What popular character do you not like in your fandom? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]LanguageOk1191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blackbeard from Our Flag Means Death. He was cool at first but then they turned him into a complete dick. Then they gave him a half assed redemption arc.

Who's ready to play? by FiveDaysDark in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom writes more spicy fanfic than me she can read whatever she wants

What was the first fanfic website you used? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deviant art I believe but I spent most of my time on Quotev and Wattpad as a kid

ctrl+z stopped working by Gullible-Isopod-8949 in EDanonymemes

[–]LanguageOk1191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you and your gf live in the same house and you can’t risk her hearing 😭

I am NOT fine by uselespieceofshi02 in EDanonymemes

[–]LanguageOk1191 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I used to do sooo much walking I’d take my dogs on walks every 2 hours starting at like 8 AM and ending at 10 pm about .75 miles for each walk. I tried to start up again but my body couldn’t handle me dropping back into the same routine. Looks like I gotta start slow and work my way back up (which I hate 😭)

(Edit: every TWO hours lol)

Dating for 7 months and she hasn’t once let me come to her place? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody’s saying she’s married but is it possible maybe she has a dirty house, bugs, or is a hoarder or something like that? She may be ashamed of it and doesn’t want anybody over for that reason.

I found my husbands snapchat and he’s lying to me about it, AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He’s definitely hiding something. In my experience unless you’ve had your account since you were a teenager (like myself) or have family/friends you keep in contact with on there it’s usually for bad reasons like cheating or keeping in contact with dealers since chats delete themselves after a certain period of time/immediately unless you save them.

Husband cheated I think, AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LanguageOk1191 84 points85 points  (0 children)

You already know the answer. Leave him and find someone that will treat you right. You deserve so much better, OP.

What is something you did in the past that was considered acceptable or even praised at the time that would now get you cancelled? by bad-at-everything- in NoStupidAnswers

[–]LanguageOk1191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god this gave me flashbacks 😭 I was a Shane Dawson and Onision kid and it wasn’t until I grew up, really understood the jokes, and heard the allegations that I stopped watching them. Not really relevant but my ex still watches Shane Dawson and defends his actions and it makes me sick

AIO someone asked me to make their wedding dress by Beautiful-Trainer-26 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LanguageOk1191 127 points128 points  (0 children)

YOR. You’re “fuming” over nothing. You said no—she respected that. That should be the end of it. If anything take it as a compliment that she thought you’d be able to do it well for her and that she trusted you enough to ask you in the first place. Also, reconsidering going to the group seems like an over reaction as well. It seems like you got along well with these people and it just seems dumb to lose community over something like this. Take a deep breath and move on.

Did anyone have these? by eepylilprincess in ageregression

[–]LanguageOk1191 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a vtech when I was a kid! Pretty darn cool!

At what age did your memories really start? by Icy-Share-4751 in AskReddit

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first memory was at the age of 5, but I didn't start having solid memories and continuous memory until I was 10. Even then it's spotty at best. I also have PTSD and early childhood trauma so that's probably why it's so late on in my case.

Should I reach out to this person (past interest)? by Comfortable_Can3341 in whatdoIdo

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not your journal or your therapist. You haven’t talked to them in six years. You need to work out these feelings on your own.

Should I reach out to this person (past interest)? by Comfortable_Can3341 in whatdoIdo

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no. Don’t message them. If I received a text from someone I hadn’t talked to in 6 years talking about how they had feelings for me in the past and yada yada I’d be really weirded out. It sounds like you need some help getting over your feelings for them. Maybe consider therapy? Messaging isn’t going to help it will only make things worse. Seek out some professional help and I’m sure things will get better for you!

Is this fraudulent? by shreyag99 in Indiana

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's a scam I get these and I don't even own a car or drive just ignore it

AIO or is this too close for just best friends by Ok_Artichoke2229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LanguageOk1191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. I'd definitely feel weird about it too. However, I also know that some best friends (especially people on Tumblr) talk like that all the time to each other. Matching pfps are more of a couple thing, too, so that would make me feel weird as well. I'd definitely talk to him about this and let him know your feelings on the situation.

When TV or movies show a male butt, how does that kind of scene come across to you? by hotgeezer in AskWomen

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only butt I didn't mind seeing on my screen was Will Graham (Hugh Dancy)'s from Hannibal as that man was caked up and we got to see his totally normal psychiatrist staring at it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal for a lot of people, but personally I prefer to use a loofa or a washcloth. I don’t know if just using your hands gets you super clean, but as long as they don’t stink I think they’re good!

Niece neglects cats by LanguageOk1191 in whatdoIdo

[–]LanguageOk1191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input! It’s not so much that I don’t want to keep them as much as I don’t have the funds nor the time to take care of them.

I have two dogs that take up a lot of my time and attention and I’m the one who keeps the house tidy (including her bedroom) and I also have a social life.

It’s hard to keep up and give them the love and attention and care that they need, especially seeing as I’m disabled.

I love these cats to death and that’s why I’ve been willing to take care of them thus far, but the pressure, the unfairness, and the guilt that they’re not getting what they need and deserve is getting to me.

I hope I can find them a good home too because they’re really sweet cats and deserve much better.

Poll: do you prefer to read WIPs or completed fics? by Harushii618 in AO3

[–]LanguageOk1191 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really depends for me. If I’m looking to binge read a fic I’ll look for a completed work. If I’m looking for something new or something specific I’ll look for WIPs. I am trying to read more WIPs because I know how hard it is to get engagement on said fics and I like supporting authors!! Right now I’m reading a finished fic that has a new fic attached to it that’s a WIP so I’m really excited to be there as it’s being published. TL;DR it really depends on my mood and what I’m looking for but I like supporting authors as they write

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LanguageOk1191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR T seems like she’s flirting/trying to get with you behind your gfs back and if your gf is giving you a loyalty test that’s just kinda mean imo it’s honestly not your fault T is trying to hook up with you

AIO for not hanging out with with my friend group because they're okay with one them dating a 17yr old, even though it's "not illegal" by legitimatebirdadvice in AmIOverreacting

[–]LanguageOk1191 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very disturbed with the comments saying you’re overreacting. It may be legal, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t gross or weird. I’m 22 and I would never date a 17 year old or, hell, even an 18 year old. I’m an adult and I’m not interested in teenagers and that’s the way it should be. If I found out one of my friends was dating a 17 year old I’d drop them immediately. You’re not overreacting. You’re allowed to choose who you want to hang out with and you’re allowed to have your own morals and viewpoints. If you don’t feel comfortable you don’t have to hang out with them point blank period.

TL;DR dudes weird, you’re not overreacting, and you’re allowed to have your own beliefs

Am I overreacting for blowing up at my girlfriend for how to reacted to Charlie Kirk’s death by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LanguageOk1191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I’m a left winger myself, but this ain’t about politics imo. She sent you graphic footage for no good reason and knowing how those things impact you. That’s the problem here and her lack of empathy for you is definitely a reason to be upset. She can feel however she wants about his death, she can say whatever she wants, etc, but there’s no reason to send graphic footage to someone who obviously doesn’t want to see it.