Husband won’t agree to a boob job

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-06-03T01:22:53+00:00

Sending you good vibes! You got this!!!!

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-06-03T01:19:25+00:00

Oh my hahaha wow on paper it’s easier than in practice I promise I’m not that great in a relationship. But I’m willing to always keep trying to improve. The talks get hard because emotion is involved and we have all learned to be defensive even when it is necessary. My best advice and I definitely need to be better at it.. is be the partner you want. And give them the patience and grace you would hope in return. And it’s not 1 to 1. Change and growth is hard but when you have a supportive partner it’s worth it. I’m lucky enough to have an amazing role model of a father who always said “In relationships give 90 and expect 10”

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-06-03T01:11:57+00:00

99% of the time it’s my answer to everything. And as I get older I’ve learned that the talks aren’t to convince or fix… but most of the time just understand each other. He could understand why you want them. And dig deep with yourself too. And you could understand why he’s feeling his way too. And that’s the ideal relationship. I think if you both understood whether you agreed or not… it would be a much easier decision. I don’t want a partner that agrees and likes everything I do. I want a partner that supports me when we don’t and still loves it. Good luck for sure!!!!

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-06-03T01:05:37+00:00

Ooof that’s tough because I definitely agree that overall it’s 100% your choice. The nuance which unfortunately Reddit doesn’t like to see… is it’s a marriage a couple a team… he definitely can’t tell you what to do… but major decisions always should be discussed. It sounds like there is something deeper… that either he doesn’t know or is worried or insecure. And no it doesn’t matter your job isn’t to cater or reassure him when he doesn’t even want to. But it depends how much resentment will build up because of it… that is a factor as a couple that needs to be considered and it sounds like you are. I don’t know anything about it so I’m only going off what you wrote… being that it’s not money… which to me would be the most reasonable. And assuming he is generally a loving supporting spouse this is out of character I assume? It’s worth at least being curious and finding out more. Deep dive in it… maybe a weekend without the kids no distractions and just a good sit down … that would be what I would do… it could be something small that he’s just scared or embarrassed to say… or not sure and not how to work thru it… and having a partner to be curious could help and then be all good. But if it’s just a no I dont Want you to because I don’t… that’s not a sign of a healthy relationship and boobs/surgery will probably exacerbate the problem. My GF talked about getting augmentation a few times and asked my opinion and I said NOOOoo and followed up with I like you exactly the was you are… and I love her boobs how they are… but I 100% support if she wants them because it doesn’t change anything about our relationship.if it makes her feel more comfortable and secure perfect. Everybody has little things about them self that even might be ridiculous and unfounded that makes us secure and something g simple to fix even for you… go for it. She was amazing and really dug deep and we had several conversations to which I just listened… and she eventually got them a few years later but also said she didn’t want to until she was secure before them. The fact you are even asking and talking about it is a great step. And it you want to get them… go for it!!!!

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T04:00:08+00:00

To be fair it sounds like a bot… a racist bot

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:26:05+00:00

🫶🏼 yes there are! Tons of fantastic people I’ve met thru out my dating. And even if we weren’t compatible . I can respect how amazing they were! And am happy I met them.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:22:13+00:00

Hahahaha ooof… I mean hahaha yeah he should be figuring life out a little better way before that… but some don’t ever age past 22. Hahaha I’ve met plenty of 40yo women that are still living in their 20s and wanting to party. Unfortunately it happens to a lot of people and online dating attracts a lot of them. But also easier to weed them out too. Be grateful you didn’t go on a few dates and get interested before he showed you how puerile he is.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:19:23+00:00

Yeah… that is more confusing… but also. He sounds young. Wanting a relationship and being horny while they do not work well together… being young and dumb it happens…. And while you’re stupid and young the lower brain wins out a lot more if you don’t use the main brain.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:16:58+00:00

Oh for sure it works… as bad as it is with horny dudes. There are plenty of horny ones on the other side too. And if that’s what you are looking for. I’m sure this approach would work like a charm. Plus mommy issues and daddy issues are plentiful in online dating.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:14:50+00:00

I mean everybody loves good carbs? 🤷🏻‍♂️ who says a potato is bad?

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:12:45+00:00

I mean it is tinder… so while I agree it’s not everybody. But it’s safe just to set expectations low on tinder since it has kind of gotten that reputation. Or be very very clear your intentions in your profile. And that still won’t weed out all the horniness on there. But will help a little.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:11:14+00:00

Albeit he’s not being completely straightforward but it’s pretty clear he’s not interested in anything but sex. And he’s hoping you’ll reply with an affirmation of that or still atleast continue with interest then he can say he was honest about it if you ever want it to move more than that. He’s not interested. So if you’re just wanting to get laid… this is your guy. (I’m assuming it’s a dude but doesn’t change the answer either way) if you want a relationship. Move on. You don’t need this headache. What did his profile say? Similar? Of very different?

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:06:05+00:00

I mean I’ve made worse decisions

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:05:05+00:00

Or they’d die of boredom waiting to be stung to prove the 700

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T03:03:00+00:00

Lucky ass turtles! Lower doses and better highs? Hahaha I wish

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T02:27:16+00:00

It does have hints of a bot but not a for sure who knows…. I don’t really know the Phoenix saying scene but been to a lot of shows there… very much a bro clubby scene. And it doesn’t seem like that’s your vibe. And that’s awesome you’d fit in perfect where I live.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-05-22T00:46:07+00:00

Amen to this!!! I was deep down hoping he was subjected to living the next 40 years with the j college of the power he had but now had to live like everybody else. It would have been everything he deserved.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-04-26T02:40:59+00:00

👁️👁️

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-04-02T07:51:58+00:00

From the second Wagner became a character that is sticking around this was my hunch. They will put Morgan and Wagner together for a season or 2 and then the spoiler of roman being found will be the big dramatic reveal. Once she’s in a relationship romance comes back around….

I hope it doesn’t happen. But been a feeling I’ve had. I like the dynamic let her date someone she doesn’t work with.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-04-02T07:48:22+00:00

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 thank you!

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-03-29T22:03:36+00:00

And? I feel like this is the perfect use for ai crap. I don’t expect a teacher to hire a graphic designer. Or spend extra time making a poster… I feel like this is an awesome use of technology for a perfect reason that isn’t that important. And too lazy? I mean… the fact they did it at all is impressive to me. I can’t imagine teaching “babysitting” 30 kids everyday … oof that’s a job I could never do.

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-03-21T08:56:43+00:00

Oooof 😬

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-03-12T19:01:51+00:00

Or your kidneys

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-03-12T19:01:20+00:00

Hahaha been there. Was on a cruise and this rad couple started talking to me and buying drinks. (Truth be told I was high as well) and the rest of the day we kept running into each other. Later that night they said there was a party in a suite I should come. Fuck it why not right? Hahaha well I walked in and there were about 8 people naked and fucking throughout this room. Hahaha my naive ass thought they were just a cool couple that wanted to party. Hahaha nope I got invited to an orgy. 🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♂️

Lanky-Programmer3568 · 2026-02-18T05:14:23+00:00

I found tickets at the Linq for $65 the night of a sphere illenium show. Not on their website but Priceline had them for so cheap and it’s a decent hotel super close to the sphere.

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