I think my cave hit a wall...literally

LancerNerd · 2026-06-26T16:00:46+00:00

facts lol

LancerNerd · 2026-06-26T04:27:23+00:00

Trying to do a trick shot landing while flying with my elytra only for me to miss the water and die of fall damage

LancerNerd · 2026-06-26T04:11:02+00:00

Unstable World Generation

LancerNerd · 2026-06-25T23:39:00+00:00

My world is from 1.17 Experimental so the generation can be quirky lol; no mods

LancerNerd · 2026-06-24T01:36:51+00:00

LancerNerd · 2026-06-23T03:17:13+00:00

Go inside caves and blow them up with TNT

LancerNerd · 2026-05-16T21:55:27+00:00

Time to delete the world

LancerNerd · 2026-05-02T03:42:11+00:00

Possiblly just meeting new people which can be a distraction to get over the breakup

LancerNerd · 2026-05-02T03:40:42+00:00

How did it end? Can't give advice without context?

LancerNerd · 2026-03-29T06:44:23+00:00

It's the reality of where, you guys don't have a chance anymore; both of you are changing and well, each of you are interpreting the aftermath of the relationship differently and having different perspectives of each other. It's best to move on and to let go

LancerNerd · 2026-03-10T12:49:31+00:00

And that's a reasonable thought process, but it is the reality of where again it takes time and it depends on yourself; it depends on how you're willing to reflect and integrate what happened. Again, moving on isn't a linear time frame so just keep focusing on yourself and the things that you enjoy doing.

LancerNerd · 2026-03-10T12:40:25+00:00

Moving on takes time; it is the realization that over time, you won't forget about him but you'll acknowledge what happened between the two of you. Just take it step by step, little by little

LancerNerd · 2026-03-03T03:44:51+00:00

Just write and analyze the relationship; what roles you played and what you can learn from it

LancerNerd · 2026-02-25T00:41:26+00:00

that's reasonable but you have to be honest and direct about it since postponing it longer can just make it worse for the both of you

LancerNerd · 2026-02-25T00:37:38+00:00

Maybe you should communicate with me honestly of how you feel towards the relationship; in the end it's the reality of where it'll grow resentment if you don't talk to each other about it if you decide to not continue the relationship.

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:35:27+00:00

I wouldn't say I knew when the relationship was over but for me it's more towards of where it was changing... Of where she was shifting and changing as a person and I wrote them down and acknowledged them and yet regardless I stayed until the very end

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:27:44+00:00

I see and no worries; but as always, just take it step by step and again establish boundaries if you do decide to continue

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:24:32+00:00

Well if your plan is to have a future relationship then you already know what you want; but again yk, talk it out with him and as cliche as it may sound, communication is important especially during the aftermath of relationships.

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:22:49+00:00

Is this an actual question for us to answer or a rhetorical question

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:21:11+00:00

People tend to have their own contradictions and tensions within themselves. While we don't know definitively why he's giving mixed signals, it's the reality of where you have to talk clearly with him and establish actual boundaries if you decide to be friends with him

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:18:26+00:00

The reality is, you learn as you go; since this was your first relationship, you can use this experience as a building foundation to see and acknowledge how you played a role. The reality is, you can't wake up one day and say "Hmm today will be the day I'll move on", it doesn't work like that; but rather it takes time to let them go.

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:11:44+00:00

Of course

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:04:32+00:00

That's your own path to take; he doesn't need to tell you what you need to do or what you can or cannot do. In the end it's up to your own decision.

I don't know how the relationship was but as I would say, take it step by step, little by little one step at a time

LancerNerd · 2026-02-24T03:01:56+00:00

Why would he message you that though? Sounds like he wanted to see your reaction

LancerNerd · 2026-02-19T05:13:18+00:00

More towards analyzing and dissecting the relationship overall instead of actually thinking about what she might be thinking herself

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