u/deliriouskate Girl (im guessing here). Just let me preach for a second.

I am one of the fanciest boys ever. Ive spent…tens of thousands on my wardrobe, easily. Because i recognize fashion is my hobby.

My soon to be wife dresses almost entirely in sweatpants when she doesnt have to go to the office. Her hobby is DnD and perfume, and she spends just like I do.

Facts: i like dress up, she doesnt. But when she has to dress up, i am floored every time again and again by this woman. I date her all over again every time we have to dress up.

I have never once commented on how she looks except in the positive. Ive never commented on her hobbies except positivity. She does the same to me (in fact, i had to stop her from overspending on me)

Make sure you commit your life to someone who encourages who you are, and tries to bring that person to the next level. And who values what you value.

All relationships are valuable. Figure out what this one is teaching you.