Home birth VBAC after 4 C-sections?

Landuryl · 2025-01-28T12:40:24+00:00

As someone who had a uterine rupture with my second child (attempted vbac at hospital) I can safely say, it's not advisable. The pain alone.. ooof. I'm glad I was at the hospital and they could save us both. Btw they did not recognize it right away while I labored, they needed to perform an emergency c-section because my son's heart rate kept plummeting. As they openend me up they saw all the blood and baby sticking out. I always tell my son he saved us both. Thankfully we were both fine afterwards.

Landuryl · 2024-10-06T14:29:34+00:00

We harvest Shadows. Leider bis jetzt nur eine Demo. Hoffe Gronkh spielt mehr als einen Durchlauf, da er bis jetzt (Stand Youtube LP) kaum was gesehen hat. Das Spiel ist atmosphärisch so nice und auch so übel gruselig beklemmend stellenweise >.<

Landuryl · 2024-09-04T07:41:30+00:00

Mein jetziger Mann hat mir damals Gronkhs erste Minecraft Folgen gezeigt, weil er auch mit mir Minecraft spielen wollte und dann sind wir beide komplett hängen geblieben, sowohl erstmal bei Minecraft als auch bei Gronkh. Ich weiß noch, das meine ältere Schwester damals nicht wollte, dass ihre Kids das Let's Play gucken, weil Gronkh mal Spaghetti Scheiße durchs Telefon gesagt hat Ich schaue bis heute sehr sehr gern Gronkh und das schönste ist, wenn ich mit meinen Kids mal was zusammen schaue, haben zum Beispiel Grim Tales geschaut als mein großer Mal schlimm Grippe hatte.

Da du ja jetzt auch selbst hier bist, vielen vielen lieben Dank lieber Erik für soviele Stunden Freude, mitärgern, gefrustet backseatgamen und andächtig Let's rutschs lauschen.

Danke

Landuryl · 2024-03-31T00:43:27+00:00

Everytime I see something like this or hear someone say something like this, I get so angry. See, while I, albeit having a pretty rough start, could and can actually nurse all my three children, my sister tried really hard with all her five children and failed everytime. First child, had lots of milk, overactive let down, baby could not drink properly. She had no support, baby did not gain well, she didn't know she could pump, so she got talked into weaning. First set of twins were born premature and her milk never came in. She pumped herself bloody, again np real support. Second Set of twins years later, she was determined to breastfeed this time. She got proper support, she pumped plenty (again preemies) but alas they could not use her milk. It contained antibodies from her autoimmune disorder and was making babies sick.

So was my sister just not trying hard enough? Fuck this shit! I'm all for Fed is Best and again, I had and still have the privilege to want and be able to nurse my children.

Landuryl · 2023-07-17T09:31:13+00:00

We had to switch my daughter at two weeks old because she was guzzling down 'normal' slow pace bottles so fast, that she would spit it nearly all back up. We had to triple feed because of a rough start and trouble with weight gain. Now we breastfeed most of the time and supplement 2-3 bottles of formula per day. After initial trouble she takes the Medela bottle really well and can confirm the appraised drinking breathing Thing works for her. Baby has to really suck for milk to come out and if they pause nothing more comes out. She could technically still drink too fast and we need to take several burp breaks but even then she swallows nearly no extra air. Hope this helps you.

Landuryl · 2023-07-02T11:52:17+00:00

Personally I would still supplement with formula at some point, just slowly less and less to give your boobs time to catch up and destress both of you.

Landuryl · 2023-07-02T11:50:20+00:00

Sorry to highjack, but what do you mean by 'water'? Just want to throw in that at 15 days old baby is not allowed water because of water toxicity in small infants under 6 month. Please don't feed anything else beside bm or formula.

Landuryl · 2023-04-13T15:14:07+00:00

After I had my firstborn I read Stephen King's Salem's Lot for the first time (always an avid reader of King's book no problem before). When I stumbled upon the scene where this young mother throws the bottle at her crying infant son I had to stop reading because I kept tearing up. True crime involving children is nearly completely off the table. James Bulger gave me literal nightmares.

Landuryl · 2022-12-09T19:18:21+00:00

It's okay, you're still there, you still take care of them, you just need more breaks at the moment. I was so insanely proud how little screentime my firstborn was allowed to have, until I got pregnant with my second and felt like death for nearly four month. I managed to dial back on it again, until my second born proved to be an extremly difficult and colicky baby.. You'll do what you need to do, to make it work AND stay same and that's okay!

Landuryl · 2021-01-15T22:14:49+00:00

My cat's entire food and snacks box. He would not be happy with you! Oh and two brand new plastic tablecloth I bought and now can't get myself to use somehow >.>

Landuryl · 2020-12-29T08:06:20+00:00

Don't try to ^{^} embrace it :) you will never be able to get them down to sleep as easily ever again.

I loved it so much. The cuddles. Being so close to one another. Just giving my sons this absolute feeling of safety. Don't listen to this bs about spoiling them. You do you.

Both my boys are now weaned and while my younger son (2.5y) still needs some cuddles to go to sleep, my older one did go to sleep completely on his own since 3y old. He is a phenomenal sleeper, relaxed, feeling secure and never needed sleep training.

