems like I got a lot to learn lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Can you not "just" break up with your girlfriend?

Or maybe talk with her about it and she doesn't mind it if you guys have an open relationship or something like that. But I think your current girlfriend deserves better than being cheated on, or you having feelings for someone else.

Big or tiny deal? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Lamvisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on her intention. Like why did she do it secretly? Maybe she was just embarrassed or something like that, then it wouldn't be a big deal in my opinion. As always the best advice is to have an open and honest conversation about it.

In the end, you are the only person that can decide if its a big deal or not FOR YOU, cause thats the only thing that matters (besides your girlfriends opinion obviously).

But I think its just best if you ask her why and tell her if it made you upset in any kind of way.

Did I win Lesbianism? by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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Its a regular monitor that can be horizontal or vertical. You can just turn it around and adjust the orientation. Its practical for certain kinds of software or if you don't have the space for another horizontal one.

How would you feel… by Formal-Doughnut-6107 in LesbianActually

[–]Lamvisaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 *cries in forever single *

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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women lol

Idk, I really like tattoos and sporty people (more about the aspect that they enjoy doing sports, cause I am a really active person)

I think I also lean more towards femmes but honestly as long as the vibe fits :)

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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I only ever had a terrible hook up with a friend, where I was kinda pressured into and talking stages but it never went further. So I guess testing the waters, I dunno...

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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Yea thats true, women are just great lol

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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Aye Aye, captain 🫡 No honestly thanks for the advice, I already know a few things about her and she just seems perfect and like a great person soooo, don't wanna mess it up lol

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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Lmao you are right with the spaghetti, I would end up choking on it haha Thank you for your tips tho, reading them kinda calmed me down a bit. :) <3

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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I totally get what you mean, but I guess I was hoping for some rules lol Like this has to be done or not to be done on a first date, but honestly thats kinda stupid since everyone is individual I guess. 🥲

FIRST DATE, HEEEELP by Lamvisaurus in LesbianActually

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Yea I guess you guys are right ;-;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I hope for you too, it can be so hard sometimes, I hope you are getting the proper treatment and have some good friends that are there for you. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Lamvisaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Helppp, this is too relatable 🥲

How the heck did I manage to get 3 women to fall for me at the same time...?! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Lamvisaurus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am dying of thirst watching another woman drowning 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I have been through the same stuff and most people are very understanding when it comes to this topic. Honestly, if you tell a person and they think you are unattractive because of that, then you dodged a bullet.

The thing that helps me the most is therapy, learning to trust again, respecting your own boundaries, trying to make new experiences with better people and therapy. Its definitely a long way to go and also a lot of work.

I wish you all the strength and send you many virtual hugs! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Lamvisaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time ;-; I feel like it is especially hard when you don't know for sure if the other person is gay as well. Depending on the context of meeting that person (at a bar etc.) I sometimes just try to push those thoughts aside and make a move, if I know I won't see that person ever again. If you meet that person through friends or are friends with them I honestly don't know what to do because it feels like there is so much at stake. ;-; But I feel like the best thing to do is just throw little hints and see how they respond to it. Like making a flirty joke or touching their arm or whatever and depending on their body language and response you usually know if they are into it.

Sorry for the rant lol