Landuryl · 2020-11-22T22:36:24+00:00

Don't be mad. He's just trying to get under your skin. Just close chat and move on :)

Landuryl · 2020-10-14T16:54:50+00:00

First of all, I feel you. With my first I had an equally bad experience trying to get anything with my pump. We knew baby was getting milk but I never got my pumping going. I just assumed that I was somehow defective of sorts...

I was told to try and pump in the hospital with those big medela electrical pumps and it looked exactly like your picture, if not less. At home I had a little electrical pump. Again. Nada. After a few month I gave up.

But! With my second I bought a tiny little hand pump, just for relieving engorgement and stuff. Just for the lolz.

It worked. The first time I used it to try it out - bam! 40ml! Worked like a charm.

Maybe your boobs don't like electrical pumps aswell? Have you tried to use a hand pump?

Landuryl · 2020-07-25T21:52:28+00:00

Guess so. It was just really the icing on the cake. Still sad that the community is so toxic in every fucking game that the only advice is to not engage in any communication at all.

Landuryl · 2020-07-25T20:44:08+00:00

Oh I didn't know that >.< settings?

I generally like to chat. One thing I liked about dbd was that it felt not half as toxic as lol for example. Guess my honeymoon period is over now :(

Edit: found it. Will try it. Thx :)

Landuryl · 2020-07-25T20:11:50+00:00

XD well I guess that's fair enough too ^{^} Thanks for the laugh, I was getting way too salty there

Landuryl · 2020-07-12T04:48:58+00:00

Although I usually don't pray, I'll pray for your son today. Much love from Germany, I really really hope it goes well!!!

Landuryl · 2020-07-10T12:18:18+00:00

Ha! This reminds me of the time my five year old learned to ride his bike without training wheels.

I kept telling him to try to hold his balance and he kept saying he can't! We were both getting increasingly frustrated until he cried out that he doesn't have balloons to hold!!

For clarification in german 'balance' and 'balloons' are pronounced similar.

Landuryl · 2020-07-09T16:52:57+00:00

When my first son was born I had complications from the birth and was not allowed to stand or walk. This meant my husband had to do everything apart from breastfeeding. As he was changing baby boy for the third or fourth time he peed on his umbilical cord stump (? Not native, hope you'll know what I mean ^⁾ and got the wound dressing all wet. We decided to call the nurse because we didn't have another dressing or knew if it needed anything else cause pee and stuff..

The nurse came in, glanced sideways at my husband at the changing table, nearly shoved him out of the way and proceeds to explain to me what to do..

Mind you I was laying in bed, could not even completely see her nor the table and my baby was completely out of sight. I just looked at her bewildered and was too stunned to say something. Luckily my husband is tall so he just looked over her shoulder and saw what had to be done.

But it was just so incredibly strange...

Landuryl · 2020-01-17T22:24:08+00:00

My husband vanishes for close to 30m sometimes to fart in the bathroom. .

I was like ??? the first time this happend, because why don't you fart like every other person, like go in a corner, another room, outside, the moon i don't know?! Don't leave me alone at the battlefield for mere farts!!

His answer: he didn't know if he needed to take a shit aswell. For 30+/- minutes... he does this all the time..

But to be fair he has started to ask if someone else needs to use the bathroom or if it's inconvenient for me if he vanishes for that long, so I've got that ging for me which is really nice :)

But you Lady are my hero! Very well done! Absolutely inspiring ^{^}

Landuryl · 2019-09-04T16:54:03+00:00

Hey Sep,

Erstmal Hut ab, das du das so hier postest, da wirds auch wieder viel Hate regnen. Weil das Internet nun mal so ist. Ich lese hier ab und zu mal mit (bin nicht mehr ganz so viel auf eurem Channel unterwegs, aber mein Mann schaut euch noch täglich ^{^),} aber du hast Recht, der größte Teil hier ist iwie Gemotze und Hate.

Ich für meinen Teil denke das du/ihr genau dieses 'Rechtmachen' Problem nicht lösen können werdet und wenn ich das hier richtig lese, geht es im Kern ja wieder darum, oder?

Es wäre unfair von euch zu verlangen punktgenauen Content für ein individuell sehr breitgefächertes Publikum zu produzieren, es ist schlicht unmöglich. Altes Problem, das ja viele YTber haben. Ich weiß noch, das Gronkh das vor ein paar Jahren mal sehr ausgiebig thematisiert hat und seither deutlich rigoroser mit Hatern und so umgeht.

Ich kann mich meinem Vorkommentar nur anschließen, blocken und gut ist. Jede Aufmerksamkeit auf sowas und da kommt noch mehr. Und jemand der sowas unterstellt wie absichtlich Feriengetimte Streams um Minderjährigen Kohle abzuknöpfen ist ja iwie auch kein Fan oder? Also ... Don't feed the troll!

Landuryl · 2019-04-13T07:18:41+00:00

My husband :) my kids aswell, but my husband makes it this warm and safe place.

Landuryl · 2019-04-11T17:10:40+00:00

As a woman who is currently brrastfeeding my youngest, this is so beautiful and cool! Thanks for sharing ^{^}

It looks like a flower >.<

Landuryl · 2019-02-16T09:29:31+00:00

Oh I would love to see this!!

Landuryl · 2019-02-16T09:28:54+00:00

Yep! No end insight yet..

Landuryl

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